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posted June 04, 2022 12:55 AM            

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Those of you with a planet or planets in the 12th, how would you describe how it's played out for you in real life?

I love 12th house planets because they emit such a compassionate, introspective energy. Some of the kindest people I ever met had prominent 12th house placements.

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posted June 04, 2022 02:13 AM            

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I have Venus conjunct Mars in the 12th. It's tough. I feel like what was supposed to be a major attractive energy and a blessing is hidden from other people. When it comes to Venus,I can't express my feelings.Even when I'm really happy to see someone,or feel really good being around them,people can't tell.I look mostly cold and indifferent. I also tend to keep my relationships private mostly. When it comes to Mars I can't show anger.I let it boil inside until it usually expresses itself as a psychosomatic problem.I don't like fighting and I become extremely uncomfortable when someone provokes me.I can't stand up for myself,even when I feel wronged and misunderstood.
Only in personal love relationships I can express this energy,so I feel like the only people who have known the real me were past boyfriends.
The only positive from having these planets in the 12th is that they give me an aversion to materialism.The way we live life by having to work,pay bills just so we can buy stuff and do it over and over again is a concept I can't relate to,and it has really damaged my spiritual side.I can't relate to people who want bigger houses,bigger cars,or get rich,which is most people I come in contact with.I think this feeling is very 12th house/Pisces/Neptune energy.

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posted June 06, 2022 08:56 AM            

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I have a stellium in my 12th with Sun, Venus, Mars, and Mercury there. Mercury is 12th ruler, as well as ruler of my 3rd, ruler of my Moon, Sun, and Venus. So, I'm very 12thy.

Mostly, it just makes me extremely introverted. I'm not antisocial, and I don't have social anxiety. I'm just a classic introvert. I'd rather curl up with a good book or binge a great show than go out on the town. I like being at home rather than out and about.

Some of the ways I see it manifest are that the energies of those houses mostly come out in private. Like, I like to work out alone at home. I hate going to a gym. I get a burst of energy to clean when I'm alone. Mars in 12th.

It also makes most of my planets have a Pisces-Neptune energy. So, I'm a hopeless romantic. Hopeless. I also don't have much of an ego. I can be selfish or egotistical at times, but in general, I'm just not like that. If anything, I'm way too self-sacrificing for my own good. It's not to the point of martyr syndrome, but I should probably take way less crap off of people than I'm willing to take.

One of the most annoying things I've noticed is that other people LOVE to make me their scapegoat. My friends and family will constantly try to use me as their excuse or "out" for their own screwups. They'll say things like, "Well, I would have done it if she hadn't blah, blah, blah." Constant total BS blame-shifting onto me. I just call them out on it whenever I catch it. I'll just bluntly say, "No you don't. Don't try to make me your scapegoat. That's all on you." Sometimes it's stupid stuff, too, like trying to blame me because they didn't Google something for themselves, or blaming me for them missing an appointment because I didn't remind them of it. These are grown adults doing this. 12th house seems to attract that sort of thing.

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posted June 12, 2022 04:50 PM            

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Welcome!

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