posted July 05, 2022 07:28 AM              

I'm having a hard time reading that chart format. I'm used to the astro.com one that is like the Synastric chart in this link (not connected to me, just using it as an example). http://imgur.com/a/PykFLWn

posted July 05, 2022 09:33 AM              

Do you have specific questions--that would help to narrow in.

But a couple things to note right off the bat. He likely feels pretty comfortable and familiar with, and to, you as indicated by your Moon conjunct his Venus-Mercury conjunction in Cancer. But since that connection for him, falls into your 12th, he may become easily confused by you at times, especially as to your emotional states.

Meanwhile, you probably feel more the intensity of attraction to him, because he "captures" your Moon in his 8th. This is especially strong for you since the Moon is your chart ruler.

Meanwhile, you capture his Sun/Mars in your 11th, and so it tends to feel more like a friend/group connection to him, though there are some mutual sexual and attraction things going on as well. (Mars Pluto conjunction, Venus Mars square, etc. That, and because you're a very attractive woman, many guys are going to be at least sexually attracted to you).

The issue is though, is that his extremely prominent Scorp Uranus is in your 5th House, which is a classic indication of a non stable romantic connection. This is further strengthened by a lack of mutual 7th/Desc activation (especially by placements in same, and lack of conjunctions or oppositions with the rulers of same).

Also, he doesn't mirror your Desc particularly well, which also indicates its not likely to be a long term, committed connection. The Venus-Mars square doesn't help with that either (especially since his Venus rules his Desc).

You are meant to become involved with a hyper/uber Capricornian type. This is indicated by a combo of the Capricorn Desc, and the very early Aqua, powerfully cusping Cap, Saturn conjunct your Desc. Basically, the person you will end up with in a longer term, committed type connection will either have very strong Cap and/or strong Saturn as one of their predominant patterns. Though Libra is also highlighted in relation to your attractions since both your Sun and Mars are in Libra. Though, it is not always completely literal like that. It could just be that they are "Capricorn and Libra" like in combo.

Anyways, it seems more like a combo fleeting (or off on again) romance-friendship than a long term, committed type connection i.e. marriage, life and kids together, etc.

If his physical birth chart is accurate to the spiritual etc, then chances are, physically speaking, he is either going to be rather unusually large or small, in the male member area since he has Scorp Uranus closely conjunct his Scorp Asc. Uranus is that of the extremes and unusual. The Asc is the physical body, and Scorpio rules that area.

posted July 05, 2022 09:39 AM              

Couple other further strong attractions--especially of a karmic-past nature, relate to his nodes being conjunct to your Asc-Desc axis, especially with his SN conjunct your Desc and in your 7th. So clearly, you were both close before (in a karmic/other life sense).

posted July 05, 2022 09:58 AM              

This is mirrored by his Scorpio Moon and his physical birth time Scorp Asc. But unfortunately, this is another pattern that tends to argue more a more temporary, more romantic-dating type connection than a 7th House long term, very committed type.

posted July 05, 2022 10:36 AM            

Then your Pluto is hitting his 12H and is conjunct his Moon - girl please. 😂 Talk about Soul F**king! I have been there myself. Psychic connection out of this world.

posted July 05, 2022 10:39 AM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
That, and because you're a very attractive woman, many guys are going to be at least sexually attracted to you).

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Haha now you are making me blush again don’t use that Libra moon charm on me ☺️ You are melting my Sun and mars.

posted July 05, 2022 10:54 AM            

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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:

If his physical birth chart is accurate to the spiritual etc, then chances are, physically speaking, he is either going to be rather unusually large or small, in the male member area since he has Scorp Uranus closely conjunct his Scorp Asc. Uranus is that of the extremes and unusual. The Asc is the physical body, and Scorpio rules that area.

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Oh my goodness!! 😮😂 I did not know about this. The only indicator of a "full package" I've heard Astrologers regularly mention is the Mars-Jupiter contact.

posted July 05, 2022 10:56 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Your Moon falls into his 8H?! Oooh wee! 🔥🔥 I'm almost always DEEPLY attracted to a man when this happens. How does it feel for you?

Then your Pluto is hitting his 12H and is conjunct his Moon - girl please. 😂 Talk about Soul F**king! I have been there myself. Psychic connection out of this world.

And to answer your question - your Mars falls into his 11H and is conjunct his Pluto. Holy moly...

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posted July 05, 2022 11:08 AM              

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
THANK YOU ☺️

I have never done a synastry reading before by someone more knowledgeable so i’m not so good at it. This was very exciting to read Thank you. Like i had no idea i had a Venus/Mars square with this person do we have it by aspect? and i also thought their Sun and mars was in my 12th haha. Where is my Sun, mars etc in this person’s chart?

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You're welcome.

