posted August 11, 2021 05:24 AM            

The day afterwards I went back and he started flirting even more boldly. It was very bold. Hugging me, kissing me, telling my mother (who was with me) that he loved me. His collègues even had to drag him away from me. I heard them say "don't go there"
He even went to call his wife, and then coming back and starting flirting again.

It was really strange! Never been hit on by someone so boldly. I found him annoying, but also charming and entertaining. I liked the attention, being a venus in Leo. I really like attention. And I really like warm and spontaneous people. But I know very few people who are that expressive, and I liked it very much.

I Google him and apparently he has a venus in aries. Exactly conjunct my moon in aries. I never had a Moon-venus conjunction. But it was also venus square uranus, because I have moon square uranus.

Now I have read that venus in aries people can be very bold, and like to chase. So he probably does this a lot? He has mars in cancer square his venus. How does a venus in aries with a cancer in Mars play out?

Anyway, i would like to be friends with him. Not dating obviously. But my moon in aries is my weak spot in astrology. It is on my IC and opposite my mars in libra and sun in libra. And for some reason it gives me a lot of trouble, I often feel that there is no place for me in this world because of my moon in aries nature. It is just so emotional and unrestrained. My emotions are sometimes more like an animal or a baby. No that I have had a baby I just recognize so much of my emotional nature in my baby.Very primal, so much that I just cannot function in this world. Also childish and very playful.
I would be nice to be friend with someone who can understand my emotional nature, so that there is no shame or insecurity. I am also very friendly and warm, but being from country famous for its cold population I crave warmth so much. I just really like warm-hearted, friendly people, and there are so few.

posted August 11, 2021 07:07 AM            

No, Venus in Aries is not loyal. They do not have the capacity to be. But within the disloyal signs, they are the most loyal.

The loyal signs are:
1. Taurus
2. Scorpio
3. Leo

The fairly loyal signs are:
1. Cancer
2. Capricorn
3. Virgo

posted August 11, 2021 07:18 AM            

I have known four people closely that have Venus in Aries and they have all pursuit their love interest very differently and I think in line with thei mars sign. I have to say that all have been very faithful/loyal in the relationship:

- My boyfriend in University was a triple Aries,with sun, moon and venus in aries, but with mars in aquarius. He's in his 40s now and has been in only long term relationships. With all three relationships, he was definitely not the one chasing the women, on the contrary, it was quite the opposite and he was not Brad Pitt or some drop dead gorgeous guy which would indicate he didnt' 'need to'. He was extremely passive, not only with me, but with all his other seriou girlfriends as well. I would say if he pursuit me at all than it was with a kind of 'friends first' tactic and I think that fits his mars in aquarius.

My father is another Venus in aries, with sun in taurus, moon in cancer and mars in scorpio. He is extremely plutonic and I think his mars in scorpio is at the core of all of his actions, romantic and otherwise. He met my mother at a dance in the 70s and she was this incredibly shy girl and really not interested, but he pursuit her relentlessly and basically bulldozed her into a relationship. Again very much in line with his mars in scorpio. As far as I can tell he has been faithful for as long as my Mum lived. Very narcissistic personality.

My Uncle, who has unfortunately already passed, was also a sun in taurus, with moon and venus in aries and mars in taurus. He was clear about his interest in my aunt when they met (also at a dance), but pursuit her with a kind of stubborn pride. Not with the kind of obsessive focus as my Dad did with my Mum despite my Mum's reluctance. My aunt was at the dance with another guy and my uncle has always made clear that he only pursuit my aunt because it immidiately was evident that my Aunt was interested. Otherwise he wouldn't have approached her.

Finally one of my best friends is a Sun in aries, moon in capricorn, venus in aries, mars in pisces woman. Although she is a woman, I think it's still relevant to your question. She is generally very open with her interest in a man, putting it out there so to speak, but will pursue rather indirectly through a kind of spiritual approach.

