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Topic: Venus hard aspects to Mars. Your experience?
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married11years Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 24, 2022 11:30 PM
How your experience with someone who has hard Venus aspects to Mars? Positive? Negative?What weird is I been with him so long, but I never see the Venus side of him, it always the Mars that show up (Mars is strong in his chart, the aspects show that). I guess when it hard aspect, the Mars tend to win? I just couldn't ignite his Venus, I not even sure if his Venus even work, lol. Well he a man, is it normal that his Mars show alot more right? IP: Logged |
saronna Knowflake Posts: 1583 From: Sydney Australia Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 24, 2022 11:50 PM
I have read that book men are from mars & woman are from Venus. I don't know how to ignite Venus in hard aspect to mars. Maybe his Venus sign house & ruler will help ignite Venus hard aspect to mars & maybe his hard aspects planets ruler & house. Is your husband's Venus conjunct mars 0°. Where is your husbands Venus & house & ruler.
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married11years Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 25, 2022 12:01 AM
I will go read that book, thank you for the recommendation sis.IP: Logged |
married11years Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 25, 2022 12:14 AM
Hi sis sarona,How is Australia today sis? Everything good there? How the Covid there?
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Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 4012 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted April 25, 2022 07:54 AM
i have the square personally, but my western chart is very venus dominant (venus in libra tightly conjunct my ascendant and south node as part of a kite and t-square... most of my planets aspect venus in my chart) so i'm not sure how much of it shows up for other peoplemy mars is loosely conjunct neptune on one side and then loosely conjunct my ic on the other (and square my moon/north node as well) however venus is in its own sign and my mars is exalted in capricorn which i'm sure also changes things IP: Logged |
married11years Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 25, 2022 08:14 AM
Thank you for sharing Dumuzi.My husband is the opposite, his chart is Mars dominant, Venus, Moon, Sun all got overpower by his Mars. I guess you really have to look at the aspects in order to see if Mars will show up more or Venus. IP: Logged |
married11years Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 25, 2022 08:18 AM
I think it has to do with how STRONG is Mars in your chart and the aspects. Mars is too strong in his chart, I was told that from someone who read traditional astrology that read his chart. I was even warn to keep an eye out for his Mars impulse.My husband hard aspect Venus and his Mars is at exactly at 0 degree orb, so it should be equal energy, but I guess his Mars outwin his Venus. The thing is his Venus should be able to detach himself, but his Scorpio Mars just won't let him. I'm with him 11 years so I understand him very well, he anything but detach when it come to love and his family. Too much water in his chart, like what can 1 Venus do? He has Jupiter and Neptune both in Capricorn earth sign, but how helpful is that? And Cancer Ascendant which is water sign added on with those Scorpio and Pisces. He just can't detach himself. At this point I just hope his Uranus can give him so reasoning but then Uranus probably just added on further to his impulse along with his Mars. His Moon is afflicted, so no help there. His Sun got diluted/overpower by his strong Mars, then Uranus squared his Sun too, so no help there neither. He is a very logical person when it come to his work/career. But then when it come to his dad (deceased), sister (deceased), his mom, wife and kid, all those logic he throw out of the window, he completely let his emotion take over him. It a pity for a man who has Scorpio Mars conjunction Scorpio Saturn in 5th, whom very self-discipline and career oriented. But throw all that out when it come to his family. And I swear I thought Scorpio sign are stronger than this? No idea how to get his Venus show up, haven't see it in 11 years, lol. His life would be more balance if he can connect to his logical Venus and logical Moon, but both are obstruct in his chart. And he is a daytime born chart, daytime chart people connect more with the Sun than the Moon. How I wish he has Capricorn Mars, that sadist Saturn rule Capricorn for sure would get him to be ruthless.
