posted May 04, 2022 10:45 PM            

No idea, but I"m guessing an intense relationship? And if his Pluto Trine your Venus, I heard is the most painful relationship, the Pluto person benefit, the Venus person hurt.

What is your guy Pluto sign in and your Venus sign? Are "YOU" the Pluto person or your guy is the Pluto person?

I'm married 11 years to a man who his Pluto trine my Venus, his Pluto also trine my Moon, Trine my Sun, Sextile my Ascendant, Conjunction my Mars.

Pluto Trine Moon
Pluto Trine Sun
Pluto Trine Venus
Pluto Trine Mercury
Pluto Conjunction Mars
Pluto Sextile Neptune
Pluto Sextile Ascendant

That's our Pluto column synastry. Our Composite (which I heard is what should be use in the long run), his Pluto also Trine my Venus.

We married 11 years, he the most intense man I ever know, and he intense in everything not just sex, his jobs, his life, everything he dominant everything.

My husband has a Scorpio Mars, Scorpio Saturn, Scorpio Pluto. So yeah, obsessive and possessive he is.

In my case my husband is the Pluto person, so all the intensity and obsession is he deal with. Lol. Not me. I'm not the Pluto one, lol.

posted May 05, 2022 12:39 AM            

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Originally posted by married11years:
Bump for you, so others can chime in.

No idea, but I"m guessing an intense relationship? And if his Pluto Trine your Venus, I heard is the most painful relationship, the Pluto person benefit, the Venus person hurt.

What is your guy Pluto sign in and your Venus sign? Are "YOU" the Pluto person or your guy is the Pluto person?

I'm married 11 years to a man who his Pluto trine my Venus, his Pluto also trine my Moon, Trine my Sun, Sextile my Ascendant, Conjunction my Mars.

Pluto Trine Moon
Pluto Trine Sun
Pluto Trine Venus
Pluto Trine Mercury
Pluto Conjunction Mars
Pluto Sextile Neptune
Pluto Sextile Ascendant

That's our Pluto column synastry. Our Composite (which I heard is what should be use in the long run), his Pluto also Trine my Venus.

We married 11 years, he the most intense man I ever know, and he intense in everything not just sex, his jobs, his life, everything he dominant everything.

My husband has a Scorpio Mars, Scorpio Saturn, Scorpio Pluto. So yeah, obsessive and possessive he is.

In my case my husband is the Pluto person, so all the intensity and obsession is he deal with. Lol. Not me. I'm not the Pluto one, lol.

So really, are you the Pluto person, or your guy? There a difference in how that synastry play out.

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posted May 05, 2022 12:41 AM            

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Originally posted by saronna:
I don't know if Pluto can burn to the ground. I don't know if there's true love but maybe look at your charts to see if it's real love twin souls. Have a look at Linda Goodman relationship signs book to see if you are twin souls.

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Hey! we are definitely not twin souls - I know who my twin is - nevertheless, I don't really believe that that sort of soul connection can always been seen in astology!

posted May 05, 2022 12:47 AM            

I'm lucky my husband Pluto Trine my Moon, as it blend. You right, a Trine is good.
As it say this: [ The Pluto trine Moon synastry aspect creates a powerful bond that can feel karmic. It makes both people feel that they must stay in the relationship for some reason. However, the Pluto trine Moon synastry aspect means that both people will feel very attached to each other.]

That Trine description is true. IF ours was Opposition, I not sure if I can survive 11 years (as my husband the Pluto person), I'm the Moon, lol.

posted May 05, 2022 12:55 AM            

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Originally posted by married11years:
Sis Lily, Pluto Opposition Moon is a Bad for you guys synastry. I'm sorry to disappointed you. You can Google Pluto Opposition Moon in Synastry, and it a bad aspect for relationship (emotional abuse), the Moon won't survive, the Moon person won't ever be at ease.

