posted June 08, 2022 04:57 AM            

We all known of Saturn in the 7th. What are some others? Maybe:

posted June 08, 2022 11:57 AM            

For "older" people or mature folks, we have to look at Sat. And perhaps also Chiron/Pluto- because it differs from Mars.

Those who are evolved Plutonians tend to have been to hell and back. That makes them slow to judge and more tolerant of the shadow side of people. Because they have had to confront the shadow side of themselves along the way to maturity.

Whilst those with evolved Chiron can be highly sympathetic to others because they understand the wounds that come with being human. There is high sensitivity to people's vices and "imperfections". And less defensiveness towards their own wounds and being easily triggered.

You however have to be careful of all three energies and ensure that the individual is indeed vibrating the positive and healed essence of each.

Ruler of 7th house in Cap/Aqua, Ven in Aqua/Sat,Mars in Aqua/Cap,Mars-Sat opp, square or conj, Sat in 8th,Cap/Aqua on 8th house cusp, Sat conj/opp/square Dsc or the ruler of the Dsc in the 7th house or the 10th house, Sat in 4th or conj/opp/ square Ic, Sat in 2nd or Cap/Aqu on the cusp of the 2nd house

Chiron in 7th,Chi in 2nd/4th house or conj Ic/Mc axis, Chi conj/opp/square Dsc, Chi in Lib or Chi opp/square/conj Ven, Chi on Moon, Chi on Mars.

Plu in 7th,Plu in 2nd/4th, Plu conj/opp/ square Ic/Mc axis, Plu conj/opp/square Dsc, Plu-Moon, Plu-Ven,Plu-Mars.

As I said, all these energies listed could also work in reverse(show their more defensive or worse qualities) and so its important to know the person who has such aspects well.

So for instance,Sat/Moon may mean mature feelings on one end.Someone who doesn't fluctuate with their emotional flows etc

But then on the other hand,it could also suggest emotional depression/repression. Someone who feels their emotions are redundant or are "obstacles" and then behaves in a stoic manner.

posted June 08, 2022 02:16 PM              

5th House and factors also figure in to some extent, but often earlier in life until a "life partner" type or types are met.

So a woman with say Saturn in her 5th, or conjunct her 5th House ruler, may in her dating years/cycle, get involved with significantly older (but also, sometimes oddly younger) partners.

Unconsciously there is often a power dynamic imbalance at play. Or a father figure thing.

My partner and I have a somewhat unique position. We've been together for 21 years (lived together for most of those), but in the last latter half of same, we've allowed each other to see other people if we wanted to.

For her, I'm her primary Desc/7th House connection. And that does connect to me some in that she has Cancer Desc cusping Leo where Leo is intercepted in the 7th. Her Desc ruler is opposed a Saturn Jupiter conjunction. Interestingly, Capricorn is my strongest Sign (with some contributing Aquarius), but Jupiter is my 1st or 2nd strongest Planet from birth.

I'm a bit older than her but not by much.

posted June 08, 2022 03:26 PM            

I do have a weakness for people who have their stuff together but who doesn't? Looking back at my past relationships and current one. I do not see anything that indicates these individuals were saturnian per se. My relationship have had their pluto in them and it can be hard to distinguish between plutonian and saturnian. I can say that my partners always want to pay for everything but this could be more of a fifth house/leonine energy?

My boyfriend, who I hope I marry, has three planets in the 10th house and Saturn in the 1st house but he is not pessimistic nor somber. And he is great in social situations. So, unsure if my placements have or have had any impact or relevance.

posted November 26, 2022 03:44 AM            

I’m not so much attracted to age difference but I do find responsibility a big thing. I have an allergy to people that are always a victim of circumstances and refuse to look at their own actions. We all make mistakes but if you’re an adult you own your mistakes, you don’t run away from them or start pointing fingers.