posted September 22, 2022 05:05 PM            

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for me, I won't list them all because I don't have experience with them all but;

Venus;

Leo Venus - extremely attentive, will do little things for you like leave you love notes, flowers, etc - be careful of aspects though bc could be a serial cheater but tries to manipulate you with gestures like this

Scorpio Venus - especially when paired with a scorpio mars, it is intense and very deep. however, can be accompanied by lies, cheating etc, but not always. i appreciate the need to get to know me on a deep level

Capricorn Venus - although this is very cold in my experience, i don't feel much "love" but these are the people who value long term relationships or more serious relationships, they value those who are hard working and have their **** together

Cancer Venus - hate it. way too sensitive. i don't get to be a woman in this energy, they almost force me to take on masculine roles and be the dominant one in the relationship

Gemini Venus - generally annoying and not a fan. figure out what you want

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Mars;

Scorpio Mars - can be intense and overwhelming, fighting can be horrific if you have bad synastry or theirs is personally negatively aspected, but the sex in unmatched and passionate

Aries Mars - go getters. love the aggressive energy.

Sagittarius Mars - willing to do anything especially on a whim

Capricorn Mars - [sorry in advance] huge daddy energy, unless of course other placements out weigh this then can be generally annoying and demanding

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posted September 23, 2022 03:22 PM            

That sounds like truth, but I still like them. They could make things work.

I have many people with similar placements, but it’s not the same experience so it’s hard to rank.

posted September 23, 2022 11:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
“Capricorn Mars - [sorry in advance] huge daddy energy...

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With that note from a male perspective I find Leo Venus to much of a mom energy.

They'll go ahead and do things for you, some times it's well deserved other times it's annoying.

Here's an example I know my coworkers wife's bday, he announced it on his twitter.

I commented how perfectly ironed his shirts are I said does your wife iron your shirts? It's pretty obvious too.. I took the birth data and found she's a Leo Venus.

Other times it can be annoying if they go ahead and do things for you without asking.

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posted September 26, 2022 11:13 AM            

Ime ,Mars in Libra are charmers. Dont go for these folks if you are into the emotional aspect of sex. These are the "Don Juans" of the zodiac and are
more cerebral in their approach.

So(like Mars in Sag)its more a "numbers" game than anything more deep. Libra likes to keep things light and anything heavy tends to turn them off(that includes heavy emotional feelings).

Mars in Libra (like Mars in Leo) has a sex life that may unfold like a glamorous tv show i.e."Dynasty" ,"Sex and the City" etc. There is surface level romance, a number of partners frolicking around with each other /with the same person.Nothing too deep. And all very decadent.

Contrast the above with Mars in Sco who looks at sex as an emotional unfolding and an opportunity to get deeply embedded into someone they like/love.

Mars in Sco can be the type to abstain from sex on one hand. Or (because of a broken heart that has rendered them temporarily detached) sleep around with plenty.

Generally speaking however,these are emotional lovers who like to be "in tune" with their partner and zone everything else out. So they can focus on one person-giving their undivided attention to them.

Sounds intense?Yes. Yes it can be. Which can make them pretty adapt at sensing how sincere you are about them. Because Sco Mars is fearful of rejection or abandonment, when they feel the love is not reciprocated, they tend to quickly pull back or abruptly cut off. They are usually not the "casual sex" types.

Mars in Leo likes to "perform" in the bedroom. Theatrical lovemaking like grunts and noises accompanying sex,tend to appeal. They are always looking for "Yes. Oh Yes!!" Feedback. Sex is an opportunity for them to "perform". And their personality usually surfaces during it.

But they do not really connect to the partner. Sex and intimacy is really more about connecting to themselves via the partner (if that makes sense).You will always notice this because they will take the vantage point that centres on them somehow i.e. "i loved it when I felt... and then i .....which meant that i .....""etc. Notice how there is no "you" or "we" there?

So they want a partner that is able to connect them to themselves in the most effective way. They'll love being with that person because it's always an opportunity for them to better express their true selves.

posted October 03, 2022 05:00 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
[B]Not a rank. But a comment. And this mostly applies to the fellaz.