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married11years Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 25, 2022 08:37 AM
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Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 4012 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted April 25, 2022 10:44 AM
my cap mars is the biggest reason i initially looked into sidereal placements and vedic etc (and to this day i find them far more accurate, i use western here because it's a western/tropical dominant forum) because i find it very unrelatablei'm not ruthless, i'm not particularly determined (in fact i don't finish most things i start), i'm not materialistic, i don't give a **** about status etc etc etc if i have absolutely no choice i'll do something even if it's hard because no choice, but if given options... 🤷♀️ i think it's actually a really overblown placement and i consider myself living proof that exalted placements aren't all they're made out to be because end of the day exalted just means that mars itself functions well in capricorn (as in the traits of mars as a planet are well suited when measured against the traits of cap as a sign) not that a person with mars in cap is going to end up with all the "positive" sides of it or that life will play out in such a way that those traits will be helpful IP: Logged |
married11years Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 25, 2022 10:56 AM
Well then you have to look at your other aspects that affect your Mars, that why it not perform like how it should. Thank you for sharing your story.My husband Mars is very strong in his chart, it is his Venus and Moon that afflicted. His Mars get things done. My childhood friend all her aspects are good, I don't think I see a bad aspect in her chart. Very lucky girl, and me and her born in same year, lol. Her Capricorn Mars definitely get things done for her. https://horoscopes.astro-seek.com/astrology-house-systems-calculator This site one can compared their planets in different house systems. IP: Logged |
married11years Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 25, 2022 11:07 AM
Well no sh-it I really hope Sidereal and Vedic are NOT accurate like you say in your case. Because I had someone help did a Sidereal Vedic reading for my husband chart and this was what I got:begin quote: [ Your husband has too much emotion suppressed inside. Sudden outburst can be fatal for him. Make sure he does not any self harm. His Sun and Moon shows anger. If possible he needs to visit a religious house once a week, help him stabilize his soul. He needs to know that his father and dead ancestors are close to him and can see him. His destructive actions hurt them. As a result he gets more sad and gloomy. He needs not to be guilty. He need to care his emotional wound instead of scratching the wound again and again. ] end quote. There more about his Mars and Saturn, but that the Vedic reading said about my husabnd. First of all my husband is an Atheist. Second of all my husband doesn't believe in these stuff. Yes, I read it to him. He can said he not believe in these stuff, but it so true about him, especially with his father death, and how hard he take his father death. Don't scare me, because if Sidereal and Vedic are accurate, then that my husband fate. He doomed. I heard Vedic are use by Indian style reading right? not western. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 22537 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 25, 2022 04:14 PM
I have the square. I don't put up with things that my sister does (she has a sextile, and she once called me a man-hater, because I didn't want to be around her boyfriend/husband who sexually harassed me). IP: Logged |
saronna Knowflake Posts: 1583 From: Sydney Australia Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 25, 2022 04:31 PM
Hi married11. It's good here in Australia. Covid it's not locked down everything is open. How's it there. I believe in traditional astrology & it really helps me to understand my situation. Day to day daily routine.IP: Logged |
married11years Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 25, 2022 06:49 PM
@ sis sarona,My husband have a square, not a conjunction. A square exactly at 0 degree orb. It hard energy as both his Mars and Venus are fixed sign. You said you came to Australia from U.S. since little, yes? Then I bet you not miss U.S. much since you spend all your life in Australia.
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saronna Knowflake Posts: 1583 From: Sydney Australia Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 25, 2022 07:06 PM
I love Australia. I want to do relocation with Astrology. I got relocation with Astrology done many years ago. mars square Venus & in fixed signs that's hard for your husband.IP: Logged |
married11years Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 25, 2022 07:13 PM
Hi sis sarona, do you believe in palm reading? Vedic astrology?My husband palm reading is NOT good at all. He is not a superstitious person, he stop believe in religion after his father died. I'm getting superstitious lately, his Vedic reading it already bad, his palm reading even worst. Have you ever have your palm read? Would you consider yourself superstitious? IP: Logged |
saronna Knowflake Posts: 1583 From: Sydney Australia Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 25, 2022 07:59 PM
I don't know about palm reading & vedic astrology. I'm not superstitious. I had my palm reading done by a gypsy woman. She said I would have three children & married twice & I haven't got any children & I don't think I will get married again. & I can't have any children I'm 51. I haven't had vedic astrology chart done. I went to mind body & soul festival & got my astrology chart & numerology done & tarot cards read. Astrology chart done was Koch house.
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married11years Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 25, 2022 08:05 PM
Thank you sis. Sis sarona, how long have you been study astrology? Can you read some aspects in composite chart?I'm NOT superstitious at all, but it everything said is just so true about my husband, it scary. His palm reading was spot on, his Vedic reading was spot on too. I'm with him 11 years, so I really understand him. I mean how can they guess his life, his childhood from palm reading? Scary. Can you read composite chart sis?
