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Topic: It's Mars!
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charlie Knowflake Posts: 5372 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 28, 2022 02:46 PM
Studied all the men's charts I could remember and their charts had Cancer or Aqua Mars either in natal or progressed. That seems to be an extremely weak point for me and the chance of something "intimate" happening is 90%. It doesn't seem to matter their Suns or Moons or even Venus'. We'll be glued to eachother. Their Moons will indirectly determine the longevity of the relationship however (I think) but all in all, I seem to have a 7 year itch, every 7th year so that won't matter either way.. For ref: I have Cancer Sun, Mercury, Venus 11HAnyone else noticed something like this? IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9715 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 29, 2022 03:42 AM
Wait....are you saying that Mars in Aqua and Cancer are irresistible to you? That it matters little to nothing where Moon/Venus is in the mix?🤔IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 5372 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 29, 2022 04:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Wait....are you saying that Mars in Aqua and Cancer are irresistible to you? That it matters little to nothing where Moon/Venus is in the mix?🤔
That’s what I’m saying after have gone through the men I’ve dated-longevity of relationship matters not. I’ve been with a myriad of different Sun/Moon combos and that doesn’t seem to matter. It’s Aqua Mars and Cancer Mars that matters. My husband now has a progressed Cancer Mars. At first I thought it was Scorpio Moon I had a penchant for but no, it’s those Mars’. Can’t resist them and they obviously feel the same. Maybe I have daddy-issues since my dad is a Cancer Mars :-/ I read somewhere that Mars conj Sun synastry CAN create such an intense sexual attraction it’s physically painful and that has been the case for me. My Cancer Sun is in the Aqua duad but not sure it matters. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9715 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 29, 2022 06:26 AM
Ok. I see.Well, I agree with Sun-Mars conj synastry attraction being potent. Even the trine/sextile can have a lingering quality that is tenacious in its effect. When I meet up with a Libra Sun, I get those vibes of instant physical attraction (I am Mars in Libra). I haven't observed the parallel aspect though. So that would be worthwhile to investigate as i think that it factors in. As not EVERY Libra Sun makes me hot and misty eyed. Sometimes its the Virgo that has me wanting to get down and dirty 🤔 This is also the case with Sag Mars on my Sun. I actually met a Mars in Sag guy parallel my Sun who has expressed (many times) how he'd really like to f*** me. Just like that🤣🤣. I don't know if I should be weirded out by that or charmed? His candour kinda shocked me because gis external demeanour is very Mr. "Prim and proper". People don't know this side of him that he expresses when we are together. I think because Mars is spirit(read that somewhere) and so even at "rest" mode,it can still be active.When someone's spirit or essence is active around you by default (Mars), you can find yourself aroused or agitated by them. There is an Aries Sun stranger I took a bus to work with very often. And he was so sexy to me. Upon checking, his Sun is opposed to my Mars both by Sun and declinations.🤷🏿♂️ At the time,there was just heat around us when seated together that ws palpable to me. I thought it came from me. But then when I met up with him randomly years later at some event, the way he INTIMATELY greeted me assured me that this was a mutual (but unfortunately unrealized) attraction. 😁😁 Mars/Moon connections can create either fierce sexual affinity or unnecessary arguments etc. Its because the Moon is the one that picks up on the Mars' spirit nature. And Mars is not always aware of how they are in default mode. The reaction of the Moon surprises them I have the Moon/Mars Cancer connection with a mate. Its very back-forth in essence i.e. i love him to death. But also find him strongly aggravating. He can annoy me. And sexually (we dated once), i was not feeling him. This despite him being drop dead gorgeous. His Sun in Aries conj my Asc in Aries and opp my Mars in Lib. But still, it just didn't connect. Why? When with the above Aries it did? Thats why i think that we should check for declinations too. With the latter Aries, Moon/Mars declination were there. But not the Sun/Mars connection. In your case, Mars in Cancer (Moon ruled) and Mars in Aqua(Saturn ruled) energies are on the opposite ends of the spectrum. One is very emotionally "aware" whilst the other is more detached. I would check what declinations are made to your Sun. Or your Mars to their Sun 👌🏿 IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 7453 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted August 29, 2022 07:12 PM
Neat!I have Aqua Mars. I've been in a relationship with a Cancer Mars for 10 months. And then had this whole on and off thing with him/secretly saw him for a few months when the relationship was over. I also wonder why all of my serious relationships with men all have earth or water mars. The Mars signs I seem to be instantly physically attracted to are Gemini Mars, and Scorpio Mars. I've never been in a relationship nor ever had a fling with a Gemini Mars. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 7453 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted August 29, 2022 07:13 PM
No experience with Aqua mars, but all the celebrities I'm proud to share the same sign.IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 3951 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted August 29, 2022 10:13 PM
Yep, Sun-Mars is hot. Also, Mars is very masculine and women find him irresistible. So your pSun is still in Leo? That could explain the Aquarius attraction. IP: Logged |
StoneMoon Knowflake Posts: 974 From: Registered: Apr 2018
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posted August 30, 2022 05:48 PM
Wow- you opened my eyes to something! I have a natal Virgo Mars. Most of the men I have had relationships with or even been interested in- their Mars are fall between 17-23 degrees in declinations This is between my Sun (20), Moon (17) and my Jupiter (22) Very interesting! Two others had it between 9-11 in declinations, which aspects my Venus in declinations. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 3951 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted August 30, 2022 11:29 PM
^^ Is your Sun also in Virgo?I agree regarding degrees, most men who get our attention will touch your Sun with his Mars by degree irrespective of aspect. However, it's the conjunction/opposition aspects that will really light your fire. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 5372 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 31, 2022 01:01 AM
In declinations it appears as if it’s my Mars touching their Sun, but in opposition. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 9715 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 31, 2022 04:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: In declinations it appears as if it’s my Mars touching their Sun, but in opposition.
Yes. The contra-parallel aspect . Strong push/pull dynamic though because of the divergent natures of the signs involved. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 3951 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted August 31, 2022 07:15 AM
In my case Sun & Mars are both at 18° in Gemini & Taurus respectively, so it's tough separating the two.I remember the most explosive attraction was when my pSun was in conjunction to the nMars at 14°. For sure I thought that was it, only to realize that person's pSunc was also conjuction my nSun...and nMars by degree. IP: Logged |
StoneMoon Knowflake Posts: 974 From: Registered: Apr 2018
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posted August 31, 2022 08:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: ^^ Is your Sun also in Virgo?I agree regarding degrees, most men who get our attention will touch your Sun with his Mars by degree irrespective of aspect. However, it's the conjunction/opposition aspects that will really light your fire.
Did you mean me? No, my Sun is in Cancer. And it's not parallel or contra parallel to my Mars.
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