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posted August 11, 2021 08:48 AM            

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Originally posted by anska5:
I don't think that a person's venus placement tells you much about how they would actively pursue someone. How they "chase" someone is in my experience, and also what you read in astro literature, more the domain of mars and the ascendant probably as well. Venus shows what you love and like and the more passive part of your flirting style. It also shows how you will show your love.

I have known four people closely that have Venus in Aries and they have all pursuit their love interest very differently and I think in line with thei mars sign. I have to say that all have been very faithful/loyal in the relationship:

- My boyfriend in University was a triple Aries,with sun, moon and venus in aries, but with mars in aquarius. He's in his 40s now and has been in only long term relationships. With all three relationships, he was definitely not the one chasing the women, on the contrary, it was quite the opposite and he was not Brad Pitt or some drop dead gorgeous guy which would indicate he didnt' 'need to'. He was extremely passive, not only with me, but with all his other seriou girlfriends as well. I would say if he pursuit me at all than it was with a kind of 'friends first' tactic and I think that fits his mars in aquarius.

My father is another Venus in aries, with sun in taurus, moon in cancer and mars in scorpio. He is extremely plutonic and I think his mars in scorpio is at the core of all of his actions, romantic and otherwise. He met my mother at a dance in the 70s and she was this incredibly shy girl and really not interested, but he pursuit her relentlessly and basically bulldozed her into a relationship. Again very much in line with his mars in scorpio. As far as I can tell he has been faithful for as long as my Mum lived. Very narcissistic personality.

My Uncle, who has unfortunately already passed, was also a sun in taurus, with moon and venus in aries and mars in taurus. He was clear about his interest in my aunt when they met (also at a dance), but pursuit her with a kind of stubborn pride. Not with the kind of obsessive focus as my Dad did with my Mum despite my Mum's reluctance. My aunt was at the dance with another guy and my uncle has always made clear that he only pursuit my aunt because it immidiately was evident that my Aunt was interested. Otherwise he wouldn't have approached her.

Finally one of my best friends is a Sun in aries, moon in capricorn, venus in aries, mars in pisces woman. Although she is a woman, I think it's still relevant to your question. She is generally very open with her interest in a man, putting it out there so to speak, but will pursue rather indirectly through a kind of spiritual approach.

So not sure what made your guy pursue you so aggressivley, but my guess is it's not completely down to his venus in aries and may be better explained by another factor in his chart. You said his mars is in cancer, what is the depositor of his mars, the moon? And do you know his ascendant?

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Strongly disagree.You wrote about how its NOT Venus in Aries that pursues like that. Then went on to state all the qualities that highlight that Aries energy was linked directly with the pursuit of each of your examples 💁🏿‍♂️

And with regards to the Aries Ven woman. What is this "spiritual approach " you speak of?🤔 Does it involve voodoo dolls and casting spells?

Aries is ruled by Mars. So yes, the approach of Aries to their conquests is quite direct. Aries is one energy that does not beat around the bush.

The other factors that may thwart this energy is Sat/Nep aspects to Sun/Moon/ Mars. Maybe opposition to Ven? Then the native is likely be more indirect.

posted August 11, 2021 10:00 AM            

He was VERY candid.I was a little put off.Then intrigued(because it seemed very sincere).

Before he approached me, he had long observed me. I recall not paying him any mind really. But I could tell that he would make eye contact, stare at me from a distance.Or try to make small talk whenever he saw me.

He finally got a brilliant opportunity when I was introduced to a friend of his. And he just happen to be there. I noticed he couldn't take his eyes off of me.

He leaned into the conversation and introduced himself. Got a seat closer to me, bought me drinks. And basically "flexed" the whole night in order for me to not only know how he felt. But to mark the territory so that others dont attempt.🤣

I think that the Ven in Aries in question was acting in accordance with the Ven position. But the Mars in Cancer suggests to me that he may not always be that way. There is another nature to him that is very reserved or restrained.

