posted April 26, 2022 06:29 PM            

I used to be an artist, and that took a backseat, which I never thought would happen. I would love a secret garden type of garden, I used to be more laid-back, I’m not the most driven person. It depends on the circumstances. If i’m really emotional, that can overwhelm any discipline or motivation. I guess my Gemini moon/Venus can balance that out, but I can also get too much into my head, which I hate. I don’t like extremes, but I won’t shame you for being emotional. My Pisces moon sister would do that. Aries sun (me) versus cappy. I used to keep a lot in, but I would cry if I needed to.

posted April 26, 2022 08:44 PM            

I feel like both signs lets people be who they are. I am not shallow. I've dated different body types, ages, and races.

In my mid 20's I did start dressing people more feminine. But this can make people feel compelled to tell me I don't need to dress so feminine. And my Aqua Mars ain't budging for no one. I look like the person who wants advice but actually loathes unwanted advice.

I can be a bit flashy with my fashion choices. That can be an Aquarius thing I feel like. My Pisces side likes romance, and fantasies. But my Aqua mars likes to keep things fresh. I always try to do different things for planned dates.

I also like having a lot of clothes to keep people on their toes. I have a huge rotation of outfits. I don't like shopping at the same places. I only will if I have a lot of gift cards.

I like doing different things with my make up and hair. I also started wearing contacts when I was 27.

I am very much a person who enjoys going full glam BUT only if I have the time and the energy. I am closer to my job now and done with college so I have been enjoying going to work with make up and hair styled more frequently. I don't feel like I need to always go full glam because it will make when I actually do that much more special. And some people with hair advice is "leave your hair alone. I use a blow dryer on my hair only a few times a year.

I don't like to give into pressure with trends.

I also have both my Mars and Venus in the 10th house. I did not marry my husband for money, I married him because he is good with money. (and other things)

I also really like the colors: Teal/Aqua, Pink, Maroon, and Black

I feel like my wedding was all my Venus Pisces aesthetic! Botanical garden wedding. And my dress was Ivory lace.

People pick up on other things in my chart more though like my Gemini Rising, then Virgo...I have no virgo in my chart but I do have 6th house moon, pluto lilith conjunction, and Leo I only have S. Node and IC there.

posted April 26, 2022 09:07 PM            

His Virgo is very strong in his chart. He is a quadruple Virgo because he also has Mercury and rising here. He is such a critic LOL!

I also picked up on Pisces and Gemini energy when I first met him. He has Gemini moon and a lot of his Virgo stuff is in his 12th house. He loves wearing grey. It's his happy color! LOL He does not ever wear cologne. Just deodorant. He does not have a dress spiffy job. But he dresses well in casual settings nice sweaters and pants.

He will tell me if I am dressed too crazy, my Aqua mars does not care. But he does like me dressed feminine. He makes fun of me the rare times I dress like a bum. Sometimes though he will say "why can't you just wear jeans and a T-shirt?" My Aqua mars says "that sounds awful."

He hates the prairie dress trend. He will also say "take off the lipstick we are just going to Apple Bees"

He also kind of has the Madonna ***** complexity with me. He acts like he doesn't like kinky fashion on me. He will say I'm dressed like a prostitute or look trashy...but then he will get a bonner. I kind of am a Madonna ***** complexity with my Scorpio in the 6th house. And I was wearing fishnet tights and red lip gloss when we first felt compelled to talk to me. But I had my nice girl glasses on. Though I like playing with my hair I keep it pretty natural.

Since I don't go full glam everyday while I do enjoy it, I don't think I can handle a man who puts more effort than me into his appearance all the time.

posted April 27, 2022 01:14 AM            

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Originally posted by married11years:
Bump, anyone want to share their Mars and Venus sign? And how it work out for you?

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My Mars is in Pisces (In the 12th house) and my Venus is conjunct pluto in scorpio (in house 8th)

In which ways does it show? My Mars in 12 makes me a bit of a conflict avoidant person, I prefer to conced than having an argument. I even understand the reasons of people that hurts me and I profoundly dislike.

But if somebody dares to go against the people I love I really have to control my reactions, I get quite angry and get super protective of them and I'm not afraid to be direct and I approach who even wants problems with them.

I noticed my Mars is weak, but my venus is more reactive when it's about my loved ones or if I get cheated on and betrayed. If they betray me (a friend once brought a person that was best friends with someone that hurt me a lot, pretending the person didn't know them but she was really there hearing what I said to then go and gossip)...

My friend stopped being my friend in that same day, just like that,never spoke to her again, she was like my sister.

And I got cheated on once... And stayed with the guy, but I had so much vindictive thoughts, I actually kissed another guy out of spite (In my defense I was like 20 and very emotionally immature).

Worked a lot in healing that, broke up with the guy and I don't care about him anymore...

But I will never... Ever... Ever forget I was cheated on and a part of me, will always feel sore and want a payback even if my Mars in Pisces will never do anything about it.

I guess that's one of my plutonian shadows

posted April 27, 2022 03:33 PM            

Tightest aspect to Venus is an almost exact sextile to Jupiter and tightest to Mars is an exact sextile to Uranus.