posted August 09, 2021 01:50 PM            

I met someone who was deceitful towards me because they were lying to themselves and unrealistic about life and their state of being. They admitted to inadvertently lying to me because they couldn't acknowledge the truth about what was happening with their mental health. And then they 'woke up' through meeting me. It was very unpleasant and disappointing.

I also met someone prior to this who was very unrealistic and deceptive, but not to the same intensity or degree. It was more of a general slyness and cunning vs. being borderline delusional. The most recent ex was definitely living in a candy floss fantasy world and tried to rope me into it, and when I protested against their unrealism ... the entire relationship broke down.

I've also struggled with classic issues that come with this transit such as having a leaky bathroom sink that can't be fixed due to an installation error, confusion about what my family is going to do with their lives, and unusual allergies.

posted August 09, 2021 02:04 PM            

Look at what other transits are 'supporting' this revelation about people (you had trusted?).

Moon Virgo is Earth.
Pluto in Capricorn.
Uranus in Taurus...
Making supportive trines?

At least YOU sound quite grounded, in that your own mental health has remained spared! (That's good news!)

Has the effects of Pluto providing a trine with your Moon been grounding to your emotions?

Consider that Uranus is now midway and hanging out in mid-Taurus, later to slowly come to a trine with your Moon. .. I read about it, and 'that' will also keep you on good grounding. Yay. It's dubbed as "Graceful Changes" in your personal life. You can 'get rid of unconscious attitudes, habits, and routines' during this transit that would otherwise be harder to do.
Looks positive.

You'll (hopefully) be able to 'trust' your OWN reality through this. You'll lead, actually, because if people are like this, and don't realize it, you'll be more able to bring them to closer to pieces of 'truth' where they-themselves can start being 'aware' of real reality!

You're lucky...
Use your awareness as a way to navigate your own life, and gently nudge others with sane advice.

posted August 09, 2021 07:02 PM            

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Originally posted by mirage29:
Oceansofstars -- Wow!
Better to be 'seeing' things like this now.
To me, that's good news!
Surprising yes, but be thankful for the clearing sight--

Look at what other transits are 'supporting' this revelation about people (you had trusted?).

Moon Virgo is Earth.
Pluto in Capricorn.
Uranus in Taurus...
Making supportive trines?

At least YOU sound quite grounded, in that your own mental health has remained spared! (That's good news!)

Has the effects of Pluto providing a trine with your Moon been grounding to your emotions?

Consider that Uranus is now midway and hanging out in mid-Taurus, later to slowly come to a trine with your Moon. .. I read about it, and 'that' will also keep you on good grounding. Yay. It's dubbed as "Graceful Changes" in your personal life. You can 'get rid of unconscious attitudes, habits, and routines' during this transit that would otherwise be harder to do.
Looks positive.

You'll (hopefully) be able to 'trust' your OWN reality through this. You'll lead, actually, because if people are like this, and don't realize it, you'll be more able to bring them to closer to pieces of 'truth' where they-themselves can start being 'aware' of real reality!

You're lucky...
Use your awareness as a way to navigate your own life, and gently nudge others with sane advice.

Remember, the others probably don't 'know' their own condition.
(Be kind.)

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Thank you for these very uplifting and encouraging words. It's what I needed to see/hear today.

I just feel like transiting Pluto opp. my natal Mars in Cancer is also really bringing to the forefront how I tend to attract unstable and wishy-washy partners. It's exhausting. Not all of them have been that way, to be fair to myself, but a good %. I think it reflects how I need to more clearly define my own boundaries, values, and needs...and the kind of relationship I want.

Pluto is no longer making a close trine to my Moon. It's just about over. But I like the idea of Uranus slowly trining my Moon since I am making a big move in my life within the next 6 months. I'm going to a completely different coast and starting anew, and it's all thanks to my job (Uranus is also in my 6H right now). It affords me the flexibility to go anywhere in the U.S. that I want, and I need healthy change.

posted August 10, 2021 06:07 PM            

The transit can seem to bring into question the certainty of your needs in favor of what others want, their ideals or fantasies. So good for you for seeing through it and staying true.

The point is not to suffer, but to learn through the emotions. Any Neptune-Moon combination highlights the emotional nuances that might often get overlooked or avoided. I've seen tough men unable to cry until they went through this transit.

posted August 13, 2021 04:00 PM            

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Originally posted by oceansofstars:
Well, folks...this transit is no joke. I have Neptune opposing my Virgo Moon+Chiron right now. And the whole bit about meeting people who are deceptive and play with your emotions is real. Be wary!

I met someone who was deceitful towards me because they were lying to themselves and unrealistic about life and their state of being. They admitted to inadvertently lying to me because they couldn't acknowledge the truth about what was happening with their mental health. And then they 'woke up' through meeting me. It was very unpleasant and disappointing.

I also met someone prior to this who was very unrealistic and deceptive, but not to the same intensity or degree. It was more of a general slyness and cunning vs. being borderline delusional. The most recent ex was definitely living in a candy floss fantasy world and tried to rope me into it, and when I protested against their unrealism ... the entire relationship broke down.

I've also struggled with classic issues that come with this transit such as having a leaky bathroom sink that can't be fixed due to an installation error, confusion about what my family is going to do with their lives, and unusual allergies.

Any advice about how to get through the rest of this sh/tty transit?

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I made a post about Nep on my Jup. It is just awful.