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LilyIris07
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posted June 08, 2022 11:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LilyIris07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So I have dated guys with Leo venuses, and it trines my moon and sextiles my sun (sometimes squares my venus, we do not live laugh love for that) but it almost feels like too much fire, and I think my Uranus ends up in opposition to their venus - I've come to realize I don't like it. But for some reason, love sextiles, especially to my moon give me a good Gemini or Aqua - especially Aqua venus, IDK why but they seem to find me fascinating. Any clues to why? I shall post my chart ^^

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GalacticCoreExplosionV2
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posted June 08, 2022 11:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Speaking from direct experience as an Aqua Venus that has been involved with multiple women who have Mars in Leo... Well, Venus Mars oppositions are rather intense.

Venus and Mars are already natural opposites i.e. they rule two pairs of Signs that are opposite each other Aries-Libra and Taurus-Scorpio. Opposite Signs tend to have a strong attraction to each other, because they are kind of like twin souls/flames--they are two complimentary halves of the same larger whole.

Then ALSO put them in an actual opposition... holy guacamole batman--that is a lot of magnetic pull and two halves of a larger whole trying to come together in union. Then Venus corresponds to relationships and attraction in general, and Mars corresponds to sexual drive/lust etc and the general, "I desire" principle.

For me, it is especially intense because I also have Leo Asc with Aqua Venus. Almost every woman that I have met with either Mars in Leo (and also Aqua Mars), I have wanted to get close and merge physically with. Usually they are highly attracted to me as well.

But sometimes conflicts, disagreements, and ego battles occur between us as well. The connection in general seems a bit fraught with tension. If that tension can't get released in the way that Venus and Mars innately and naturally wants it to, that red energy can build up in other areas leading to anger instead of the whoo boy, let's MERGE.

So in/for non sexual connections, it can be a bit difficult.

In your specific case, add to the above Venus Mars opposition dynamic--their Venus will most often be in or near your 12th House. You may seem "mysterious" and/or "exotic" to them in some hard to define way. That can make you seem extra sexy to them.

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posted June 08, 2022 11:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Another factor is that you technically have Uranus in Aquarius. Planets don't have to be in actual orb range (like we use in Natal charts) to feel their mutual same, opposite, trine, square, etc Sign relationships.

So even if their Venus is at say 19 degrees Aqua, it will still "feel" your Aqua Uranus, and thus react to it. It IS more intense though, when these are in actual direct, natal like aspect. The closer it is, the more intense it tends to feel.

Obviously there is a connection between Uranus and Aquarius resonance wise. And Uranus-Venus connections in general can be quite magnetic, though they are not technically "sexual" as we understand or classify same. But there is a fascination there.

More straight than not men with Venus in Aquarius are by nature, attracted to women with Aquarius energy and
"Aquarius like" qualities and energies. So with your Uranus in Aquarius, you tend to make them feel like you will fulfill that for them. Your energy in a sense, "honey pots" them.

And you do have a somewhat strong attunement to Uranus. It is not predominant by any means, but it is like your 3rd or 4th strongest/most highlighted Planet. Shown by Uranus being conjunct the ruler of your Asc, in its natural House and in its natural Sign, and closely trine your Sun for some examples.

And you have Venus square Uranus.
In a more straight than not woman's chart, her Venus and its conditions and factors, shows what she gives to male partners. You send off vibes of here I am, but you can't hold/catch me--cause I'm aloof and detached. And a man with Aqua Venus by nature is attracted to females that will give him freedom, space, independence, etc. That attraction may be unconscious though. Consciously, he might not particularly like it depending on the rest of his chart.

So I would say, it is a combo of your Leo Mars, their Venus is usually in your 12th, your generally highlighted Uranus in Aquarius, and your Aquarius Uranus square your Venus (and closely sextile Moon--similar to Venus in the above respect). And about in order that I put it as to the individual factors and their relative importance. But, it definitely involves all of these.

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posted June 09, 2022 12:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LilyIris07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
Another factor is that you technically have Uranus in Aquarius. Planets don't have to be in actual orb range (like we use in Natal charts) to feel their mutual same, opposite, trine, square, etc Sign relationships.

So even if their Venus is at say 19 degrees Aqua, it will still "feel" your Aqua Uranus, and thus react to it. It IS more intense though, when these are in actual direct, natal like aspect. The closer it is, the more intense it tends to feel.

Obviously there is a connection between Uranus and Aquarius resonance wise. And Uranus-Venus connections in general can be quite magnetic, though they are not technically "sexual" as we understand or classify same. But there is a fascination there.

