posted March 31, 2022 09:40 AM
Sun Aquarius, husband Sun Gemini, not making a trine aspect as I'm the 1st decan Aqua and he is the 3rd decan Gemini.My Asc is in Sag, not sure his. His sun is in my 7th house, doesn't mean he is my ideal, but the Gemini influence is... I think.... what I like in a relationship, like a lot of communication, not afraid doing random new things, basically anything that makes you stay out of bored of each other in a relationship.
My Moon is in Aries 3rd decan, his Moon is in Sag 1st decan. We have Sun/Moon dw sextile aspect in synastry.
My Mars is in Sag 1st decan, so his Moon conjunct my Mars.
His Juno is in Pisces as well as mine, in 1st decan and 3rd decan. His Juno conjunct my venus.
His venus in 29 degrees of Taurus, and makes a trine to my sun in an out of sign aspect as I have 4 degrees Aqua sun. But if he was born near midnight, he may have 0 degrees of venus Gemini.
This year we are going to 9 years with A LOT of emotional ups and downs. The relationship is not easy, at least in my part, sometimes I feel like we are better as a friend.
I don't know how he feels because it feels awkward for us talking about 'feelings', we usually show it through attention and action, sometimes through jokes or physical affection. Since he still shows them, I assume he still wants to keep the relationship.
Our argument/fight is usually the involvement of other people. We rarely fight about daily things because we both usually ask the other what the likes or dislikes and flow with it. We try our best to not having argument/fight because it feels like the world between us falls apart, like, it really tears us down, especially knowing that we fight just because of the other person.