posted April 12, 2022 09:23 AM            

I put our synastry in and have this .pdf page listed all our synastry aspects in boxes. And what really stood out his how much of my husband Pluto (his natal Scorpio is at 1 degree so it pure) is like in every of my planets.

When I did some reading it say something like this: "Like with any Pluto aspect, you consumed by each other. The relationship can feel very overpowering or compelling, as though you just can’t separate. This can be both sexually or emotionally.
An uncontrollable great passion which might be a nuisance. Jealousy, possessiveness, absolute need of the other's presence 24 hours out of 24."
I heard Pluto is bad in synastry? So Pluto is bad right? Like too much obsession?

We 11 years in, sure not getting divorce, but what the heck is going on with all these?
He the Pluto one below:

Pluto Trine Sun
Pluto Trine Moon
Pluto Trine Mercury
Pluto Trine Venus
Pluto Conjunction Mars
Pluto Conjunction Saturn
Pluto Sextile Uranus
Pluto Sextile Neptune
Pluto Conjunction Pluto
Pluto Sextile Ascendant
Pluto Sextile Midheaven

No squared, few blank boxes, but the rest it that above listed in the Pluto column. How to get the most out of those aspects, or channel out the energy? I know Trine is good, sextile is like half trine, not sure about what conjunction is.
We have alot going on in Venus too lol, but Venus is a nice planet, I care more about the malefic Pluto.

posted April 12, 2022 07:23 PM            

I really think this explain his undying obsession love with me for the past 11 years. After 11 years when you and him never parted a day, he should get bored, but Nope, he loves me even more. His intensity just never die out.

I heard Pluto Trine Venus is a the most painful and intense plutonic relationship type. And all those Pluto aspect in all of my planets too, it crazy. Trine Venus, Moon and Sun, etc..
I think we need some squared, but the synastry list doesn't show squared.

Can Plutonic couples grow old together? The Pluto person (him) will be very hurt more if we somehow end up divorce right?
So it because he the Pluto one in the synastry, he has it harder than me in this relationship?

Anyone here see Plutonic marriage couples that actually last till old age? I mean if we learn how to manifest these Pluto aspects in a good way towards us right?

posted April 13, 2022 09:21 PM            

Well his Pluto did spare me in Jupiter, Chiron and True Node, that three boxes it EMPTY!, the other 11 all touches, lol.

His Pluto trine Sun, Moon, Venus, all at 0 to 2 degree, so it close orb. The Pluto (his) trine my Venus is at 0 degree though, so it pretty intense. I heard that Venus trine if break up none can forget each others this life time.

And the the Pluto one, the one that control the whole relationship, so it me that going to be hurt, not him, lol.

The Pluto conjunction Mars, it pretty wide orb, 9 degree I think, so that is wide, it should effect us right?

I don't know if you in Reddit (do you have Reddit?), but it has an astrology sub there. And I asked the question about my husband Scorpio Saturn conjunct Scorpio Mars-Scorpio Pluto midpoint.

And someone replied this, and I laughed. "Sounds like he’s probably a force in the bedroom, lol. but this basically just gives him incredible drive to go after what he wants. These 3 planets together are basically like the most powerful planets in one of the most aggressive signs." LOL, I mean his drives it insane though, due to all 3 of that planets fall in the same sign Scorpio.

I love Scorpio, so when I read this chart I see Scorpio Mars, Scorpio Saturn, Scorpio Pluto. I was like great! But now I not so sure anymore when Mars-Pluto midpoint can trigger something big and deathly.

He always sweet to me and our child, patient like a saint, the most selfless husband. But I was told that because he hold all those energy inside for so long and not release it (those energy need to have an exit somehow), and if it blow, it going to BIG.! Mars-Pluto midpoint is not something nice, it can cause destructive. Well I guess we know when he flare up.