posted December 10, 2021 01:42 AM            

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Originally posted by saronna:
I like to be busy it helps me to get well physically mentally & emotionally & spiritually mind body & soul with my 12th house Pisces & Chiron. & to manage passive with what my passion is my 6th house virgo communications & computer's & technology

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posted December 10, 2021 09:16 PM            

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posted December 11, 2021 03:17 AM            

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Originally posted by KAHRAMANBENDEN:
Hi I guess I'm having too many discussions lol. But just wanted to discuss do y'all feel passive aggressiveness with regards to work or life in general? Do people walk over you? Do you find hard to assert yourself? Or are you too shy to assert? Do you find yourself inactive as compared to people around you? How do you handle your passivity?

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Having Mars in 12th house Sagittarius (and Pisces in personal planet), if I have to compare it with Mars in Libra or Mars in Cancer who is known as passive aggressive, no, I don't think I'm passive aggressive (looking at my Cancer mars husband and one time dealing with his Libra Mars ex), in the past I actually preferred to avoid and gone, suppressing, keeping all that emotion to myself, no one knew I was angry, sad, disappointed because I didn't give a hint or any codes to people, I just couldn't show that emotions or say anything about it. I was RARELY angry, nagging, not even complaining, I always chose to be quiet then back to smile like everything was okay.

Yes, it made some people walk over me again and again. I got bullied by my senior in high school because I was an easy target, considering the outsider and the quiet accentric girl. At workplace I also had to deal with slander, coming from some jealous coworkers who saw me climbing fast and the bosses often gave me more job than them which also means, I got more money from that extra job. They didn't see that it was a lot of work, but they only saw I got more money and attention from bosses, so I also had to deal with being excluded from group of female coworkers, but the male coworkers often gave me their sympathy as they saw me as a quiet hardworker than those chatty lazy women, they said. I didn't say anything, didn't even complain about it, nor nagging to other people with all of that, I kept it inside. At workplace I wasn't an ambitious, not even an active or bubbly or trying to get the attention from the bosses, I didn't know why I attracted the attention to me, I usually just tried to finish my job well and back to be quiet.

You know, having moon in Aries, it's actually very hard to not let go your emotions out there, but having Mars in 12th, it won't let out easily. The Jupiter conjunct my Moon and the Mars is Sagittarius, I tend to let go those negative emotions after suppressing.

After my ex cheated on me and got some physical abuse from him, I told to myself that I had to learn letting out of my emotions. I had to tell people that I was angry, I was sad, I was disappointed, and I didn't like what they had done to me if it was bad, so they knew they need to stop hurting me.

The process isn't easy though as I am still learning. The first time I tried to let it out was when I started a relationship with now my husband. But still I don't let it out all, I still have a tendency to suppress some and need to learn how to fully let it out effectively.

I think my 12th house Mars just likes the peace as negative emotions makes me weak a.k.a easily tired and easily sick meanwhile my body likes to moving, so I need to have a balance.

posted December 11, 2021 07:21 AM            

I don’t think it’s automatically passive-aggressive. You can sincerely try to get through things politely. I remember when someone yelled at me, out of nowhere, and I was so shocked I yelled right back at them. I’ve had people come at me for no reason, and would fight back verbally. You can do it, without attacking another person. My own BIL whose only interest was himself, once pointed out that I wasn’t hitting him below the belt, when I could.

posted December 11, 2021 07:27 AM            

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Originally posted by saronna:
I don't talk to my family much with my 12th house Pisces & Chiron. I'm quiet around them but I'm a chatterbox. I don't like confrontation & I have mellowed alot. I'm not a doormat but I use to be a quiet mouse to afraid to have a voice. Afraid of aggression. I wasn't passive I wasn't open

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