posted November 13, 2021 08:10 AM            

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Originally posted by angryant2021:
Hmm were you hoping to get a reaction from his gf by you giving him money? Tbh sounds like he's keeping boundaries bc he has a gf.

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No that’s not why I gave him money. He’s never had an issue with me complimenting his looks. I’m talking about the comment he made after hearing the conversation I was having with the other guy.

posted November 13, 2021 08:13 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I don't think so. It sounds like he walked away, because he has a girlfriend.

Why would you tell him that he's sexy, if he has a girlfriend?

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posted November 13, 2021 11:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Sometimes, men are more straight forward and logical even If they don’t intend to. Bitcoin would be a better investment than giving money to him. I’d listen to his advice.

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No, you don't understand what I'm saying.

I said the Mars in Cancer guy made a comment about how I can use the money I gave him to buy Bitcoin for myself. After he heard me and another guy having a conversation about Bitcoin.

posted November 13, 2021 03:43 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
That’s not what I’m referring to I mean the comment he made about how I can instead use the money to buy Bitcoin. He was listening to the conversation I was having with the other guy.

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posted November 13, 2021 05:41 PM            

Honestly, it could be a lot of things...I whouldn't get to deep into it thought.

posted November 13, 2021 06:08 PM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
Is this the Gemini sun, mars in Cancer guy?

Honestly, it could be a lot of things...I whouldn't get to deep into it thought.

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posted November 14, 2021 07:40 PM            

You gave a man money. Unless he is a gigolo, men are not comfortable receiving money from women, even women friends. They feel indebted and not in a good way.

Then you remind him that you gave him money by asking if his girlfriend minds. Weird question...

Him saying you should use the money you gave him to buy bitcoin means he is uncomfortable and he is wanting to give the money back to you.

You telling him you find him sexy could be interpreted as you wanting some kind of sexual reward for the money you gave him. That's why he said oh stop and walked away.

I am a woman and if a man gave me money then a few days later tells me he finds me sexy, I would interpret it as him trying to hit on me and get sexual favors for the money he gave me.

posted November 14, 2021 09:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I may be wrong, but...

You gave a man money. Unless he is a gigolo, men are not comfortable receiving money from women, even women friends. They feel indebted and not in a good way.

Then you remind him that you gave him money by asking if his girlfriend minds. Weird question...

Him saying you should use the money you gave him to buy bitcoin means he is uncomfortable and he is wanting to give the money back to you.

You telling him you find him sexy could be interpreted as you wanting some kind of sexual reward for the money you gave him. That's why he said oh stop and walked away.

I am a woman and if a man gave me money then a few days later tells me he finds me sexy, I would interpret it as him trying to hit on me and get sexual favors for the money he gave me.

If this is not what you meant at all, fine, I am just telling you how this guy might feel because your actions are confusing.

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If that's his way of saying I made him feel uncomfortable why hasn't he actually given the money back then? I feel like he was trying to be funny with that comment. Because he just heard me talking to the other guy about it.

He doesn't owe me anything I gave him the money because I appreciate him. And when we went out I could tell he didn't have much. Some people actually do things from the heart and don't expect things in return.

If he is uncomfortable then he should just say that. Instead of making those kinds of comments.

posted November 14, 2021 10:11 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I think you're reading way too much into it, it is not complicated, he was giving you a legitimate advice that you should invest that money in bitcoins instead of in him.

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But I had already told him that I wanted him to have it. So there was no reason for him to say this. I don't like that he made that comment. Because it means he was listening to my conversation.

posted November 14, 2021 10:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
So if I understand what you are saying, you just give money to guys that you previously had sex with because you appreciate them...without expecting anything in return...

I don't understand this way of being, but if this works for you and makes you happy... Some of the planets in your chart must have some hard uranus aspects.

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posted November 14, 2021 10:40 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I have Venus in the 8th house and Uranus squares my Venus. Sometimes I think subconsciously I like the idea of giving men money when sex is involved.

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posted November 15, 2021 07:07 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
That’s his problem he doesn’t feel like he’s worth being invested in (Sun and Venus in the 12th house) and this is exactly why I gave him the money. Because he doesn’t think he’s worth it. And I hate he feels this way it makes me sad. Because I know he has so much talent but he doesn’t see it I really want to tell him this.

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Maybe its a good idea to directly tell him this?

Although I must say, giving a man money because you *think* he feels x and y is a bit weird..

posted November 15, 2021 11:15 AM            

I knew a guy who was pumped up and jealous about a half of the things I did, but he still didn’t care about me, but his ego and the way people around see it.
If you think jealousy is a good sign, it’s not always like that.

If you have been giving him attention for a while, half of the store might know it already. It could be a lot into it, but still nothing valuable for you.

posted November 15, 2021 01:48 PM            

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/243237.html

That means issues relating to love, sex, money and power will be at the forefront for all of us globally to experience and reflect on. OP, what you are experiencing is an example of that.

posted November 15, 2021 03:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
Isn't transit Venus currently in Capricorn, and will be there till March of 2022, going retro then direct again?

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/243237.html

That means issues relating to love, sex, money and power will be at the forefront for all of us globally to experience and reflect on. OP, what you are experiencing is an example of that.

Because Pluto is also in Capricorn, expect deep, profound, and sometimes cataclysmic changes in the way some of us approach these things.

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posted November 15, 2021 03:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
Venus sq. Uranus could be manifesting as attraction to unavailable people. It seems like that guy is unavailable for you currently.
Maybe, your new friend doesn’t have anybody, and he could use your care and appreciation better.

I knew a guy who was pumped up and jealous about a half of the things I did, but he still didn’t care about me, but his ego and the way people around see it.
If you think jealousy is a good sign, it’s not always like that.

If you have been giving him attention for a while, half of the store might know it already. It could be a lot into it, but still nothing valuable for you.

If a man is too comfortable with women giving him money (excluding some special situations), he is most likely gigolo. And he won’t appreciate it much.
It’s kinda polite and normal to feel uncomfortable when people you don’t know well giving you money without reasons.

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