I'm lucky my husband Pluto Trine my Moon, as it blend. You right, a Trine is good.
As it say this: [ The Pluto trine Moon synastry aspect creates a powerful bond that can feel karmic. It makes both people feel that they must stay in the relationship for some reason. However, the Pluto trine Moon synastry aspect means that both people will feel very attached to each other.]

That Trine description is true. IF ours was Opposition, I not sure if I can survive 11 years (as my husband the Pluto person), I'm the Moon, lol.

Anyhoo, I hope you and your guy work out. Free will, if you guys want to make it work, the "WILL" will triumph the synastry and natal.

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posted May 05, 2022 02:42 AM            

If u are standing in a queue together with someone. But you are thinking of someone else,you will not notice that that person was even there🤷🏿‍♂️. So which of the two people are you "with" really? The one there physically? Or the one in your head?

Plu/Nep have such an intense affect on the mind that we can literally "feel" a person's presence so dominant in our thoughts,that it feels like the person is there with us physically.

It is energetic "coupling". And it doesn't necessarily need the permission of another to happen.You yourself can be in that "relationship" all on your own with a phantom person and feel the high as if you were indeed with the "real" person etc.

Both Nep/Plu can create this energetic coupling phenomenon. And it can be extremely consuming. This is how stalking happens, obsessions build-up and that person feels like "yours".

This even if you haven't told them of your feelings and they are blissfully unaware of them. You claim them as "yours" and get intensely jealous at anyone who talks to them, holds them affectionately OR even looks in their direction. It's intense!

From my experience, love doesn't have to hurt to feel good.Nor does it feel like the earth moving. It tends to feel natural and "automatic". There is general ease to it.

I think of Pluto aspects to Ven, Pluto in 7th or Venus in Sco as the "suffer in love" placements.This because the intensity of the feelings felt are often mistaken for "love". But love by nature is NOT obsession, wound digging and feeling "out of depth".

It's like coming home. This even if you don't know what that feeling is like, you will know it instinctively when in love. There is no drama. But freedom.And in my view, Pluto energy (through its immense momentum) creates drama and delights in it. Love is synonymous to crises. And it has more of an addiction/ adrenaline charge to it that one grows progressively dependent on.

You'll know that the feelings are not liberating as soon as Uranus detachment hits. And you find yourself "set free" from the unconscious "bond" with that person. The relief is incredible. For me, thats what LOVE feels like. No work, no fight. Just basking in freedom from obsession and gaining yourself back.

For now I think that this individual may be a metaphoric "drug" to you. They triggered something. There is some relief they provide for you through you continuously obsessing over them( this no matter how temporary).

posted May 05, 2022 02:47 AM            

Because me and my husband are the one with Pluto Sextile Neptune and Ascendant. and Pluto Trine Sun, Moon, Venus.
OP didn't have Pluto and Neptune aspects. Nor the Trine.

posted May 05, 2022 03:33 AM            

If you are already very vulnerable at this time, I wouldn’t recommend getting into a very intense Plutonic relationship but focus on your own healing first. And I agree with Aries23Degrees, love shouldn’t hurt and have you feeling on edge.

posted May 05, 2022 04:12 AM            

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Originally posted by married11years:
Is that replied for me or for OP? Or for both?

Because me and my husband are the one with Pluto Sextile Neptune and Ascendant. and Pluto Trine Sun, Moon, Venus.
OP didn't have Pluto and Neptune aspects. Nor the Trine.

Pluto aspects that Trine are good for synastry, so are Sextile.

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I wasn't necessarily zooming in on specifics.The Nep/Pluto illustrated in the explanation refers to their similarity in breaking unconscious boundaries and "invasive" thoughts that consume one secretly. It wasn't necessarily speaking of the aspect between them.

From the post,take from it what you can. I was actually responding to the thread starter because I myself have Pluto in 7th house in the sign of Sco , Venus also there. And although those two are not conjunct. The energy does work in a more subtle way.

When younger, I wasn't aware of its effect on me(nor the effect I had on others because of it being on the angle). Sat,Ven,Plu are inside the 7th house and Mars conj Dsc from the 6th.

