posted May 13, 2022 03:06 AM
Jupiter transit the 7th house or opp the 7th? And you have some unresolved feelings with an ex? Sort that out first before venturing on a whole new "butterflies in stomach" ride with a new beau.As tempting as the latter may be,when Jup is done with the 7th and Sat comes along to interact with it. The long held flame for the ex may lead you to progressively detach from the new beau and become "cold"-causing much heartache and pain there with the current lover. Don't complicate your life or anyone else's unnecessarily.
Ben Affleck met JLo in 2001, trans Jup was conj Asc/Ven and opp DSC at the time(using his birthday 15 Aug as the ballpark). New EVERYTHING. New chances, new romance, new challenges, fresh confidence.
Sat hit Ben's Ven/Asc on the 22nd of Jan 2004. The heat of their relationship cooled off and ""Bennifer" was over. Sat demolishes things that are not built on a sturdy foundation. Sometimes Sat encourages couples to slow down and take time to get to really know each other. Have a more thorough approach etc.
Ben should have focused more on himself and taken time off relationships.But he decided to rebound the Lopez fling with Garner. He started dating her when Sat was in his 1st house opp his True Node in the 7th.
Relationships started in the midst of Sat FEEL very binding. The person feels dependable and sturdy.And even though it can suggest a long lasting marriage,it doesn't start off with being widly romantic.Sat doesn't encourage passion. Not like Mars /Jup can.
There however is the possibility of falling in love over time and really growing to be deeply affectionate with each other. And the consequential Jup trans may expand on that. But you have to be sincere and open. Focused on the partner and NOT merely using them as a crutch because they are "dependable". And you fear being alone/ getting over another etc.
If the latter, the Sat imprint will make the relationship feel like "work" , "heavy" and "entrapping" etc. And this is how Ben infamously described it. He wasn't happy. He felt "trapped".
I wonder if he hadn't once again rode on the Jup fever of love and married Garner when trans Jup in Lib was square Ven/Asc and opp his Dsc. What would have occurred?
With the square, he probably felt it was the "natural" thing to do. Not entirely comfortable (its the square ofcourse). But a decision that seems like a worthwhile gamble at the time. BIG GAMBLE.
Maybe he should have just stayed single and sorted out his feelings about Lopez?He didn't have to rope Garner in there with 3 children (on top of it all).When we know better. Hopefully we do better🙏🏿
Ben Divorced Garner officially on the 4th of Oct 2018 when Sat was arcing to oppose his Asc/Ven in Can & conj his Dsc.
He got together with JĹo whenJup Aqua retro opp his Sun(using his 15 Aug birthday 2021 when they were spotted together). Huge confidence. Another gamble. Ben likes Jup transits. He is very much a gambler.
He proposed to her on 8 April 2022.
* Jup in Pis EXACT inconjunct aspect to his Sun.
*Trans Moon conj Ven/Asc on Can.
*Prog Moon in Vir conj natal Mars.
*Trans Sat EXACT opp his Sun. BOOM!!.
Its serious now because Plu retro on his True Node in house 7. The relationship to Garner had Sat opp his 7th house True node. This marriage will likely FEEL mote intense. He will have to face his battles through it.
It will be very defining for him. The stakes are high to "make it work" because much has been sacrificed for it. He will likely give it his all. Saturn concretizes what was started by Jupiter.🙏🏿
[Edit] #sidenote Ben is strongly Venus. He sacrifices ALL for the sake of love. Its interesting that he is willing to go back (after all these years) even with children in tow, to rekindle what he started. Ven in Cancer can be like that.
Anderson Cooper(Ven in Can) is co-parenting with an ex. 🤷🏿♂️ Maybe it's a Cancer thing to return to an old flame? Or is it a case of "better the devil you know "?
Anyways, can't wait for the wedding🙌🏿