posted January 20, 2022 11:12 PM            

What mercury sign do you feel the most incompatible/compatible with your mercury?

How important communication in a relationship for you? Are you really an agreeable and let the other person lead on you or you always have your own decision and actually always try to find a way to lead on the other person because nobody can break what you have already plan.

posted January 21, 2022 10:18 AM            

Leo Mercury. I have been close with some. But after a while I can have a reaction of "OMG stop talking!" I've had/have friends with this. My mom also has this. She doesn't like it when people aren't ready to talk.

Mercury Scorpio. Super drawn to most of them. I had friends with this. I had a 2 year fling with one. We started talking on FB through mutual friends. And then we started messaging novels to eachother. Lots of passion.
But you know what they say about Taurus and Scorpio there can never be nothing in between love and hate. My sister in law with Scorpio Mercury hates my guts. I try to just be neutral. But she is trash. She is always watching me and hanging on my every word ready to be on me like a fat kid on pizza if she perceives me saying something air-headish. She usually makes a fool of herself when she does this, but she wont stop doing it. She hates when I get attention and wishing I would just be quiet and keep my head down. She tried to one up me too. I think it's pathetic because our lives and interests are so different from each other.

I do not have much experience with Mercury Aquarius.

Communication is super important to me in a relationship. I use to freak out if a guy went a long time with out communicating. Once I learned that constantly being in touch is not what makes a relationship. When I met my husband we would not hang out on Wednesdays. We would not even text/call each other on our day off. And I actually felt secure and comfortable.

I've had lots of talks with him about communicating. Like don't tell your friends that we want to live in a house with them, with out talking to me first. Because that sounds horrible. I like my privacy too much. And now I am going to look like the 8!+(h.

I like fighting/arguing/getting my point across to husband in private. If he upset me in public I wont make a scene, but as soon as we get in the car together and that door shuts, all bets are off.

I think having my Mercury Taurus in the 12th house makes how stubborn I actually am hidden. When someone gives me advice when I didn't ask my inner monologue is usually "wtf?"

My Mercury Taurus
trines Uranus Capricorn house 8
sextiles Venus Pisces house 10
squares n. node Aquarius house 9
square s. node Leo house 3
trines Neptune Capricorn house 8
squares MC Aquarius house 10
squares IC Leo house 4

I really like Mercury Virgo. My husband has this. One of my favorite co-workers has this.

Oddly Mercury Libras I like a lot. I have nice talks with them and they don't push my buttons. My dad has this Mercury, my sister has this Mercury, and one of my favorite co workers has this Mercury.

posted January 21, 2022 10:46 AM            

Communication is important to me, but that could be because Mercury/Virgo indications are all across my chart. I realize I need open emotional communication with a person to feel very close with them.

I would say when I first meet people, I'm agreeable, unless they're an ******* , and then I'm more defensive and stubborn with them. As I get to know people, if their concerns are rational, and even sometimes when not, I'll budge. I'm only stubborn when I feel like I need to be - when I'm not being heard, or someone is trying to convince me into something stupid and I'm not buying it.

posted January 21, 2022 11:02 AM            

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Oh yeah my college professor from a few years ago has Mercury Capricorn. I was super attracted to him, and it was difficult to shake. Like some sort of sneak attack attraction. I liked talking to him a lot. I like his lectures.

Most of Capricorn is also my 8th house. I was so turned on by his mind.

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posted January 21, 2022 12:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:

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Oddly Mercury Libras I like a lot. I have nice talks with them and they don't push my buttons. My dad has this Mercury, my sister has this Mercury, and one of my favorite co workers has this Mercury.

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What kind of communication style that can push your button/annoy you the most?

posted January 21, 2022 01:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Oddly Mercury Libras I like a lot. I have nice talks with them and they don't push my buttons. My dad has this Mercury, my sister has this Mercury, and one of my favorite co workers has this Mercury.

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posted January 21, 2022 01:10 PM            

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Communication is important to me, but that could be because Mercury/Virgo indications are all across my chart. I realize I need open emotional communication with a person to feel very close with them.

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So do you think a Taurus mercury is holding back a lot of their emotions until it blows up?

posted January 21, 2022 01:50 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
So do you think a Taurus mercury is holding back a lot of their emotions until it blows up?

What kind of communication that you think it is important to talk about as Taurus mercury? I mean, for example: Leo mercury, if it has nothing to do with them, they have no interest to talk about it. Or Aquarius mercury, if it is not interesting enough, their head is already somewhere else. Or Scorpio mercury, if it is not about your personal information, don't ask theirs. How about Taurus mercury?