More straight than not men with Venus in Aquarius are by nature, attracted to women with Aquarius energy and
"Aquarius like" qualities and energies. So with your Uranus in Aquarius, you tend to make them feel like you will fulfill that for them. Your energy in a sense, "honey pots" them.

And you do have a somewhat strong attunement to Uranus. It is not predominant by any means, but it is like your 3rd or 4th strongest/most highlighted Planet. Shown by Uranus being conjunct the ruler of your Asc, in its natural House and in its natural Sign, and closely trine your Sun for some examples.

And you have Venus square Uranus.
In a more straight than not woman's chart, her Venus and its conditions and factors, shows what she gives to male partners. You send off vibes of here I am, but you can't hold/catch me--cause I'm aloof and detached. And a man with Aqua Venus by nature is attracted to females that will give him freedom, space, independence, etc. That attraction may be unconscious though. Consciously, he might not particularly like it depending on the rest of his chart.

So I would say, it is a combo of your Leo Mars, their Venus is usually in your 12th, your generally highlighted Uranus in Aquarius, and your Aquarius Uranus square your Venus (and closely sextile Moon--similar to Venus in the above respect). And about in order that I put it as to the individual factors and their relative importance. But, it definitely involves all of these.


Thank you for your answer! I actually thought of those too, well besides from the Leo Mars because I've never actually had that in aspecr, in terms of the opposition Aqua venus, but I guess it would be in my energy signature would it not? Also what element would you say is most predominant in my chart?

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Aries23Degrees
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posted June 09, 2022 12:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn/Moon conjunt negates the fiery Moon in Aries. So when you said "too much fire" . I thought of Saturn.

Pluto opposes your Sun, squares your Mars. Even with Sun/Mars square,Pluto eclipses that.

I actually think that Pluto makes one apathetic over time. And is not a highly volatile as I have read. My experience of its transit has been this way.

Its like going through a massive operation and then recovering for weeks in intensive therapy. The body is taxed and feels like it is starting from ground 0 to build its stamina. So every movement feels like you have a big rock attached to your back.

So energy that is too fiery is very overwhelming and all over the place (not to mention exhausting). And perhaps Ven in Aqua is less demanding of you?

Ruler of the 5th house of self expression is the Moon and its in house 1. Typically this would make one very open emotionally.But the conj to Sat limits that.

Ruler of the 12th is Sat in house 1 and is in mutual reception with Nep.

In ur circular chart, Mars is opp ur Asc( dissociated from ur personality) Sat/Moon are conjunct in house 1.

Saturn rules 12th and in house 1. Ruler of the 5th house of self expression is in house 1.

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posted June 09, 2022 07:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LilyIris07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Saturn/Moon conjunt negates the fiery Moon in Aries. So when you said "too much fire" . I thought of Saturn.

Pluto opposes your Sun, squares your Mars. Even with Sun/Mars square,Pluto eclipses that.

I actually think that Pluto makes one apathetic over time. And is not a highly volatile as I have read. My experience of its transit has been this way.

Its like going through a massive operation and then recovering for weeks in intensive therapy. The body is taxed and feels like it is starting from ground 0 to build its stamina. So every movement feels like you have a big rock attached to your back.

So energy that is too fiery is very overwhelming and all over the place (not to mention exhausting). And perhaps Ven in Aqua is less demanding of you?

Ruler of the 5th house of self expression is the Moon and its in house 1. Typically this would make one very open emotionally.But the conj to Sat limits that.

Ruler of the 12th is Sat in house 1 and is in mutual reception with Nep.

In ur circular chart, Mars is opp ur Asc( dissociated from ur personality) Sat/Moon are conjunct in house 1.

Saturn rules 12th and in house 1. Ruler of the 5th house of self expression is in house 1.


I have no idea what all this means 😅 - although I can be very open emotionally but it’s often controlled; like my emotional responses are controlled. I just really like the feeling of air on my moon - and with Aqua I enjoy the freedom feeling it gives my Uranus.

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posted June 09, 2022 07:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LilyIris07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In terms of someone's venus or moon, which do you think would suit me best? I always went for earth moons because of my venus - but I have discovered I don't mind air moons (besides from libra) if they are touching my sun and moon.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted June 10, 2022 04:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
I have no idea what all this means 😅 - although I can be very open emotionally but it’s often controlled; like my emotional responses are controlled. I just really like the feeling of air on my moon - and with Aqua I enjoy the freedom feeling it gives my Uranus.

Sorry. I can speak French when in France. Thinking that everyone is French.

Yes. Much of what you said in response is Sat/Moon conj I.e controlled (Sat) emotions (Moon).

And Aqua Venus(also rules by Saturn) controls its own excitement and is not "too much". They like friendship to develop before they start talking of feelings and emotions.

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