posted April 26, 2022 01:47 PM            

Taurus - my roommate some years back would secretly spread lies about me and create enemity between myself and my boyfriend cos she liked him then come to smile at my face , another Taurus female tore my dress when I was taking a shower cos she felt I’ll look better than her in the party

Aquarius- the most obvious one , these girls constantly bullied me and always copy my style , spread rumors about me , tried to drug me and plan for me to be gang raped , always take my stuff without my permission

Libra - she would secretly monitor my every move , what I use on my skin , what I wear , would try to talk me out of doing something that she can’t progress in

posted April 26, 2022 07:44 PM            

Sun signs that have demonstrated jealous behavior have mainly been Scorpio and Virgo. Anything you do that is flawed they are on it like a fly on **** . And they would rather die than admit they are jealous. Not all of them just a majority of my experiences, they take the cake for sure.

Pisces girl was like "is anyone else sick of Stawr succeeding cause I sure am!"

I've dealt with one Taurus that was super threatened by me at an old job. Another Taurus is a good friend but she did not like it when I was over my ex and wanted me to be as miserable as she was. (she got back with her ex though married and all that jazz, I was not meant to be with my ex)

One Gemini I know would be super passive aggressive how I chose to express myself through fashion on occasion, but most of the time is supportive.

Cancer's not really jealous pretty supportive but a few girls have creeped me out by how they would copy me.

posted April 28, 2022 07:34 PM            

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I can’t think of anyone. I’ve been accused of it, but that was a case of my sister’s husband hitting on me, repeatedly, and getting away with it. I got punished for it. She was a Capricorn. When I didn’t want to be forced to be under the same roof as him, for at least a month at time, when they were finally engaged, I was told that I must be jealous, when she just chose to stay with him. I never chose to have him in my life.

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Hey I almost had this problem, my situation was that my married sisters will often ask me to come spend some days with them then when I come they start to get jealous of my presence and start talking behind my back about me being jealous of them and trying to entice their husbands

posted April 28, 2022 07:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
My big 3 are
Gemini Rising
Aries Sun house 11
Scorpio Moon house 6

Sun signs that have demonstrated jealous behavior have mainly been Scorpio and Virgo. Anything you do that is flawed they are on it like a fly on **** . And they would rather die than admit they are jealous. Not all of them just a majority of my experiences, they take the cake for sure.

Pisces girl was like "is anyone else sick of Stawr succeeding cause I sure am!"

I've dealt with one Taurus that was super threatened by me at an old job. Another Taurus is a good friend but she did not like it when I was over my ex and wanted me to be as miserable as she was. (she got back with her ex though married and all that jazz, I was not meant to be with my ex)

One Gemini I know would be super passive aggressive how I chose to express myself through fashion on occasion, but most of the time is supportive.

Cancer's not really jealous pretty supportive but a few girls have creeped me out by how they would copy me.

Everyone gets jealous but it's how we chose to handle it.

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The Taurus situation I encountered it with one of my cousins who is a Taurus, she wanted me to remain with a trifling partner and keep looking horrible so she can be happy

posted April 28, 2022 08:58 PM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
Hey I almost had this problem, my situation was that my married sisters will often ask me to come spend some days with them then when I come they start to get jealous of my presence and start talking behind my back about me being jealous of them and trying to entice their husbands

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You've just reminded me of something, only they weren't jealous of my looks or anything. My Aries aunt. She left her two little dogs with us, when we were teenagers, and she had to go away for a few days. She had this gorgeous little white dog - not a Yorkie or West Highland, I can't remember his breed, but he was so sweet - and a tiny little poodle she hadn't had for long.

She wanted me to look after the little white dog, that I already knew, and my sister to look after the poodle, because she didn't want the poodle to like me, and get attached to me. She'd left little M. with me, two years before. the poor thing was there when I came down with food poisoning for a week. We'd bonded, and then his last day, I was really sick. She was jealous that he ended up loving me.

She wanted her son to get rid of a parakeet, before this, and had us look after him for a while. This bird was my first, and I loved him, but I only got him, because she lied to my cousin, and said that I wanted to keep him. I would never do that.

posted April 29, 2022 01:17 AM            

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Yeah, this was like 5 years ago but my friend saved a picture of my ex with his new girlfriend. And she was like "his new girl friend looks just like you! Look at it!" and I was like "no I don't want to." she kept persisting. and I was like "if you were really my friend, you would not do this to me."

we reconciled when Uranus was rx was in my 11th house. She even admitted that she shouldn't of done that. And she never says sorry so that was very big of her!