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Taurus Mercury: If we don't need to talk about it, why are we talking about it? Ha!
Meaning, we value meaningful communication. If you're just running your mouth about nothing, stop. If you're just gossiping and it's not necessary, why?

Of course, if a Taurus mercury sees that banter, gossip, and mindless chit-chit is creating value in the sense of bonding with another person, or sussing out a suspicious situation together to protect both parties, or whatnot, of course they'll indulge. But indulging in meaningless talk is annoying.

posted January 21, 2022 02:32 PM            

My Taurus Mercury is exactly trine Uranus (plus my Moon is in Aqua) and I personally find Aquarius Mercury people delightful.

The only Aqua Mercury person I have difficult communicating with is my mother but we have so many intense things going on in our synastry/interpersonal relationship that usurp the Mercury/Mercury incompatibility.

My step-dad has a Leo Mercury and I very much enjoy talking with him, but I think he can be a bit "much" after a while and sometimes roll my eyes at the way he exaggerates a story to make him look like a hero. Our Moons are conjunct though so there's very much a simpatico vibe between us.

Scorpio Mercury... yeah not a fan. Which is weird because Mercury, my chart ruler, is in H8. There will of course always be exceptions to this rule but I generally find the "detective"/undying suspicion of Plutonic/Scorpionic types to be intolerable so yeah I really have not jived much with this placement.

Historically though I'd say Aries, Gemini, Aquarius, Virgo and Taurus Mercuries show up in my most harmonious relationships

How important communication in a relationship for you?

I'm a Virgo Rising, so an excellent communication flow is extremely important to me.

Are you really an agreeable and let the other person lead on you or you always have your own decision and actually always try to find a way to lead on the other person because nobody can break what you have already plan.

Now that I'm older, I have learned to be extremely agreeable and good natured. If the other person is nervous/would prefer to take a passive approach, I have no problem leading the communication flow and try to tailor it to their energy. If someone would prefer to be the dominant communicator, I only ask that they be a graceful, accommodating, and charming one. I also try to dole those qualities out as well the best I can.

posted January 21, 2022 02:54 PM            

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What kind of communication style that can push your button/annoy you the most?

As a Taurus mercury, what would it be if you are happened to live together forever with someone who has the square/opposition to your mercury sign?

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LOL when someone can't take a hint! When I've said no to them already and have given an explanation why my answer is no...and they try the manipulation tactic of asking me the same question again thinking I'll cave in and change my mind.

Sometimes when this happens I will state my answer and explanation again. While my hands clap out every single syllable.

My assistant was undermining me and asked a question I already gave her an answer to because she did not agree with me. So I had the tone like I was clapping out every syllable (but stayed somewhat professional and did not clap my hands at her) I will also state it again while over annunciating my diction.
That usually lets people know to stop asking me the flippin question I am not going to change my mind. It's kind of my way of saying "did I effing stutter!?" "Are we really going to do this again!?"

I do the clap hands to my mom and husband a lot. The get the picture, but they will also make fun of me for it. My husband tells me that clapping is for retards. And when I over annunciate my diction to my mom she tells me that I sound like Arnold Schwarzenegger. When I get mad I can start talking like a robot. My mom and husband tell me so.

posted January 21, 2022 03:02 PM            

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I'm also curious - how come you have nice talks with Libra mercuries? How do they play out? I'm always curious to see how signs of the same planetary ruler play together...

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I've been wondering about this dynamic too. Maybe it's because Taurus and Libra are both ruled by Venus.
I can respect their opinions. Maybe it's a charming place to have Mercury. I like getting advice from them. They are balanced at listening, being fair, and respectful.

posted January 21, 2022 05:09 PM            

We both would of rather died then ever express jealously towards each other! One time he slipped up because I got excited that David Spade was in a movie. (LIKE REALLY?!)
Mmmmm, I think I slipped up more. Because he was still on talking terms with his ex girlfriends dad. And this one chick friend he had. Like she had issues with using, and would come over a lot unannounced. I could not bite my tongue. I told him it bothered me, and what if I wasn't there!? She even left her panties on the floor one time. He resented me for this. But he could of said no and ended it with me.

Oh yeah he was one of those guys that kind of wanted me to be a little jealous. He would have to tell me about every time a girl paid attention. I don't see the point of doing that unless it is really an issue. Otherwise it just seems like the person is bragging, and is trying to remind you that they are hot. It got out of hand with a guy in my group project once so I did say something. Maybe I would say something later. Or if someone made me feel very uncomfortable.