Perhaps he felt more confident to flirt with you because he has nothing to lose from your rejection of him? I mean he is married after all. So the wife is the insurance. And you were just an avenue for him to flex his muscle. That was all.

Typically speaking(unless there are Uranus aspects to Moon/Sun/Asc or Mars), Mars in Cancer is not a sign that is risk seeking.

The typical thing with such a placement would be someone who stares at you one moment (Ven in Aries). But then pretends
they are not the next(Mars in Cancer).

Cancer tends to avoid rejection (either overt or covert)So the only time I see Mars in Cancer amplifying their assertive qualities is usually when they are very SURE of the outcome.

posted August 11, 2021 10:24 AM            

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Originally posted by anska5:
@Ariess...

And I strongly disagree with you...Jesus... I clearly stated in my first sentence that it is our mars placement that shows how we actively CHASE and venus shows a more passive flirting style. That was my main point and not what Venus in Aries is about or not. I then went on to give examples of people I know closely with Venus in Aries how they PURSUED their object of affections very differenly from each other despite their venus being all in the same sign. And yes of course are mars and venus directly linked in the case of venus in aries, so the mars placement is even more significant to determine they style of chase..I also suggested to look at this guys mars placement. So while you READ into my contribution a declaration about what venus in aries does or doesnt do, all I SAID was that the mars placement of this guy is far more important for the actually style of pursuit and it may be worse investigating. And that's true for any venus placement with all of my boyfriends and that of friends. It was much more the mars placement that was indicative of their style how they chased. I don't know why I even bother to comment on anything here anymore. The tone has gotten so confrontative since I was registered as annaf in the early 2000s.

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Mars is not ALWAYS indicative of the style of chase. If there is mutual reception OR more assertive energy elsewhere in the chart. The Mars nature (if passive) may/can be overridden.

As said, the ex had Mars in Lib in its " fall position". Its aspect is widely square Nep in Sag. So there is an indirect approach here.

But he also has Ven in Aries opp Jup/ Plu. So there are moments where he gets enormous courage to 'go for gold'.

If not i reckon with Mars square Neptune,he would have kept looking at a distance a while longer. And not even being as assertive as he was.

The response was not meant to be offensive.I apologize.I was actually being literal with the question on voodoo & love spells.Not insulting your use of English. As there are people whom pursue their love interests in that way in this country(South Africa).

posted August 11, 2021 11:46 AM            

I've also read that Venus Aries can also like to be chased by women, and that the ladies with Aries Venus like to do the chasing.

1. My question is are venus in aries loyal friends?
Yes I have a good friend who has Aries Venus and Mars. She's a Pisces. We have been friend's since 2014.

2.Do you think he does that bold flirting and chasing often?
Hmmm I'm not sure. It sounds like you guys have chemistry.

3. How would a venus in aries, mars cancer play out?

I've never been with venus Aries guy,
but Mars Cancer yes. Mars Cancer can be physically persuasive.

4.Do you think this type of guy would befriend a woman he chased?

ahhhh I don't know, I would be careful since he put moves on you while having a wife.

posted August 11, 2021 02:07 PM            

We share the same Sun/Moon/Mercury signs and Moon conjunct NN DW. In composite we have Sun/Mercury/Venus/Mars conjunct sextile Saturn and Moon/NN/Neptune conjunct. Mind blowing.

posted August 11, 2021 04:14 PM            

But if he is not, then those are some definite warning signs/red flags. In any case, he is not looking to just be your friend.

posted August 12, 2021 05:52 AM            

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Originally posted by anska5:
@Aries, sorry I didn't see that you mentioned in your last post that you didn't mean to offend. As I said I think it's just a matter of agreeing to disagree, as we obviously had completely different experiences.

The spiritual aspect in reference ot my friend was meant in the sense that I think she tends to indirectly draw them into what she considers her spiritual pursuits. She is very much into Yoga (teacher) and Buddhism and I think her way of chasing after a man is trying to get them interested into Yoga or just have deep discussions about Buddhism

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Oh ok. I see.