posted September 10, 2022 02:29 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
That picture i showed you that was actually from a time i was really interested in a heavly influenced Scorpio/Plutonian guy. These men loves less clothes and women that are comfortable in their own skin. Not even that style up there is really how my style is and i actually started behaving in a way that is not typical of me because of him. But i have never been really that ‘’simple’’ and natural in my style but i am also not that ‘’out’’ there in person with my style either.

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You look beautiful either way. Hot photo!👌
Had to laugh about your story and trying to do the “girl next door” -act and being caught reading a book 😂😂
This could’ve been me!!
Hope you didn’t hold that book upside down. Haha

I am currently very much attracted to someone who’s Venus is in Sagittarius with Mars in Libra. Their 5th house is in Leo, their Dsc is in late Scorpio (my Asc is in early Scorpio sadly in their 6th house) and their 8th house is in Sagittarius! We have a lot of karmic placements and Node contacts, but I don’t really activate any of their attraction houses directly, whereas they light up my whole chart on fire! That person is on my mind 24/7

Sadly my Venus/Mars in Aries falls in their 12th house and I feel invisible in their presence and very self-conscious. I know I’m objectively speaking “mainstream attractive”, most people find me attractive, I find myself attractive too, but in the presence of this person, I feel like a wallflower, while having this inner need to be recognized by them at least for one day! It’s crazy and desperate I know. 🙈 But I can’t just say **** it , not yet.
I want to get my Venus/Mars out of their 12th house and into their 5th and 8th house.
That’s why I was asking.

Want to channel less Aries, Scorpio/Pisces, and more Leo/Sagittarius! Their type is “tough woman” and something sexy but not over the top, a bit tomboy but still feminine. I’m 5’4” 110 pounds (50kg) very pale with long brown hair. Tough, cool woman is not exactly the first thing, people would think, if they saw me, and I suck in sports. I’d rather read a book upside down, than get a gym membership or hold a ball.
Need help ASAP

posted September 10, 2022 04:29 PM            

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Originally posted by ana_bee:
You look beautiful either way. Hot photo!👌
Had to laugh about your story and trying to do the “girl next door” -act and being caught reading a book 😂😂
This could’ve been me!!
Hope you didn’t hold that book upside down. Haha

I am currently very much attracted to someone who’s Venus is in Sagittarius with Mars in Libra. Their 5th house is in Leo, their Dsc is in late Scorpio (my Asc is in early Scorpio sadly in their 6th house) and their 8th house is in Sagittarius! We have a lot of karmic placements and Node contacts, but I don’t really activate any of their attraction houses directly, whereas they light up my whole chart on fire! That person is on my mind 24/7

Sadly my Venus/Mars in Aries falls in their 12th house and I feel invisible in their presence and very self-conscious. I know I’m objectively speaking “mainstream attractive”, most people find me attractive, I find myself attractive too, but in the presence of this person, I feel like a wallflower, while having this inner need to be recognized by them at least for one day! It’s crazy and desperate I know. 🙈 But I can’t just say **** it , not yet.
I want to get my Venus/Mars out of their 12th house and into their 5th and 8th house.
That’s why I was asking.

Want to channel less Aries, Scorpio/Pisces, and more Leo/Sagittarius! Their type is “tough woman” and something sexy but not over the top, a bit tomboy but still feminine. I’m 5’4” 110 pounds (50kg) very pale with long brown hair. Tough, cool woman is not exactly the first thing, people would think, if they saw me, and I suck in sports. I’d rather read a book upside down, than get a gym membership or hold a ball.
Need help ASAP

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Thank you ☺️ Haha fortunately i did hold it the right way because i was actually reading it to keep my nerves down 🙈 but my THOUGHTS were a few seats (and in his view) away and not at all in the book haha.

But the one you are into he seems like he would love himself a fireball which you can give him with that firey Venus and Mars you don’t even have to try i think. I bet you can be very expressive and passionate with also a playful side to you too which these men love. It doesn’t hurt if you also love to travel from time to time too. You also have your Mars and Venus in a very deep house in his chart. The 12th house can go very deep and you might have insight into deeper parts to him that might become overwhelming for you to see and see sides to him that he himself might not be very aware of and help him have a deeper understanding of himself. That Scorpio guy i mentioned i had my Venus in his 12th and man i have never read someone so easily like i did with him and i would pick up on the most subtle things to a point where it became overwhelming. The 12th house can be very complicated but it’s also a deep house and i think if you have more than one personal planet or just one personal planet in that house combined with some of the other relationship houses the 12th house will have a deep impact on the house person but also the planet person like for me it became overwhelming seeing so much of a person that was far from perfect. You will be behind the ‘’curtains’’ from the get go and get straight to the bottom of this person and the more you interact the more ‘’linked’’ you’ll become and confuse this persons moods, thoughts and feelings with your own. This house can also be very unconditional and addictive too. He might not see you clearly unless he is also in your 12th or 8th house but you will see him clearer than you might have ever seen anyone else before and he might feel very deeply understood and seen by you in ways he has never been before that might freak him out but also intrigue him. Be careful about showing him too soon what you ‘’know’’ and just take that part slow.

posted September 10, 2022 05:37 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I have never really adapted my looks but I do pick up on sense of humor, wit, sarcasm, speech and thinking patterns, and yes, I modify myself (easily) accordingly.
If someone is super intellectual, I’ll become that. If someone’s goofy, I’ll be that. If someone’s sarcastic (love it), I’ll be that. I’ll just be their mental mirror.

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posted September 10, 2022 07:29 PM            

authenticity is important in a relationship, i want acceptance of who i am and i want someone i accept too

posted September 12, 2022 01:43 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I've just seen a meme that says: if you're having trouble reading anything, get yourself a crush, and find out their favourite book. You'll be reading in no time.

That wouldn't work for me, though.

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Haha that kinda worked for me. For a short period i had a fascination with Kurt cobain and i started reading through his journals for a while and his handwriting wasn’t the best but i didn’t care i just wanted to see how he was. I would find more and more pages of his journals and just read through them all haha ☺️

posted September 12, 2022 02:07 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
Haha that kinda worked for me. For a short period i had a fascination with Kurt cobain and i started reading through his journals for a while and his handwriting wasn’t the best but i didn’t care i just wanted to see how he was. I would find more and more pages of his journals and just read through them all haha ☺️

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I've wanted to ask people for recommendations before - especially if they might recommend something I wouldn't ordinarily read - but I have enough trouble settling down to read something now, that I need to go with whatever draws my own attention.