posted April 02, 2022 11:31 PM            

What is going on with the generational planets that this seems to be happening on a collective level. Anyone else noticing this? or is it just me?

On a positive note I think although stressful and painful maybe this is happening so people can find new partners that are their real soulmates whom they can have more fulfilling relationships.

posted April 03, 2022 02:17 AM            

I have a Taurus stellium with my chart ruler Venus at 7Taurus. His Mars/Saturn are conjunct my Venus. Transit Aries Chiron was exactly conjunct my Descendant and his Venus at 9Aries when we made the decision. It’s a bit creepy how accurate that was. We also had a big confrontation when Aries Chiron returned retrograde to that same position. I felt the strong urge to enforce my boundaries in an Aries way. After rethinking, it was a necessary event to create more distance between us. It showed me how much I still was hurting, what I wasn’t prepared to accept anymore and that there really was no going back.

posted April 03, 2022 02:17 AM            

I have the venus, juno, satur transit trough my 1st house. Uranus opp my saturn, mars (chart ruler and ruler of my moon). And pluto conjuncting my AC (now approaching at 4deg) and is quincunx my cancer sun in the 5th. Also lilith is now crossing my 5th house stellium.

posted April 03, 2022 03:03 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
Hi hypatia, I made the decision to divorce in April last year. Looking at the transits I think it was mostly influenced by the energy of Taurus Uranus and Aquarius Saturn. Both these planets are still very much affecting each other and will be forming a square aspect several times this year. Together with the nodes moving into Taurus/Scorpio in the beginning of this year, that’s a lot of energy encouraging fixed sign placements to rethink their current situation and being prepared to make big decisions.

I have a Taurus stellium with my chart ruler Venus at 7Taurus. His Mars/Saturn are conjunct my Venus. Transit Aries Chiron was exactly conjunct my Descendant and his Venus at 9Aries when we made the decision. It’s a bit creepy how accurate that was. We also had a big confrontation when Aries Chiron returned retrograde to that same position. I felt the strong urge to enforce my boundaries in an Aries way. After rethinking, it was a necessary event to create more distance between us. It showed me how much I still was hurting, what I wasn’t prepared to accept anymore and that there really was no going back.

Wishing you lots of wisdom and strength with regard to your own relationship.

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Thank you very much for the good wishes! Strength/COURAGE and wisdom is exactly what I need right now but also unwavering determination as someone who overthinks and goes back and forth endlessly, something I am working on right now.

Great insight there, I kept suspecting intuitively that is this ongoing saturn square uranus aspect but thanks for pointing out that this year with the nodes entering fixed signs this is really highlighting and reinforcing more that saturn square uranus dance, this aspect has definitely led to a lot changes happening for people including many relationships ending.

Came across these quotes yesterday:

posted April 03, 2022 03:05 PM            

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Originally posted by saronna:
I don't what aspects for ending so many relationships. Maybe more soulmate are meeting up.

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posted April 03, 2022 03:09 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepBlue:
Hey Hipatia.
I noticed it too. And it's really happening to a LOT of people around me, and me included.
I'm ending a 12 year relationship, we have 2 children together.
When all the covid thing started, after 1 year in almost constant isolation with my family and partner we were forced to deal with all we were suppressing an putting on the side for "another time to deal with".
We love each other, but we are also so different in what we want and how we want it and probably if we lived 50 years ago we would stay together out of comfort an practicality. But honestly, we don't need to do that we are not dependent on each other materially, all we need to do together is take care of our children, everything else should be a choice.
It feels like we gave everything we had to this relationship, had to compromise a lot and now we don't want to put any more energy in it, it's emotionally draining and I want a little bit of ease, I just want things for once to be easy and flowing.
Maybe I can have this with another partner. Maybe I can't, I don't know. But I sure don't want to give up on this segment of my life.

I have the venus, juno, satur transit trough my 1st house. Uranus opp my saturn, mars (chart ruler and ruler of my moon). And pluto conjuncting my AC (now approaching at 4deg) and is quincunx my cancer sun in the 5th. Also lilith is now crossing my 5th house stellium.

I have a week of emotional roller coaster behind. Even got sick for few days and I could just sleep and sleep, but have too much work to do. So, yeeeaahh, I'm living day by day and try to do my best, but it's exhausting.

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I really enjoyed reading this, gave me goose bumps and felt that empowering feeling for you!

I completely understand how you feel! I also feel like I am done trying to make this work, I am tired of trying to make it work, I don't want to keep TRYING to make it work! that kind of feeling, like I am done. It just doesn't feel right anymore to keep trying to make something work that doesn't want to work. Like trying to move a huge boulder that doesn't want to be moved its a good metaphor for my experience.

posted April 03, 2022 03:16 PM            

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Originally posted by sashavittoria:
I agree, for my own sudden divorce I think it was Uranus conjunct my sun squared by Saturn, my Saturn return which also squared my natal Pluto, plus transit Pluto squaring my natal moon/Venus. Transit/natal Saturn in my 8th and tPluto in my 7th. nPluto in my 5th.

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posted April 03, 2022 05:10 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
As of late VENUS conjunct JUNO, SATURN and MARS in aquarius could be why and this is opposing my VENUS conjunct MARS in the 8th making me realize that my marriage is over and its time to cut the ties. Later on Tr URANUS will square that VENUS conjunct MARS in the 8th.

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I am sorry to hear that. Even when it's the right decision, it is still a challenging time for either partners.

posted April 03, 2022 05:22 PM            

I don't know the astrological aspects responsible for perhaps an increase in breakups. I am only thinking that perhaps the uber intense and transformative events of the past 2+ years have made many people reflect on and understand what is really important to them, how they really want to live their lives and what kind of relationships they want to have.

posted April 03, 2022 06:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
To all the people in this thread who are going through or have recently gone through the ending of a long term relationship, I want to offer a hug <<<HUG>>> and encouragement.

I don't know the astrological aspects responsible for perhaps an increase in breakups. I am only thinking that perhaps the uber intense and transformative events of the past 2+ years have made many people reflect on and understand what is really important to them, how they really want to live their lives and what kind of relationships they want to have.

Relationships are work, and sometimes they serve their purposes, and we have to move on.

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posted April 05, 2022 02:27 PM            

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Originally posted by sashavittoria:
Big applause and a big hug to you, Belage. I agree.

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Yes, a big hug back from me as well!

I think the COVID lockdown has brought things to the surface that were simmering for a long time. I was racing through my life and kept sweeping things under the carpet. Until the lockdown made it glaring obvious we were no longer partners but just two people that tolerated each other’s presence.

posted April 06, 2022 04:51 AM            

Just as I thought things are shifting for the better, I have to fight a battle again, that I thought it's over, but I guess it isn't. Like, can I please get a rest, just a little, to collect myself properly.

posted April 06, 2022 05:27 AM            

Several people that I’m acquainted with, broke up after years of on-off relationships.

posted April 26, 2022 01:42 PM            

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Originally posted by sashavittoria:
Big applause and a big hug to you, Belage. I agree.

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posted April 26, 2022 01:43 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
Yes, a big hug back from me as well!

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Thank you for the hug back.

posted April 26, 2022 01:45 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:

I have Uranus in my 7th, so I’m just not expecting anything anymore.

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Expect the unexpected.

posted April 26, 2022 06:59 PM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
That upcoming May 16th eclipse as well can bring more endings. Depending on each set of energies etc.

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posted April 26, 2022 11:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
Expect the unexpected.

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