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saronna Knowflake Posts: 1583 From: Sydney Australia Registered: Jan 2010
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posted April 25, 2022 08:40 PM
I haven't studied astrology. I use to read alot of astrology books & my first astrology books were Linda Goodman love signs & sun signs & star signs. & I read alot of books from Linda Goodman pilgrims reading list from star signs. I can't read composite charts.IP: Logged |
Leo-Cancer98 Knowflake Posts: 1842 From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada Registered: Nov 2014
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posted April 26, 2022 12:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by saronna: I don't know about palm reading & vedic astrology. I'm not superstitious. I had my palm reading done by a gypsy woman. She said I would have three children & married twice & I haven't got any children & I don't think I will get married again. & I can't have any children I'm 51. I haven't had vedic astrology chart done. I went to mind body & soul festival & got my astrology chart & numerology done & tarot cards read. Astrology chart done was Koch house.
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Leo-Cancer98 Knowflake Posts: 1842 From: Toronto,Ontario,Canada Registered: Nov 2014
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posted April 26, 2022 12:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by married11years: I think it has to do with how STRONG is Mars in your chart and the aspects. Mars is too strong in his chart, I was told that from someone who read traditional astrology that read his chart. I was even warn to keep an eye out for his Mars impulse.My husband hard aspect Venus and his Mars is at exactly at 0 degree orb, so it should be equal energy, but I guess his Mars outwin his Venus. The thing is his Venus should be able to detach himself, but his Scorpio Mars just won't let him. I'm with him 11 years so I understand him very well, he anything but detach when it come to love and his family. Too much water in his chart, like what can 1 Venus do? He has Jupiter and Neptune both in Capricorn earth sign, but how helpful is that? And Cancer Ascendant which is water sign added on with those Scorpio and Pisces. He just can't detach himself. At this point I just hope his Uranus can give him so reasoning but then Uranus probably just added on further to his impulse along with his Mars. His Moon is afflicted, so no help there. His Sun got diluted/overpower by his strong Mars, then Uranus squared his Sun too, so no help there neither. He is a very logical person when it come to his work/career. But then when it come to his dad (deceased), sister (deceased), his mom, wife and kid, all those logic he throw out of the window, he completely let his emotion take over him. It a pity for a man who has Scorpio Mars conjunction Scorpio Saturn in 5th, whom very self-discipline and career oriented. But throw all that out when it come to his family. And I swear I thought Scorpio sign are stronger than this? No idea how to get his Venus show up, haven't see it in 11 years, lol. His life would be more balance if he can connect to his logical Venus and logical Moon, but both are obstruct in his chart. And he is a daytime born chart, daytime chart people connect more with the Sun than the Moon. How I wish he has Capricorn Mars, that sadist Saturn rule Capricorn for sure would get him to be ruthless.
Your husband is a Cancer Rising with Venus square Scorpio Mars at a 0' degree orb? What is his Venus Sign and in which House is it? IP: Logged |
married11years Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Registered: Apr 2022
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posted April 26, 2022 05:59 PM
He has Mars Conjunction Saturn in Scorpio. Capricorn on his 7th house due to he Cancer Rising.His Venus in 8th, fixed sign Venus rule by Saturn. Both his Mars and Venus are fixed sign and squared at 0 degree orb, so it hard to crack. His Scorpio Mars in 5th house squared his Venus in 8th. Both are fixed energy. Pluto in his 4th house Trine his Venus in 8th. He not showing his Venus, and I say why. He is the most intense, protective of me, he has this undying obsession for me (I'm his wife though, 11 years) but yeah, his obsession last that long, crazily possessive of me, you name it all. All the dark traits of Scorpio Mars, and the dark traits of Cancer rising. He can't detach from me emotionally, physically, or mentally. How can he detach from me if he obsess with me this long? That why I say his Venus is not working, his Scorpio Mars yes, deep and intense, but his Venus should be able to detach and non-obsessive, and know what freedom is. But he NEVER give me any freedom, lol. I bet if I leave him he will lock me in the house and not let me go, lol. I think his Venus just diluted, Mars in Scorpio squared his Venus, Saturn in Scorpio also squared his Venus. But Pluto in Scorpio Trine his Venus though. But I guess that Trine not working? Wait, I think that trine make him even more obsessive right? IP: Logged |