In the beginning we like competing for each other. Other guys in the group were into me. I also felt a bit of a competitive edge with that other chick friend of his.

We did the long distance thing too. And while we were long distance we kept the passion alive. We kept in touch so much. He actually was the one to initiate this. I would send him racy texts and photos. I would even text him in Spanish since he was fluent. Having an attractive guy speak the language was way more motivating than a semester of Spanish in high school. I learned more Spanish than I ever have in school.

He taught me about meditation. He had me look at his chart one time.

If we went four hours with out texting I would freak out. But not to his face.

We also have polar opposite moon signs.

We also had that chemistry where we could go at it like rabbits.

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posted January 21, 2022 05:35 PM            

I will say though that I love her for her Mercury. She can get her message across concisely and without using too many words... whereas I feel like I need to keep explaining.

posted January 21, 2022 09:54 PM            

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Taurus Mercury: If we don't need to talk about it, why are we talking about it? Ha!
Meaning, we value meaningful communication. If you're just running your mouth about nothing, stop. If you're just gossiping and it's not necessary, why?

Of course, if a Taurus mercury sees that banter, gossip, and mindless chit-chit is creating value in the sense of bonding with another person, or sussing out a suspicious situation together to protect both parties, or whatnot, of course they'll indulge. But indulging in meaningless talk is annoying.

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Can you give me an example of what kind of topic that would be a meaningful communication for a Taurus mercury?

posted January 21, 2022 10:13 PM            

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The only Aqua Mercury person I have difficult communicating with is my mother but we have so many intense things going on in our synastry/interpersonal relationship that usurp the Mercury/Mercury incompatibility.

My step-dad has a Leo Mercury and I very much enjoy talking with him, but I think he can be a bit "much" after a while and sometimes roll my eyes at the way he exaggerates a story to make him look like a hero. Our Moons are conjunct though so there's very much a simpatico vibe between us.

Scorpio Mercury... yeah not a fan. Which is weird because Mercury, my chart ruler, is in H8. There will of course always be exceptions to this rule but I generally find the "detective"/undying suspicion of Plutonic/Scorpionic types to be intolerable so yeah I really have not jived much with this placement.

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Since you have experienced the intense part of mercury square, what do you think if it is happened in a marriage/long-term relationship?

posted January 21, 2022 10:24 PM            

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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Can you give me an example of what kind of topic that would be a meaningful communication for a Taurus mercury?

What do you think about a Taurus Mercury is being called as having a hard time seeing things from other's point of view? Which also resonate with what you have said about "if we don't need to talk about it, why are we talking about it?", is it really 'we' or 'I'?

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posted January 21, 2022 10:36 PM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
I am not a Taurus Mercury, but I am Leo Mercury. And my daughter is a Taurus Mercury. We struggle to communicate. I talk too much, she doesn't talk enough. I will say though that we both have Mercury Saturn aspects. Mine is conjunct, hers is semi-square. And my Mercury is in her 12th house, so she struggles to hear me, I think.

I will say though that I love her for her Mercury. She can get her message across concisely and without using too many words... whereas I feel like I need to keep explaining.

In general I like Taurus Mercury, and I find their voices are often beautiful. My daughter is a beautiful singer, too.

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What do you think if the square happens in a long-term relationship/marriage? As a fire mercury, how do you see the possible dynamic with them?

What kind of things do you think the Taurus mercury annoys you the most and hurt your ego?

posted January 22, 2022 07:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
Oh yeah my college professor from a few years ago has Mercury Capricorn...

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Cap Mercury here. After much careful, deep, weighty deliberation, I have come to a most difficult decision... I will "take one for the team" (the team of straight males with Cap Mercury?).

The Decision: If you must, you can use me for my mind, cause baby, with that .5* trine to 1st House Jupiter, this mind is Expanded, and sacrificial in bent. Do not try to convince me otherwise, I shall not countenance any other decision at this point. THIS, this is my Ironman-Endgame moment, par excellence.

posted January 22, 2022 01:56 PM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
Tough crowd... well at least I'm funny/amusing in my own mind. But, note to self, do not post when you are woken up earlier than you should have been and had a lack of sleep.

(A housemate/tenant appeared in our bedroom doorway [yes we keep it open, mainly for our fur daughter to come and go as her kittiness pleases] arse early in the morning, asking for our help and saying that he had severe food poisoning and needed to go to the hospital--was not in a state to drive himself).

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