The Venus Mars square is pretty wide at 8 degrees and some change (almost 9), but I would say, considering the rest of the patterns, it probably is technically square. The thing is, synastry is a little different than Natal charts when it comes to orbs.

We "feel" and "react" to energies based more on a whole Sign interaction overall. I've noticed this time and time again, that even when the Planets are not in technical orb range, there is still a definite reaction.

Your Sun is in his 10th and conjunct his Jupiter Saturn conjunction. What this translates to if that you have respect and admiration for him--almost in an authority figure or high status kind of way. Meanwhile, you "activate" the issues of career, social standing, etc for him--perhaps making him more focused on that. He may want to be or become more of a "provider" when you're around or in relation to you. But you can also bring up some insecurity in him, since your Sun is so closely conjunct his Saturn. You in a sense, shine a light on his fear and insecurities (Saturn). But that is also counter balanced by the Jupiter interaction which is lighter, more positive, and expanding feeling in nature. Hence, it is not super serious and dour like it could be if it was just Saturn.

His Sun is technically in your 11th, but it is cusping a bit into your 12th.

Your Mars is in his 11th, which can mean that your connection is active in a larger group, social context--especially in relation to career (Mars rules your MC/10th) and romance/creativity/children etc (Mars co-rules your 5th).

And btw, just because a relationship/connection may be more temporary or not ultimately super committed, doesn't mean it is not important or worthwhile engaging in. I sometimes get the sense that people, especially those in female bodies, tend to think that only a relationship that is likely to end up in a very long term, committed position, is important/meaningful--and, that is just not true. But women are more innately wired to be more "security minded" in that way. Part of the whole evolution thing and genetics. (There are always exceptions to the general trend though, of course).

posted July 05, 2022 11:11 AM              

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Haha now you are making me blush again don’t use that Libra moon charm on me ☺️ You are melting my Sun and mars.

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Tbh, I was more just being my predominant Jupitarian self i.e. very honest/direct/sincere.

If I was trying to charm/woo you, you'd know Lass, you wouldn't just be a little melted, you'd be a puddle on the floor..

posted July 05, 2022 11:28 AM              

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Oh my goodness!! 😮😂 I did not know about this. The only indicator of a "full package" I've heard Astrologers regularly mention is the Mars-Jupiter contact.

BTW - makes sense what you said about Capricorn Energy being best for her. 👍🏾 Just like how Fire Energy is likely best for me? Having Aries DSC with the Sun (Leo vibes) chilling in the 7th. ☀️

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Haha, well I have Mars Jupiter conjunction, with Jupiter technically in the 1st, and both trine my chart ruler the Sun... and yeah, no, I'm firmly within the average caucasian range on that one. But I more than make up for that with my skills and intuitive sensitivity to the partner--that, and I really, really enjoy pleasing my partner. It's a good thing that the good Lord didn't put me in a tall body and packing, because I would have likely become a man-hoe to the nth extent, and more than a bit of a Casanova type.

In males, the Taurus-Scorpio Asc axis is the most naturally and innately well equipped (at least on the larger side of average or a bit larger than average). But when you add in other factors like Sun, Uranus, and Jupiter to those factors (especially via conjunctions, oppositions, close squares, etc), then you tend to get the unusually to freakishly larger than average.

For example, my partner dated an American-Italian guy with Taurus Rising. I think Mars was in Scorpio opposed his Asc or something like that, and yeah, he was like 9 or bit bigger and also thick. (But he also turned out to be a selfish douche bag, that after he got engaged, tried to re get with my partner though THEY were not open and his partner had no idea. My partner vetoed that shite quick.)

Or for another example, I know of a guy (not romantically connected to my partner) who has Gemini Asc with Mercury in Scorpio conjunct Scorp Uranus. Also significantly larger than average for a caucasian male.

I know another guy with Virgo Asc with Mercury in Scorpio opposed Taurus Jupiter and trine Cancer Uranus. Also packing (also caucasian, but more specifically Jewish background)

But basically, either Taurus or Scorpio is always involved in relation to the Asc (either directly, by cusping, or by rulership), and then also strong connections to particularly Sun, Uranus, Jupiter, and/or sometimes Mars shows up a lot. Though Uranus can also go to the other extreme and indicate the other unusual--like micro penis, or just smaller than average.

Yep, regarding your chart in connection to relationships. Though it is a little more complex in process, because you also have to factor in where the rulers are placed, their strongest aspects, and also consider Mars in relation to the just mentioned, as well.

For a predominantly straight woman, you look at primarily Desc and factors, Sun and factors, and Mars and factors. In both genders and all orientations, 5th House also factors in some too, though often more in youth or during more so "dating phases".

posted July 05, 2022 11:49 AM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Thank you for your input ☺️ Haha i am always drawn to those types of relationships, even in friendships. I just like the depth of it but man can it be exhausting too 😫 haha. So you have dealt with 8th house moon a few times? How was it like and were you the house or the moon?

