posted May 16, 2022 05:18 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:

She's only talking about jealousy & envy from man-to-man. Not behavior towards the opposite sex.

Men only get petty & battle women when they are primarily feminine in THEIR energy as men. 💯 Masculine men battle OTHER men for resources & females.

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I was thinking of both types.

posted May 16, 2022 05:23 PM            

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Originally posted by BakingSoda:

Exactly I do this too , always compliment other women who are attractive and get to know them , learn from them and be inspired but the problem with insecure women is pride , they feel too big to say nice things to a woman who looks amazing, always intimidated and threatened rather than being motivated....you just said it all 💯💯💯💯

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They'll compliment a plain woman wearing a stained sweatshirt - "oh girl you're so pretty!" - but will give death stares to a woman rockin' a nice sundress & heels. 😂😂 Insecure beyond belief. And so obvious.

Like sis... you know you can take off those jeans and stinky socks and put on a dress like the rest of us right?? LOL

posted May 16, 2022 05:35 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I was thinking of both types.

There are men who love to cause trouble between women, too, and then they sit back and avoid blame.

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I get it.

And those kinds of men are usually embodying too much Feminine Energy - the toxic kind at that. Like Regina George from 'Mean Girls' in a male body.

posted May 16, 2022 05:39 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
They'll compliment a plain woman wearing a stained sweatshirt - "oh girl you're so pretty!" - but will give death stares to a woman rockin' a nice sundress & heels. 😂😂 Insecure beyond belief. And so obvious.

Like sis... you know you can take off those jeans and stinky socks and put on a dress like the rest of us right?? LOL

Femininity goes MUCH deeper than clothes though. 💕 It's about knowing you are WORTHY of all your heart's desires. And it heals! There are plenty of "pretty women" with zero self-confidence & unhealthy masculine tendencies.

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Oh you noticed this too ? They’ll overhype a plain looking woman and tear down the pretty one making them seem undesirable, they’ll even go as far as spreading rumors about that pretty lady that makes them uncomfortable, but you can’t check yourself for what’s missing in your womanhood rather hate on confident women lol, it’s really creepy

posted May 16, 2022 06:29 PM            

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Originally posted by BakingSoda:

Oh you noticed this too ? They’ll overhype a plain looking woman and tear down the pretty one making them seem undesirable, they’ll even go as far as spreading rumors about that pretty lady that makes them uncomfortable, but you can’t check yourself for what’s missing in your womanhood rather hate on confident women lol, it’s really creepy

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posted May 16, 2022 07:00 PM            

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Originally posted by BakingSoda:

Oh you noticed this too ? They’ll overhype a plain looking woman and tear down the pretty one making them seem undesirable, they’ll even go as far as spreading rumors about that pretty lady that makes them uncomfortable, but you can’t check yourself for what’s missing in your womanhood rather hate on confident women lol, it’s really creepy

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posted May 17, 2022 01:51 AM            

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Originally posted by sis:
I see so many problems in this comment. how do you define feminene ? you think a plain woman can not be pretty ? a plain woman can not be feminine ? phew ! is mercury retograde causing a misunderstanding ?

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Hello 👋, we all have our different definition of femininity and it’s mostly subjective

posted May 17, 2022 02:08 AM            

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Originally posted by BakingSoda:

Oh you noticed this too ? They’ll overhype a plain looking woman and tear down the pretty one making them seem undesirable, they’ll even go as far as spreading rumors about that pretty lady that makes them uncomfortable, but you can’t check yourself for what’s missing in your womanhood rather hate on confident women lol, it’s really creepy

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That isn't what I was talking about, but that is considered "negging".

posted May 17, 2022 02:17 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
That isn't what I was talking about, but that is considered "negging".

It would be nice if *every* woman was hyped, and seen worthy of being hyped, instead of being described as plain and undesirable.

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I understand your point but plain looking to me is a person who lacks comportment and self respect, it’s all subjective, imagine being out with your female friend who wears negativity on her sleeves and picks a fight with everyone then our current society would claim she’s just being herself then talk ill about a woman who comports herself saying she’s just pretending or trying to act cute to seem attractive