Ime ,Mars in Libra are charmers. Dont go for these folks if you are into the emotional aspect of sex. These are the "Don Juans" of the zodiac and are
more cerebral in their approach.

So(like Mars in Sag)its more a "numbers" game than anything more deep. Libra likes to keep things light and anything heavy tends to turn them off(that includes heavy emotional feelings).

Mars in Libra (like Mars in Leo) has a sex life that may unfold like a glamorous tv show i.e."Dynasty" ,"Sex and the City" etc. There is surface level romance, a number of partners frolicking around with each other /with the same person.Nothing too deep. And all very decadent.

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That doesn't sound so nice. I think Mars in Libra is all about mental seduction and stimulation before they actually do "it"... It's a I take the first step, then you take the next step etc. seduction process. Like a ritual. Do you know these couples who wear the same clothes or style themselves similarly? That's Mars in Libra for me in a nutshell. They have an eye for beauty and like symmetrical feautures, bodies, dimples and laugh lines. Partners can be a bit aggressive. Things I've experienced myself when they're flirting with you are holding deep eye contact and light - seemingly accidental - touches! Sweet kisses, lots of foreplay, sensual touches, voyeurism, morning sex, 69, light bondage or spanking and role play can definitely be on the agenda for this placement.

My ex-boyfriend has Mars in Scorpio. If there's one thing Mars in Scorpio hates, it's being the underdog. They hate being the one in a relationship who loves more, for example. When they want you, they persevere and can play psychological games and test you. They have a love for the forbidden. An extreme example would be falling in love with a nun and sleeping with her. They seem to have a attraction for innocence and people who radiate purity.

posted October 03, 2022 05:22 AM            

Mars in Gemini - Seduce you through conversation. Knownledge is power and intelligence is a turn on. You never get bored with them. It helps to have a variety of interests, hobbies, and personalities (?) to keep them interested in you

I actually also like Mars in Capricorn. Mars in Cancer is an interesting one.

posted October 06, 2022 05:50 PM            

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Capricorn Mars - [sorry in advance] huge daddy energy, unless of course other placements out weigh this then can be generally annoying and demanding.

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*looks down on you from my luxurious high-rise*

Take it back bish!!! J/K.

No need to apologize, we all have different tastes. I'll just add that gender often makes a difference with this. For instance, I don't have "daddy energy" as I'm rather feminine and prefer for the man I'm with to embody that essence as the leader in our relationship. ❤ Not the other way around.

posted October 07, 2022 04:10 AM            

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Originally posted by rockwell:
That doesn't sound so nice. I think Mars in Libra is all about mental seduction and stimulation before they actually do "it"... It's a I take the first step, then you take the next step etc. seduction process. Like a ritual.

It sounded harsh . I know. That is my experience with Mars in Libra exes. I myself have Mars in Lib in 7th with mutual reception with Venus in Sco in 8th.

Many of my exes have had sexual escapades that were founded on falling inlove with someone because of good looks. But nothing concrete or serious came off of them. They were honest about that.

I recall when one(Mars in Lib/Ven in Lib conj)asked me why I do so much "digging" in my conversations? I dont have normal conversations about the weather or pleasantries. I tend to probe.

I told him that it was likely unconscious on my part(Ven on Sco was showing) .That perhaps through those probes,I wanted to know him beyond being my "boyfriend" or "lover" etc.

And to him I think that knowing the partner as "lover" was enough. The display of coupling and being in a relationship was enough. The "+ 1" date etc. Nothing too deep. Because i don't think he concerned himself with looking for more(Ven in Lib).🤷🏿‍♂️

But with my mutual reception, i function a little differently. Its the Sco part that wants me to penetrate the facade of superficial romance and go broader.

Yes, my Mars in Libra lured his Ven/Mars Libra mix with my flirting and gentle mental stimulation etc. Libra is into that. Symmetrical proportions? Yes. I work out and am in good shape. And I was wearing a pretty tight shirt and fitted jeans to outline my shape when we met. It worked.🤣

But once he was "ensnared", he found a lot more layers (Ven in Sco). But Luckily his Sun in Sco could keep up. We had a great time and parted amicably.

