posted October 07, 2022 10:54 AM
Wow. You are going all out for this person. I hope that they appreciate the lengths you are putting yourself through in order to get closer to them.Luckily Gem Venus is usually a position that is really quite versatile. And is more interested to know what is different about you to them equally (if not more) than what you two have in common.
Gemini typically finds differences attractive. They often like to explore (solar 7th house is in Sag) and can be turned on by a partner who expands their world somehow.
Ven is the esoteric ruler of Gemini. So Gem Venus (unlike many other placements) will not look for you to "complete" them.But to "complement" them.
In that you can be you,dress the way you like and eat what you want etc. Be different to them.Its allowed. Infact, its encouraged. These folks will give you freedom within the relationship to just do you.☝🏿
Looks alone are not likely to draw them in. You must also be the type who likes to talk or have interesting stories to tell. And the way you tell them must be unique and engaging (which is why Sag Sun, Sun in 9th house people can be so appealing to them).
Gem Ven have a lot of questions to ask. A lot to say. And its not enough for you to just listen and be the passive "receiver" of everything. You must engage with them. Your whole relationship is a metaphoric "dialogue"(Mercury).
# Caution: if you are the jealous types, there will be issues. Gemini Ven can flirt with the wall as they absolutely love to flaunt their wit and charm around (Lib solar 5th). So there is also the likely possibility that you are not the ONLY one moved by their smile.
So as much as they may wink at the cashier at the grocery store, the postperson, the boss, the clergy,the neighbour, the stranger they met on the bus etc. Gemini Ven may have an actual other "situationship"(Gem dislikes labels) that is happening simultaneously with yours or right before or after you two met.
They tend to have a very "open" face (this in partcular Asc in Gem). Not to be confused with the earnest but often stern and martial face of Aries. But a face that is suggestive of "maybe we can go out for drinks sometime?" This without them even saying a word.
Its in the twinkle of their eyes or the permanent smirk on their face. Their easy command of language and other magic hand skills (Mercury rules the hands and the talents we have) like playing the guitar,juggling objects, twisting their arms over their head like they are boneless.
Maybe they play the piano, tap-dance or sing? etc. Talents or abilities that can bowl people over and make them so attractive/ well rounded individuals who are accessible to so many, that they may have many "options" on the table of potentials to choose from. And where (many times) they may decide to take as many as they can and not make any particular choice☝🏿
And so they make flirting look so easy and effortless. Like its a sport. But its usually terribly fun for them and nothing serious
So if you are the territorial type and try to stifle their Mercurial wings. They will want to break free from you. Because they expect the same freedom they give you to be "you" to be extended back to them.
They will not be as brazen as Sag Ven( who may cheat on you and make you feel guity for catching them because you are "suffocating" to them etc.) But they can't stand being pigeon-holed. Its a deal breaker.
And they certainly don't want to end the relationship with you. They'll miss you because Gem Ven truly appreciates you as an individual and not just as an extension of them i.e. "my lover", " my husband" , " my ...." etc. And so they may call you by your name and not "baby". This even after months of dating.
#Gemini Moon will love to talk about everything and anything. But is not particularly invested in digging deeply into one particular subject (unless Moon is in the 8th house or connected to the 8th house somehow).
So if the Virgo Moon nature wants to sort out the gibberish of what they are saying and make sense of it all. This could be the source of irritation for you and tension for them.
For instance,Gem Moon will talk of the Queen of England. How they think the monarchy is an archaic institution. Then move to talk about a recipe they read about online and are willing to try. But then are out of onions??? 🤷🏿♂️
And then go on to ask when was the last time they bought red onions and whether they are still cheap? Closing off with how expensive things are getting and how the economy is going to the dogs before asking you if you fixed the leaking tap in the kitchen?🤣All of this information under 5 minutes.
If you are a meticulous Virgo, you'll be tempted to break down each topic from beginning to end. Closing each one off bit by bit before rushing into the next one. Virgo likes order. Gemini likes it when things overlap.
So Gemini is likely no longer interested in the topic before, nor the subject they are busy discussing. But more on what they are thinking to say after you are done talking.
Gemini moon can live in their head. And Mercury is always rushing forwards to some new place. Even if its going around in circles. Gem(btw) loves to spin around. So carousels and theme parks where things spin around and around in circles, are very appealing.
Whilst you as a Vir(also ruled by Mercury)are more concerned about ensuring that you don't come back to deliver on the same route. In other words, going in circles maddens and frightens you. Because it can give you a massive migraine.
As I said,this difference in mercurial styles can be a source of irritation for you. And a source of tension for them i.e. you will want them to have more follow through. Whilst they will want you to stop criticizing them for not having it etc.🙆🏿♂️
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