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You're welcome. 👍🏾

I'm an 8H Venus w/ 1H Pluto - I *must* have some form of Plutonian contact in my Romantic Relationships. 🔥 It's not up for debate LOL

Although, I do like to have some solid 9H/5H or Jupiter and/or Sun synastry with them that indicates lighter, fun times between us as well. Balance is always KEY.

And to answer your question - I've primarily been the Moon person and he the 8H person. I can think of at least (3) scenarios. All of them initiated contact towards me. Insane sexual tension right OUT OF THE GATE. 💯 They were patient and "studied" me and built a real connection with me. Eventually, they started sharing deep secrets with me & I with them. We often "counseled" one another. Their possessiveness & sexual desire began oozing from their pores. And I could *feel* them wanting to envelop my entire freaking soul - just like Hades for Persephone - with primal abandon.

And you know what?? I wanted that sh*t! 😂 Go hard or go home. Transform & ravish me... mind, body & soul. ❤ All these men were the total YANG to my YIN. My (Moon) presence was healing for them & rather comforting.

However, we did deeply trigger each other at times as well. Mind manipulation can ensue if insecurity starts to rear its head. And the 8H Person can have control issues that they need to work through, as they "get high" off of the Moon Person's submission.

**FYI:

posted July 05, 2022 12:20 PM            

Very, very interesting!! I appreciate the info. 👍🏾

BTW - there are several Eastern European countries where the men statistically have larger Magic Sticks. So keep that in mind.

And not every Black Man is hiding a third leg in his pants. I promise you that.

Quite a few Latin countries apparently rank pretty high on the Penne Scale, too!

As a woman, I personally am not turned on by the idea of feeling like I'm going into labor because your junk is so absurdly huge. 😂 Nope! Nor am I entertaining a baby d**k either. I'm perfectly fine with average size to low-key juicy. ❤ And the man knowing WTF he's doing overall is most important.

posted July 05, 2022 12:21 PM            

This was so exciting and wonderful to read. I have always been into synastry but also not been so good at it either haha 🙈 And LovelyAries if you don’t mind can you point out where my Venus lies? and do you know what happened to Galactic why is he unregistered?

posted July 05, 2022 12:27 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
You're welcome. 👍🏾

I'm an 8H Venus w/ 1H Pluto - I *must* have some form of Plutonian contact in my Romantic Relationships. 🔥 It's not up for debate LOL

Although, I do like to have some solid 9H/5H or Jupiter and/or Sun synastry with them that indicates lighter, fun times between us as well. Balance is always KEY.

And to answer your question - I've primarily been the Moon person and he the 8H person. I can think of at least (3) scenarios. All of them initiated contact towards me. Insane sexual tension right OUT OF THE GATE. 💯 They were patient and "studied" me and built a real connection with me. Eventually, they started sharing deep secrets with me & I with them. We often "counseled" one another. Their possessiveness & sexual desire began oozing from their pores. And I could *feel* them wanting to envelop my entire freaking soul - just like Hades for Persephone - with primal abandon.

And you know what?? I wanted that sh*t! 😂 Go hard or go home. Transform & ravish me... mind, body & soul. ❤ All these men were the total YANG to my YIN. My (Moon) presence was healing for them & rather comforting.

However, we did deeply trigger each other at times as well. Mind manipulation can ensue if insecurity starts to rear its head. And the 8H Person can have control issues that they need to work through, as they "get high" off of the Moon Person's submission.

**FYI:

There were literal conjunctions between their Hades to my Pers/Pros/Cora and/or their Pluto to my Venus. 🔥 So this sh*t was no joke...

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Girl i have Venus-Pluto plus Scorpio in my 5th so i am right there with you 😂

posted July 05, 2022 12:28 PM            

You're welcome lady. 🙂 And your 2H Venus falls into his 9th. Feel good vibes!

posted July 05, 2022 12:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
He and I have been arguing, and after he insulted me, I banned him.

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OMG wow! I'm sorry to hear that it got so ugly. 😢

posted July 05, 2022 12:42 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
@SleepyDiary

You're welcome lady. 🙂 And your 2H Venus falls into his 9th. Feel good vibes!

And OMG - I just noticed that Galactic is showing as unregistered, too. WTF?! 😮 I'm very confused.

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posted July 05, 2022 12:48 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
OMG wow! I'm sorry to hear that it got so ugly. 😢

Do you ever allow people back if they cool down or apologize? He def had his overbearing moments, but I appreciated many of his posts.

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posted July 05, 2022 12:59 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Does anyone have Galactic's email or anything?

I respect Randall's decision. But it would be nice to stay in contact.

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