Throughout every relationship with Mars in Libra guys however, I noted that "appearance " of togetherness is everything to them. The "Instagram couple " goals and the whole two good looking guys together etc. In a seemingly "picture perfect" coupling , matters a lot. Ambiance matters a lot.

The airy nature of Mars seems to get aroused when things are kept light and free from anything heavy. Its never intense energy. Not unless there are mutual aspects with Sco or oppositions with Aries etc.

Mental seduction, suggestive language, back-forth play between them and the partner etc. Are all a part of the foreplay and create the excitement. I agree.

Its light and frothy. Its not "give me your heart and soul". Its flirty, its camp and "pretty".

Mars in Libra is also "nasty/ nice". Harsh comments shrouded underneath a veneer of niceness whilst flirting also appeal. A sort of "war in love" in a way that the back/forth banter with another builds the sexual tension.

So Falling inlove with someone they classically "hated" before or didn't get on with initially etc. Happens a lot. Its the classic rom-com movie "twist".

Do you know these couples who wear the same clothes or style themselves similarly? That's Mars in Libra for me in a nutshell. They have an eye for beauty and like symmetrical feautures, bodies, dimples and laugh lines.

Yes. This goes hand on hand with what i said about the "looking like a couple " thing on the outside. Libra also likes to project themselves on to the partner. Have their partner reflect back the qualities that they find attractive about themselves etc.

The "dressing alike" thing is also a way for them to "claim" you to the outside world in an indirect way. Because if you dress alike. Then you and the partner (for all intents and purposes ) are ONE🤷🏿‍♂️

Partners can be a bit aggressive. Things I've experienced myself when they're flirting with you are holding deep eye contact and light - seemingly accidental - touches! Sweet kisses, lots of foreplay, sensual touches, voyeurism, morning sex, 69, light bondage or spanking and role play can definitely be on the agenda for this placement.

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I do hear the "aggressive partner" thing a lot with this placement.Initially yes, i would agree that Libra's more evasive style does attract the aggressive partner who wishes to "possess" them etc.

But Libra is cardinal.They are mostly ucomfortable in the position of being the one who is "conquered". So if they don't regain the leadership stronghold in some aspect within the relationship initiated "on" them, they will either become passive aggressive partners on one hand who continually resent being "pushed around".

Or (on the other hand) it will simply not last . And they will ghost or ignore that the relationship even exists(cheat compulsively).

Tau is more willing to be the one who is "captured " etc. Not the case with Libra. When they like you, Libra Mars WILL initiate and charm the socks off of you. Be quite brazen about it (if its not clear) and gently persuade you into a corner where denial of their interest in you ,is not likely to be ambivalent.

People who have to ask about a Libra Sun, Moon or Mars man on when he'll make a move? Or why he isn't making one? Etc.are missing the most obvious reason. He may not be all that into you(in that way). He is not ambivalent. He is just a gentleman (Ven rules them after all)🤷🏿‍♂️

Libra is cardinal. Cardinals initiate. Libra may like to do it with tons of charm. But they(like all the others) like to take charge of the ritual of courtship. Infact, this is the MOST exciting part of the coupling situation.

Its usually people who are conditioned by Aries-Mars nature as well as currently primitive display of masculinity who think that a man should "capture" his person of interest in a candid/brute/forceful way.

In the past, a man would court a lady or the partner he wants for a long time and preserve their "dignity" by not having it look like they were "easy" or gave in too quickly.

Perhaps Mars in Libra is still of that old way of thinking? But they don't want to "impose " themselves on you for a long time. They will do it briefly (to clarify how they feel about you) then back off so that its a mutual conversation of attraction. Not a 'i will hunt you down and mount you' situation.

But i get it, societal rules change. So Mars in Libra may not have that same air of animalistic magnetism and appeal that is considered 'sexy' or 'manly' by today's standards.

The hysteria around the concept of "effeminizing" men and boys has preoccupied society with wanting hyper-masculinity (especially in the States) by encouraging boys and men do define masculinity through muscles , mma sports and related contests of "strength" etc.

So men with Mars in Libra (and Mars in Tau)are often labelled "gay" for how they act. Not to say that there is anything wrong with being gay intrinsically. But the intent of heteronormative society is to suggest that they fall below what is "acceptable" as "manhood" etc.