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Tauruses never say sorry and it’s not about apologizing to you, she might literally do worse next time

posted April 29, 2022 01:22 AM            

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You've just reminded me of something, only they weren't jealous of my looks or anything. My Aries aunt. She left her two little dogs with us, when we were teenagers, and she had to go away for a few days. She had this gorgeous little white dog - not a Yorkie or West Highland, I can't remember his breed, but he was so sweet - and a tiny little poodle she hadn't had for long.

She wanted me to look after the little white dog, that I already knew, and my sister to look after the poodle, because she didn't want the poodle to like me, and get attached to me. She'd left little M. with me, two years before. the poor thing was there when I came down with food poisoning for a week. We'd bonded, and then his last day, I was really sick. She was jealous that he ended up loving me.

She wanted her son to get rid of a parakeet, before this, and had us look after him for a while. This bird was my first, and I loved him, but I only got him, because she lied to my cousin, and said that I wanted to keep him. I would never do that.

She's the same one who sent me "You Can Heal Your Life" when I asked her for help with someone actually hurting me, in my home.

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posted April 30, 2022 05:41 PM            

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My natal chart:
http://imgur.com/VBNDBML

posted May 01, 2022 05:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Amoranthaniela:
Hmm, people who've been most envious, as I've noticed, have been Gemini, Sagittarius, Aries, and Aquarius. Thinking about it I realize these are all masculine signs. Most feminine signs seem to be more admiring and supportive with me rather than envious.

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posted May 01, 2022 07:18 PM            

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Originally posted by ElfinPisces:
What house is your Venus & mars ? Also are you an earth/ water moon ?

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posted May 02, 2022 06:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Amoranthaniela:
Yep water moon, and both mars and venus are in the 6th.

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posted May 07, 2022 04:39 PM            

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Tauruses never say sorry and it’s not about apologizing to you, she might literally do worse next time

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okay that's interesting about Taurus's and saying sorry!

My tipple Taurus (sun, uranus, venus) niece will say it like "sowryyy!"

I have Taurus Mercury and I hate saying sorry. My Virgo Mercury husband will be like "say sorry!" and I'll mouth it, or whisper it. He'll be like "come on say it louder....louder than that!"
I don't know if it's my Scorpio stuff, but I do not like forced apologies. What good is sorry if the person doesn't mean it?

In my preschool class my Libra assistant will tell my students "say you're sorry" Sometimes students will not want to say sorry...in that situation I will go over to the child who is upset and I will say "I am so sorry that they are not sorry, are you okay?" The child who does not want to say sorry will be compelled to say sorry to the other kid every time.

I never sound like I'm sorry when I say it. I do this thing some times where if I want to tell someone off I'll start with "I'm sorry BUT..." My husband hates this. He will sometimes go "stop it! no you're not sorry!"

Also when I do say just sorry, I'm really just saying "oh well, too bad, eff you" I wasn't raised to say what I mean so I just say "sorry" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=15HTd4Um1m4

But when I realize I'm wrong I will cry because I hate being wrong.

posted May 08, 2022 02:12 AM            

I'm sure my adopted younger sister is envious of me, but unfortunately, she's one of the selected few where her zodiac sign is not easy to pinpoint. Her legal birthday is on August 2nd. While Leo isn't her real zodiac sign to my knowledge, it wouldn't surprise me if she has something in that sign. She tries to use material possessions and food to fill the void of emptiness in her heart. The shadow qualities of sensual, materialistic signs like Taurus, Leo, and Libra are very present in her.

My sister is from a poor country in Africa. My mother adopted her with the hopes of giving a child a better life, but this is also just speculation based on the conditions my sister lived in before she was adopted and what I know about my mom. My sister is loaded with emotional issues, trauma, and a history of abuse of likely all forms. She's professionally diagnosed with Reactive Attachment Disorder, Major Depression, anxiety, and PTSD.

When my mom told me my sister was diagnosed with PTSD, it wasn't a surprise to me. I thought it was likely based on interactions I've overheard from my room.

Her generational planets, however, are very telling. She has Pluto opposing my Moon no matter what her real birthday is. As the adult, I have to be mature about things, but she doesn't make me feel like an adult. She makes me feel like a child.

