posted April 22, 2022 09:09 PM            

My husband have natal Uranus squared Sun.
It said: [ The ego is quite large when the Sun is square or opposite Uranus. It can be quite a challenge to get them to do what they don’t want to do. These are individuals quite set in their own ways.
It gives you a rebellious personality who is interested in acting and thinking in a more unique manner from the consensus. ]

This is very true to my husband. It impossible to get him to do something that he doesn't want. But then once he want something, nothing can stop him neither.
Added to his Scorpio Mars conjunction Scorpio Saturn give him the determination, once he want something he will not stop until he get his goals.

And what up with power struggle, is that an Uranus squared Sun trait, or more of the Scorpio Mars trait? Since his childhood to his adulthood, he has zero problem with confronting (with anyone) and POWER STRUGGLE with his dad. NONE will back down (both have Scorpio Mars) like father like son. He power struggle with both his mom and dad, he will not back down.

It "power struggle" a Scorpio thing? He has Scorpio Mars, Scorpio Saturn, Scorpio Pluto, all 3 malefic planets in same sign.

Or it more of the rebellious Uranus squared his Sun?

posted April 27, 2022 09:35 AM            

I wouldn't say my ego is all that big - my Sun also trines Neptune - but it is hard to get me to do what I don't want to do. You'll encounter some resistance if I've decided that it's a waste of time or inefficient (I abhor inefficiency) or otherwise pointless.

I am a rebel in my own way. And I pride myself on being a bit weird/different. To me, unique is a good thing.

IMO I'd say power struggle would be more of a Scorp thing - but it's not so much a struggle as others will find that Scorp is unmoveable once they decide something (fixity) and with Pluto at home in Scorp (and Mars in Scorp as traditional ruler), they are powerful. Others struggle against them, not so much the Scorp person is struggling. In your husband's case, he has those powerhouse aspects and others react to them. Sun sq Ur is the icing on the cake.

I've got Scorp Asc, Sun sext Pluto, and Mars trine Pluto. I see it play out all the time, though I'm more amenable to compromise (Pluto in Libra). However, once I've decided, good luck trying to move me off my path. I read somewhere that Mars trine Pluto scares people, and I have noticed that people seem intimidated by me when I'm just sitting quietly minding my own business or when I'm dealing with them, though that's not my intention. It comes in handy with people who think I'm a pushover find out that I'm very much not. I'm also very, very patient and tenacious.

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posted April 27, 2022 09:43 AM            

My husband have Uranus squared Sun, he sure is very stubborn, stronghead, go with his own drum type, not like to go with social norms, he does things his own ways, and not need anyone approval or permission, the dark side of Uranus squared Sun.

I do think his Sun squared Uranus is part of it. But then I can't shake off his 3 malefic planets fall in the same sign, Scorpio Mars, Scorpio Saturn, Scorpio Pluto. And his Venus is fixed sign too, and fixed Mars, it hard to change the energy when it fixed.

I think it the malefic planets that make him so determine and stubborn.

posted April 27, 2022 09:48 AM            

And I don't even think he scare of pain (he has VERY high pain tolerance), he can endure ALOT of physical pain, it nothing to him. However he struggle alot with emotional torture. To him emotional pain is 1000x times more painful than physical pain.

posted April 27, 2022 11:25 AM            

I just look at your chart that you posted a link in your siggy (I assume that you okay for others to look at since you siggy it).

wow, you have Moon Opposition Uranus? How it is going for you?
My husband have that too (his Moon opposition Uranus).

My husband also have his Scorpio Mars (fixed sign) squared his Venus (also fixed sign), but his Venus rule by Saturn. They both same degree, so squared come out to be 0 degree exactly, lol.