I had the unfortunate experience of being caught up in an unhealthy situation when younger where a lady obsessed over me. This to such an extent that she used what was relayed to me to be "witchcraft" and "curse" me after I broke up with her.

The unconscious energetic feel of Pluto on 7th can repel others from starting a relationship with you because they may "sense" your intensity. Sometimes this intensity is not coming from you(esp when opp the Asc in my case) but is the energetic feel of those who have made a "claim" on you.

posted May 05, 2022 06:58 AM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
Hi LilyIris07, are you close in age range? If you are, then you both probably have these aspects in your natal chart as well. If you both have difficult Pluto aspects in the natal chart this would indicate you both have some internal Plutonian issues to deal with. This could explain why you “trigger” each other. Pluto is the natural ruler of Scorpio and the 8th house, it’s connected to what we are willing to share with others and what we keep to ourselves. It’s connected to rebirth, transformation and a “do or die” energy. When there are difficult aspects with Pluto in synastry it usually brings up all the trauma and insecurities we have pushed down inside us.

If you are already very vulnerable at this time, I wouldn’t recommend getting into a very intense Plutonic relationship but focus on your own healing first. And I agree with Aries23Degrees, love shouldn’t hurt and have you feeling on edge.

How are the current transits affecting you? Are transit Pluto, Uranus, Saturn or the nodes making any aspects to your natal chart?

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Hi there! Uhm we are not close in age, about nine years apart - he has Pluto squared his Sun and in opposition to his north node- I can’t remember what else. I have Pluto square mars, opposition sun and trine moon.

posted May 05, 2022 08:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Pluto certainly does evoke very strong emotions. And though you two are not together physically, from an energetic level, you do feel "together".And so (imo)that is being with someone. Regardless of whether you are with them or not physically. Let me illustrate...

If u are standing in a queue together with someone. But you are thinking of someone else,you will not notice that that person was even there🤷🏿‍♂️. So which of the two people are you "with" really? The one there physically? Or the one in your head?

Plu/Nep have such an intense affect on the mind that we can literally "feel" a person's presence so dominant in our thoughts,that it feels like the person is there with us physically.

It is energetic "coupling". And it doesn't necessarily need the permission of another to happen.You yourself can be in that "relationship" all on your own with a phantom person and feel the high as if you were indeed with the "real" person etc.

Both Nep/Plu can create this energetic coupling phenomenon. And it can be extremely consuming. This is how stalking happens, obsessions build-up and that person feels like "yours".

This even if you haven't told them of your feelings and they are blissfully unaware of them. You claim them as "yours" and get intensely jealous at anyone who talks to them, holds them affectionately OR even looks in their direction. It's intense!

From my experience, love doesn't have to hurt to feel good.Nor does it feel like the earth moving. It tends to feel natural and "automatic". There is general ease to it.

I think of Pluto aspects to Ven, Pluto in 7th or Venus in Sco as the "suffer in love" placements.This because the intensity of the feelings felt are often mistaken for "love". But love by nature is NOT obsession, wound digging and feeling "out of depth".

It's like coming home. This even if you don't know what that feeling is like, you will know it instinctively when in love. There is no drama. But freedom.And in my view, Pluto energy (through its immense momentum) creates drama and delights in it. Love is synonymous to crises. And it has more of an addiction/ adrenaline charge to it that one grows progressively dependent on.

You'll know that the feelings are not liberating as soon as Uranus detachment hits. And you find yourself "set free" from the unconscious "bond" with that person. The relief is incredible. For me, thats what LOVE feels like. No work, no fight. Just basking in freedom from obsession and gaining yourself back.

For now I think that this individual may be a metaphoric "drug" to you. They triggered something. There is some relief they provide for you through you continuously obsessing over them( this no matter how temporary).

