posted May 16, 2022 10:15 AM            

When considered in terms of sexuality, the Moon may influence how one may nurture their sexual partner or the kind of TLC they give in bed. And are also expecting to receive from their partner

With Lib Moon, their approach to nurture is to please you or cater to your needs in some way(Moon).And this will not change when it comes to sex (unless Sun/Ven/Mars or Jupiter are opposing the Moon).

Libra Moon can be very romantic.But deferring from Pisces, they are not doing the song and dance without expecting anything in return. They WANT reciprocity. So what they do to you, do to them too. Coz they will be on the lookout for equal give/take.

The men with this position will likely want to be more "inclusive" in their approach to things and level the playing field so its fair. Venus ruled Moon likes to remove ANY fom of coercion, force or domination from the table. So their approach may be deemed "soft" or very diplomatic.

So this may extend to sex- where they will try to make the interaction as painless and pleasurable as possible. You have to give them feedback through it i.e "Yes. I like it." Or "That's the spot" etc. As this motivates them in their goal to please you.

But also remember that its not all about you. As they will also expect you to "fill" their cup too. So there will be a sort of "let's take turns being on top" thing going on (unless-as mentioned- there are various oppositional aspects to the Moon that may change things).

Both sexes may like romance, flirting, teasing and all the ritual foreplay that goes with it. This will get them comfortable and in the mood(Moon).

People often forget that lovemaking starts with getting each other in the mood(Moon). And Moon in Libra wants candles, music, romance, considerate gestures and a light/airy approach to get them there.

If Ven is in Aries for instance(opp Moon),they may be a lot more selfish and self-centred in bed than they would like to believe.But can't see it. They will expect you to go along with your needs.

posted May 16, 2022 01:24 PM            

What I can tell you as a Libra Moon with Venus in Aqua in 7th almost exactly sextile Sag Neptune and trine Libra Pluto and moderately closely square Scorpio Uranus.

Then with Mars in Virgo conjunct Virgo Jupiter (rising, in the 1st House) ruler of the 5th and 8th, and Mars closely trine Sun-the chart ruler, moderately closely trine Mercury the ruler of 4 Virgo placements (including Mars and Jupiter's own placement), and widely square Sag Neptune--I'm a sensitive lover that gets off more on pleasing my partner than being pleased. In fact, I will usually wait till my partner is, or is at least close to climaxing before I enter her.

I also gravitate towards a Tantric, more conscious type, sex. That is my ideal, but hard to find partners that are interested in or practiced in that. I had this in my Egyptian life with one lover, which combined with a twin soul connection and us being pretty dang psychically sensitive/open in that life individually...led to the most amazing and intense sex of any of my or my Higher self's other respective Soul's lifetimes. It was truly transcendent and all consuming. Imagine being fully telepathically connected to your partner while you are merging with them physically and energetically/consciousness wise? A little taste of Heaven, so intense it is almost painful, on earth.

I can and sometimes do also go long periods without any sexual activity or much focus--though this depends on my overall attunement. The more consistently I deeply meditate, the less and less focus I tend to have on sex. During one phase wherein I was meditating A LOT very deeply and consistently, I had zero interest/focus or drive in that area, but I felt super alive, aware, awake otherwise and therefore did not miss it any.

In any case, I love to cuddle before and after sex. I'll massage, hold, kiss, lightly caress my partner if she enjoys/is enjoying that, after orgasm or whenever.

I think my Leo Rising also relates to my type of sexuality since the Rising/Ascendant corresponds to the physical body, and Leo and Scorpio are the Signs that most directly relate to sex. I have very intense, very passionate feelings, though my Cap Sun and Mercury are very good at hiding them. I can give Scorpio Suns, Asc's, and/or Moon's a run for their money in that area of poker face (especially since my Cap Sun is square Libra Pluto [ruler of Scorp IC] in 3rd).

posted May 16, 2022 01:32 PM            

In some ways, more indirectly, my Moon ruling the 12th, in Libra, widely conjunct the ruler of my Sun and Mercury and co ruler of my Venus and Desc, and Pisces South Node in the 7th, also relates to that pattern, though in less overly sexual ways.

The most "mergy" oriented symbols are Pisces, the 12th, Neptune, Scorpio, Pluto, and/or the 8th. But there is a difference between the former and the latter. With Scorpio/Pluto/the 8th, it can be more of a power oriented thing, and/or more of a subsuming or being subsumed by the other.