posted April 14, 2022 03:42 AM            

Some info on it for those who curious: https://psychologicallyastrology.com/2019/11/23/true-nodes-stationary-during-eclipses/

Anyone have a direct under their North Node? If have direct there will be a letter "d" next to it, if not then it the normal retrograde.

My husband just have all those hard aspects doesn't he? Lol. His North Node is direct (listed as letter d in his chart). Mine is retrograde.

From research on Direct Nodes, it said: Someone very stubborn, non-comformist, lots of energy, and can loose a cannon with hard aspect (which he has alot).
And that by have them direct, they are very old soul who already spent a great time in this physical world, have signify karma maturity. And this will be their last time in this physical realm finish up their karma, and will not come back!

Well, good news to this is that it! the end to all his misery and suffering. At least he won't come back to have all those malefic planets (Mars, Saturn, Pluto gang) dominant all over his birth chart again, Lol.

posted April 15, 2022 08:23 AM            

I have them direct, my friends have them direct, nothing wrong with that.

What's wrong is natal Neptune on your Mercury making you blind to reality and your Pluto in 3rd being suspicious and extreme when it comes to your thought process, which in this case is based on lack of basic knowledge and/or misinformation about certain aspects & placements.

You don't know the basics about what planets, signs and houses they rule represent and you're asking for Pluto being sole despositor, points like lunar nodes going direct and whatever else you can find in your husband's chart to blame it as scary/bad, disregarding all the good and very important placements in his chart along with the reality.

Your husband has a nice strong Moon in Cancer and a strong Mars in Scorpio. Pluto in 4th along with his Moon make him a family man, probably too obsessed with having a family and wanting to control how the home and family functions. His Pisces Sun and Mercury adding to his understanding and sensitive nature of the Moon (unless his Moon is afflicted which I doubt based on the info you gave us about your husband).
With all that Neptune and you admiting you're not hands on like him, there is also a chance you're too slow or you may not do practical stuff well enough for him so he decides to do everything by himself.
Which in turn leaves you too much free time to spend and freak out for no reason in forums like this..
Gemini Mercury has rationality, Neptune is the deluded one, instead of fitting reality into astrology you try to find bad astrological placements to twist reality.
Are you so bored that it excites your mind to make assumptions like this? Do you use it as an escape from boredom? Or are you trying to find justifications to convince yourself to break up with your husband because you're bored and want someone more dominant or maybe you're already in love with another man? Or even worse with another sign you probably do not even really know about?

You can learn all about natal planets and aspects little by little. There's tons of information online for free plus free e-books.

posted April 15, 2022 09:03 AM            

No, I love my husband, it just I'm concern about him that he might blow up one day. You do remember he has Scorpio Mars, Scorpio Saturn, Scorpio Pluto. It a gang of malefic planet energy in all Scorpio sign. I was told these 3 planets together are basically like the most powerful planets in one of the most aggressive signs. So you do see he has all those forceful energy in him.

And his Saturn conjunct his Mars both in Scorpio it destructive. His Saturn degree is smaller though, so that give Saturn an upper hand?

He has the Saturn conjunct Mars-Pluto midpoint though. So far Saturn has been able to tame his Mars, since he just like Saturn traits, nothing but a very responsible man, he carry all the responsibilities on his shoulders. The selfless Pisces Sun of his.

He has Sun Trine Mars, so his self (Sun) listen to his Mars. He also has Sun Trine Saturn, so his Sun listen to Saturn too. And he has Sun Trine Ascendant too, so his Sun also listen to his Ascendant.
Are these bad? I feel that it diluted his Sun.

He has his Sun in 9th house, it high in the sky so I heard Sun is comfy there. This accurate, because his Sun in 9th, he immigrant to the U.S. with his family since young age. His parents came here with nothing but clothes, and he at young age was a very mature child (Saturn in 5th child). It kindda scary how astrology can be so accurate.

Mars the drive right? Mars and Saturn both in 5th give him the insane drive, bought 2 houses, 1 for me and our child, and 1 for his parents. I think I have to thanks his Scorpio Saturn for the determination and hard work.

Yes you right, I'm NOT hand-ons at all. Since little I was spoil by my parents (whom both deceased now), so I only have my husband and my son left.

He the opposite of the spoil Neptunian girl me, he has hard childhood (they poor), so he work at young age, out in the world live on his own at young age so he does laundry and all housework by himself. So when he married me, he continue to do all the housework just like when he was living alone on his own out there in life.

And that Scorpio Saturn (responsibility) in 5th and Mars (drive) in 5th, Saturn just won't let him have fun, he hate parties, so he channel his energy to work and be financial secure (which something he lack in his childhood).
Financial wise he secure, but emotionally wise I feel that he burried it deep down inside, and one day he might blow up. And those gang of malefic all in Scorpio.

oh, you know our synastry, his Pluto trine my Venus, and my Sun. And I heard that Plutonic relationship like us, since he the Pluto one in our synastry and trine my Venus, he the controlling one, obsession with me too. I guess that explain why he want to do everything (house husband and breadwinner) because Pluto is all about controlling. Am I right sis?