I wouldn't go digging into the "whys?" Because that rabbit hole could be unending. But I would entertain distractions and interruptions that will help discontinue the momentum of those obsessive thoughts

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Thank you for your response - this is totally how it feels, it is difficult to admit though. Apart of me wants out, but the other is being stubborn. Also hello fellow South African

posted May 05, 2022 08:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I wasn't necessarily zooming in on specifics.The Nep/Pluto illustrated in the explanation refers to their similarity in breaking unconscious boundaries and "invasive" thoughts that consume one secretly. It wasn't necessarily speaking of the aspect between them.

From the post,take from it what you can. I was actually responding to the thread starter because I myself have Pluto in 7th house in the sign of Sco , Venus also there. And although those two are not conjunct. The energy does work in a more subtle way.

When younger, I wasn't aware of its effect on me(nor the effect I had on others because of it being on the angle). Sat,Ven,Plu are inside the 7th house and Mars conj Dsc from the 6th.

I had the unfortunate experience of being caught up in an unhealthy situation when younger where a lady obsessed over me. This to such an extent that she used what was relayed to me to be "witchcraft" and "curse" me after I broke up with her.

The unconscious energetic feel of Pluto on 7th can repel others from starting a relationship with you because they may "sense" your intensity. Sometimes this intensity is not coming from you(esp when opp the Asc in my case) but is the energetic feel of those who have made a "claim" on you.

I don't quite fully understand it myself.But it is said to work on a very spiritual level. The very domain of Plu. The whole Nina Simone "I put a spell on you. Coz you're mine." effect.🤷🏿‍♂️

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Actually my Pluto is in this persons 7th house, but so is his - if we are using Whole houses.

posted May 07, 2022 01:26 AM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
Thank you for your response - this is totally how it feels, it is difficult to admit though. Apart of me wants out, but the other is being stubborn. Also hello fellow South African

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posted May 07, 2022 01:29 AM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
Actually my Pluto is in this persons 7th house, but so is his - if we are using Whole houses.

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There is something profound that this experience will likely have on you OR will add to your overall momentum in as far as attraction/relationships is concerned by being a catalyst for a "lightbulb" moment.

It could make you realize how obsession and being preoccupied with another person can bring an end to a relationship. Help you recognize how complete surrender to another (and not yourself) makes one extremely vulnerable OR how heartbreak can go hand in hand with an all consuming "love" connection. Because once again,you are giving away your power.

To quote Joan Armatrading in her song "More than one kind of love";

" ..Yes he fills your heart. Fills your mind. He's all you want. All you need. Everything. Everything. But love that is that exclusive, that obsessive. Can harm(hurt).."

posted May 07, 2022 04:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
😁😁😁😁😁Hi there. From Joburg, Gauteng🙏🏿

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posted May 07, 2022 04:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
There is something profound that this experience will likely have on you OR will add to your overall momentum in as far as attraction/relationships is concerned by being a catalyst for a "lightbulb" moment.

It could make you realize how obsession and being preoccupied with another person can bring an end to a relationship. Help you recognize how complete surrender to another (and not yourself) makes one extremely vulnerable OR how heartbreak can go hand in hand with an all consuming "love" connection. Because once again,you are giving away your power.

To quote Joan Armatrading in her song "More than one kind of love";

[b]" ..Yes he fills your heart. Fills your mind. He's all you want. All you need. Everything. Everything. But love that is that exclusive, that obsessive. Can harm(hurt).."

The Pluto lessons are rarely easy. But know that it is really seldom about the other person. The 7th house is a projection. This partnership is really about uncovering something about YOU. The obsession is the exposing of inner insecurities- the constant guarding against loss to the expense of peace of mind (and ironically that is EVERYTHING that love really is🙏🏿 )[/B]

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posted May 07, 2022 05:01 AM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
Coool! I from Cape Town ☺️

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posted May 07, 2022 09:32 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
Hi LilyIris07, Pluto transiting your 7th house and your Pluto in his 7th house indicates transformation through relationships. But I think Aries23Degrees already explained how this can play out. Your responses seem very self aware to me and this is always key when it comes to Pluto.

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