But I NEVER see his Venu (not in the 11 years with him, lol). I always see his Mars. Like you said his Venus (rule by Saturn) is not in it home sign. However his Scorpio Mars is, along with his Scorpio Pluto.
Pluto Trine his Venus. His Venus fall in 8th house. But then Mars squared his Venus, lol. And Scorpio Saturn squared his poor Venus too. So much intense energy in his chart. All these fixed energy squared each others.

Make no sense to me, Saturn and Mars squared his Venus, but then Pluto Trine his Venus. All in fixed signs.

I noticed you said your Sun Trine Neptune. My husband not have that.
But he has Sun Trine Mars, Sun Trine Saturn, and Sun Trine Ascendant.
Saturn Trine his Ascendant too.
I don't know if these are good aspects. But he very mature, confident, serious and determine guy.

posted April 27, 2022 12:23 PM            

Someone help did palm reading on my husband palm. And they said he has a long life line, he will live till very old age, along with other things.

Him? He said this: His life and his fate is in his hand and only him control. Himself will decide if he will live a long life or not.

Lol. Yah, you listen to him. Stronghead guy. And he can get defensive too, like he said: Who are they to define what 'his' happiness is or should be. It "his" happiness, he the only person that can define that, who are they?

posted April 27, 2022 02:30 PM            

For whatever reasons (economic?) are you trapped? Caught in unsolvable bind?

Are you approaching your mid-life transits?

I'm an earlier Gemini Sun, with a later Gemini Mercury.

~

I don't know if you are aware of any woman's support groups where you live, or if 'he' would have to grant you permission to do such a thing? Would that seem too threatening to him?

(I HOPE you have had a close relative or friends to share your feelings with over these years.)

I found a used book a few weeks ago.
Let me type out the passages describing (and validating) what you've been dealing with in your life.

Robert Pelletier
PLANETS IN ASPECT -
Understanding Your Inner Dynamics.
c) 1974 by Para Research, Inc.
Rockport, Massachusetts

{search for this on the web --
has been published by Schiff Publishing}

QUOTE page 130
Sun Square Uranus
. .
The square from the sun to Uranus shows that you are eccentric and sometimes unprincipled in your behavior.
You insist on being allowed to do anything you want,
'even' when you know you're wrong.
You have a strong desire for power,
and you persist 'even' when it is clear that others won't grant it to you.
Basically an upstart, you always have to express an opposing point of view, if only to cause dissension.
Learn to base your position on sound, realistic values so that you aren't unjustifiably at variance with the majority.
. .
Before you can succeed, you must re-examine your attitudes about authority in general.
You must get over the idea that people are deliberately trying to restrain you,
or that others are treated better than you.
Your arrogance and unwillingness to follow rules will restrict your development.
Humble yourself when necessary and learn how to grow one step at a time.
You will earn the respect of others .. if you don't seem to threaten them.
Although you doubt your own competence,
you direct your anxieties toward other people.
. .

Once you realize that others may be as sensitive about their own egos as you are, you will have established a solid foundation for realizing your objectives.
Compromise will assure mutual benefits for everyone.
You do have leadership ability,
which you can use dramatically in dealing with large numbers of people.
Teaching, the physical sciences, politics, or government service at any level will provide you with the creative expression you want and need.
. .

Socially, you are at odds with anyone who challenges you,
and you may be referred to as a "troublemaker."
Although you have many friends,
they are mainly those who are willing to 'submit to you'.
You will have to make many adjustments in your outlook before you can attain emotional satisfaction.
Your strong will may disguise the depth of your emotional feelings.
. .
end/Quote

{Hope that helps. Astrology can PIN down with words some things we can feel at such a loss to describe.}

And -- You are not Alone.

posted April 27, 2022 07:28 PM            

I'm 37, no midlife crisis here. We all have to go through the midlife age, but not everyone will have the 'crisis'.
And yes, till death do us part, I'm not leaving him, unless he doesn't want me and the baby anymore, haha. We have a 4 years old toddler.