I don't think my sister would envy me if she knew I've spent 30 years of non-stop hardship, struggles, and obstacles. I believe that how I feel around her is my inner child's emotions. There are some parallels between when my brother was born and the situation I'm in now. I understand I'm older and responsible for my behavior. She doesn't know all the pain and suffering she's inflicted upon me, but I believe what she's said and done is all from a place of envy, self-hatred, and fear of abandonment. She doesn't have the self-awareness to know this though and she wasn't ever old enough to develop it.

My sister's brain is developing differently because of how early issues for her began. Her developmental stages being off mean she's not able to mature in the same way as a normal child would.

She's done a lot of damage to me. I believe she's caused some amount of trauma and I've talked about her in therapy, but somehow, no therapist has seen me lose emotional composure. No matter how angry or upset I am before any session, the emotionally charged problems are just discussed with emotional detachment. I've heard I look angry when I talk about my sister, but that's nothing compared to when she's angry.

Issues of power and control exist between my sister and I. She has her status as a minor protecting her right now yet I don't see our dynamic changing even once she's become an adult.

Sometimes, I want to snap in a controlled setting like in therapy, but I never snap. The feedback that I look angry is beneficial for me in terms of how I portray my emotions through body language and facial expressions. However, I'm generally well-controlled otherwise and I show more vulnerability and emotion in therapy.

I believe I'm envious of my sister too. However, that envy is probably just repressed envy from my early developmental years. I used to be envious of my brother so it would make sense that the similar parallels would cause those feelings to resurface.

My sister is likely going to have a much worse life than me as a result of her issues, but I'd like to see her happy, fulfilled, and successful. I want to see her become a better person and find better ways to cope with her problems.

My sister is probably envious of my brother as well. She's treated him worse than I have. Either way, she's miserable and the envy is coming from other emotional issues that she feels aren't being acknowledged or respected. She feels like she's lacking something and she isn't getting it.

I also feel like I'm lacking something and I don't even know what it is. The parallel between my envy toward my brother and my envy toward my sister is they have needs that are more important than mine. My brother was a newborn when I was struggling just to breathe and I needed surgery.

My sister is a minor and I'm adult in need of meaningful connections, but I can't come out and be honest about everything when my sister is known to snap whenever she feels wronged. She loves to go over to my aunt's house. I've been distant with my aunt to avoid causing drama and also because of my own emotional issues that were likely there before my sister was even adopted.

In a way, I'm grateful to have more information about any issues I need to address, but I'm not someone to envy. I understand why someone would. From an outside perspective, it does seem like I've got it made. Well, I don't. That's an illusion that will fade away in time. I feel locked and trapped into poverty. Whatever my life becomes after my mom dies is dependent on what I do while she's still alive from this point onward.

So, sure, I know and understand why my sister would envy me. She sees a warped image of the situation and can't see the facts. I'm suffering too. The only difference is I'm trying to do something about it and it's taking what feels like forever to relieve myself of that suffering.

posted May 08, 2022 01:46 PM            

But there was one of interest...I shared one high school class with her, and because the teacher was a control freak, she made us sit next to each other as it was in alphabetical order to do so.

I would describe her fashion as preppy (while mine was more grunge), and she was very different from me. at least on a surface level (though she was one of the few who would disrespect me to my face rather than behind my back, and I could grudgingly respect that, though outside of class I didn't think of her much). She sat up straight and took notes, I'd slouch, lay my head down, or even read when I could get away with it (many teachers turned a blind eye to this on the unspoken agreement that if they let me read then I don't ask questions they can't, or don't dare, answer, and she's one of the few who brought that up since other kids didn't get that deal).

She felt I was a disgrace, that things came to easy to me which I did not deserve (my grades were at least as good as hers despite being less diligent), and taunted me cruelly on everything from my accent to the false rumors spread about me. I'd respond in kind, but more in an aloof comedic way (though I was the only one who got sent to the office over it once). The rest of the class loved it, it was great entertainment for them to see us tear each other apart, and just how she tried to project a sense of dignified self-control but kept losing it.

I think the teacher believed in astrology because she'd announce birthdays and was shocked that this girl I was placed next to had the same birthday, and asked some specific questions. And thus we learned we were born in the same hospital (one of the other kids asked if I'd stolen her pacifier back then for her to hate me so).

When I later got into astrology, It teased my mind horribly how she and I could be born on the same day at the same hospital and yet be so different, even allowing for nurture.

After Facebook became a thing, I had a friend of mine contact her (with no mention of me), and eventually offer do a free reading (which she got in good faith), and so I got her chart. She was born hours later, and I found that my 5H Sag stellium (moon, Mars, Uranus, Neptune) were in her 12H.