And yep, 11 years with same man, same husband. He the only man I'm obsess with in the past 11 years. They said Gemini are easily bored, well, not me, you can't be bored with someone if you obsess with them for over a decade, bored mean you will move to someone else.
I have Gemini Sun, Pisces Moon, Scorpio Mars. I'm just as determine as he is, lol. I have Scorpio Mars Conjunct Scorpio Saturn at 2 degree tight orb too.

here my chart, I don't think I'm the typical Gemini. https://i.postimg.cc/GcwhMZhf/My-Chart-June19.jpg

posted April 27, 2022 09:39 PM            

Robert Pelletier, Planets in Aspect.
- http://www.amazon.com/Planets-Aspect-Understanding-Dy namics-Planet/dp/0914918206?msclkid=bcb584f2c68f11ecbe1dcdef3b9a9cb9

IF you click on the URL make sure to save the page to your computer. Sometimes they stop working after a few looks.

hahahahah
Yes! Your Gemini placements (in H10!! makes you The Boss!!) with your Mercury ruled Virgo Ascendant wants to Educate that man!!!

(humor)
Yep!! SHOW him in print what they say about him!!!
You've got PROOF.
It's in the book!!
Then the responsibility will be on him.
Laughing so hard...
You're so cute!!

posted April 28, 2022 08:42 AM            

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posted April 28, 2022 08:57 AM            

I was giving this reading from someone who read traditional astrology, who read my husband and his (deceased) father composite. Amazing how astrology can be so true.

quote [ With Pluto opposition and squares, especially the Moon Pluto opposition, it mean there was a sense of ruthlessness and a need to survive in harsh conditions in order not to be destroyed .

The sextile to Mars, and trine Saturn, may mean there was harsh discipline and violence that were part of the systematic ruthlessness against possibly the inner child of both. Maybe his father thought he was preparing him to a harsh world, unfortunately that could be passed down from the paternal line of the family.

There was possibly verbal abuse too, with Sun, Mercury and Chiron in the 2nd house, opposite Venus/Jupiter conjunction in the 8th.

It´s also possible that they did care about each other, and shared with each other beliefs/values with the Jupiter and Venus conjunction, but they probably were harsh beliefs/values with all the the squares and opposition.

Uranus squares could mean a sense of detachment from each other. This is further added with a Mars Neptune conjunction in the 7th, which may indicate lack of compassion was present, or lack of boundaries, or even thinking that by violence the father was actually helping the son, when it wasn´t the case with all the challenging aspects to Neptune. ] end quote.

posted April 28, 2022 10:21 AM            

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posted April 28, 2022 05:11 PM            

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Originally posted by married11years:
Anyone here have natal Uranus squared your natal Sun? Can you share with me how it is for you?

My husband have natal Uranus squared Sun.
It said: [ The ego is quite large when the Sun is square or opposite Uranus. It can be quite a challenge to get them to do what they don’t want to do. These are individuals quite set in their own ways.
It gives you a rebellious personality who is interested in acting and thinking in a more unique manner from the consensus. ]

This is very true to my husband. It impossible to get him to do something that he doesn't want. But then once he want something, nothing can stop him neither.
Added to his Scorpio Mars conjunction Scorpio Saturn give him the determination, once he want something he will not stop until he get his goals.

And what up with power struggle, is that an Uranus squared Sun trait, or more of the Scorpio Mars trait? Since his childhood to his adulthood, he has zero problem with confronting (with anyone) and POWER STRUGGLE with his dad. NONE will back down (both have Scorpio Mars) like father like son. He power struggle with both his mom and dad, he will not back down.

It "power struggle" a Scorpio thing? He has Scorpio Mars, Scorpio Saturn, Scorpio Pluto, all 3 malefic planets in same sign.

Or it more of the rebellious Uranus squared his Sun?

This is an example of a someone who does not act like their Sun sign, it alot more to your chart than just the Sun sign.

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Yes, someone close to me has this aspect. It does make for a rebel.