posted November 03, 2022 04:27 AM            

Meeting the one who is meant for you is like a river flowing into the sea, ice melting into water, night fading into dawn. It is seamless and noiseless. It feels like "coming home" & very natural- even inevitable. You just know that this is where you belong and don't question it. Ever.

I am not inlove, but whilst I am open to persuasion(to reference Joan Armatrading 😁 . I am aware of this knowledge from an intutive level. Its just a matter of place and context that I know I will experience it.

You have to be at peace when you meet the one. Completely comfortable and feeling at peace with them around you that even doing "unexciting stuff" like moving furniture around, painting a cupboard or cleaning up together etc. Feels like an enjoyable time.

posted November 03, 2022 04:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
When you meet someone and your knees shake, your heart stomps and you feel butterflies in your stomach whilst being out of breath etc. They are NOT the one☝🏿

Meeting the one who is meant for you is like a river flowing into the sea, ice melting into water, night fading into dawn. It is seamless and noiseless. It feels like "coming home" & very natural- even inevitable. You just know that this is where you belong and don't question it. Ever.

I am not inlove, but whilst I am open to persuasion(to reference Joan Armatrading 😁 . I am aware of this knowledge from an intutive level. Its just a matter of place and context that I know I will experience it.

You have to be at peace when you meet the one. Completely comfortable and feeling at peace with them around you that even doing "unexciting stuff" like moving furniture around, painting a cupboard or cleaning up together etc. Feels like an enjoyable time.

Thats when you know. Coz life is long and love is not necessarily created in grand moments.But it is always within minutiae and the mundane❤

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posted November 03, 2022 08:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
When you meet someone and your knees shake, your heart stomps and you feel butterflies in your stomach whilst being out of breath etc. They are NOT the one☝🏿

Meeting the one who is meant for you is like a river flowing into the sea, ice melting into water, night fading into dawn. It is seamless and noiseless. It feels like "coming home" & very natural- even inevitable. You just know that this is where you belong and don't question it. Ever.

I am not inlove, but whilst I am open to persuasion(to reference Joan Armatrading 😁 . I am aware of this knowledge from an intutive level. Its just a matter of place and context that I know I will experience it.

You have to be at peace when you meet the one. Completely comfortable and feeling at peace with them around you that even doing "unexciting stuff" like moving furniture around, painting a cupboard or cleaning up together etc. Feels like an enjoyable time.

Thats when you know. Coz life is long and love is not necessarily created in grand moments.But it is always within minutiae and the mundane❤

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posted November 03, 2022 08:08 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
When I met my husband it was sheer coincidence. Met at his work. I wasn’t looking for anything or anyone but agreed to a coffee. After a while I fell in love but it’s never been butterflies with him. It’s been a growing curve. I accept him the way he his, mostly, and we can be extremely boring together and that’s OK.

Extremely deep down I don’t think he’s the one” because I’ve had to change myself a lot in order to make us function. It hasn’t been “flowing”. But we’ve been married for 7 1/2 years.

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posted November 03, 2022 01:31 PM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
Aren’t relationships supposed to be about change and growth though?

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posted November 03, 2022 04:16 PM            

The second one I saw at a wedding, and again I knew. Two months later we began dating, and we were together for 18 months. It was not infatuation love, just very comfortable love. However, I needed growth in a way that he didn't, so we parted.

I am currently very happy being by myself, but I also know there is someone special coming soon. So for now I am enjoying my time to myself, and waiting to be surprised by how this man will enter my life and what it will feel like, regardless of how long it lasts.

posted November 03, 2022 07:38 PM            

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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
I have known twice in my life when I was supposed to be with someone, but neither of those relationships were meant to be forever. With the first man, it was recognition from a photo. I had never met him, but just seeing his photo I knew that I had known him in a past life. He has been the greatest love so far, but it was a very tumultuous relationship.

The second one I saw at a wedding, and again I knew. Two months later we began dating, and we were together for 18 months. It was not infatuation love, just very comfortable love. However, I needed growth in a way that he didn't, so we parted.

I am currently very happy being by myself, but I also know there is someone special coming soon. So for now I am enjoying my time to myself, and waiting to be surprised by how this man will enter my life and what it will feel like, regardless of how long it lasts.

And P.S. yes, the synastry and composite did line up with the relationships- chaotic and intense for the first one, and very routine and mundane for the second.

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posted November 03, 2022 07:39 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Yes but I also question to what price?

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posted November 04, 2022 07:16 AM            

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Originally posted by kani:
You are a poet at heart Aries. Very beautiful

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posted November 04, 2022 07:18 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
When I met my husband it was sheer coincidence. Met at his work. I wasn’t looking for anything or anyone but agreed to a coffee. After a while I fell in love but it’s never been butterflies with him. It’s been a growing curve. I accept him the way he his, mostly, and we can be extremely boring together and that’s OK.

Extremely deep down I don’t think he’s the one” because I’ve had to change myself a lot in order to make us function. It hasn’t been “flowing”. But we’ve been married for 7 1/2 years.

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Isn't it always the case that when we are least "looking", we are more predisposed to "finding"?

I like what you said there though. That you can be extremely boring together. And thats O.K. It shows a mature heart in matters of love.👌🏿

Do you think that you can be happy to accept that he may mot necessarily be the "one"? But is the the one right now ? What do you think is missing ?

Sometimes I think life puts us at a vantage point to ask and clarify more of what we want.That it's never the "perfect" house we move into. But it is from that point of knowing what we don't want in a house, that our vision for what we do want starts to be more visceral.

posted November 04, 2022 07:37 AM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
*Swoon* I only know like one person who has experienced it like this ~

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❤❤❤. For me Lily, that is enough to know that it is possibly for lots more.

I think the issue with me is that i am still too fixated on "looking" my way into a match-up. I still want control over the process.

At times i do hear the universe saying to me again and again, " all will work out to your benefit. Trust the process and let go."

posted November 04, 2022 12:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

Do you think that you can be happy to accept that he may mot necessarily be the "one"? But is the the one right now ? What do you think is missing?.
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I have accepted he’s the one right now but I’m starting to get this familiar feeling that “someone” is out there. I’ve had that feeling many times before and I had it right before I moved back to Sweden and subsequently met my husband shortly thereafter. What’s missing is this sense of purpose. He’s always missing his family back home (completely different culture and traditions than mine) and he’s always complaining about Sweden and Swedish people and how much it hates them/it. There’s no real sense of togetherness against the system if that makes sense. It feels as if he’s always looking for something better to come along.

posted November 04, 2022 12:10 PM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
Interesting! So there were no "long-lasting" indicators?

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posted November 04, 2022 12:45 PM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
Hey guys, I'm just curious for those of you in relationships that knew your person was right for you, how did you know? What did it feel like? Does the astrology match up to how you feel/how things have played out? Or have things played out differently than you thought? I hear all the time how people knew this and that person was their person for life, but then it ends up going sour.

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He bought me chocolate! I was recovering from a skiing injury and he visited me with a huge chocolate Easter bunny. He was very caring and sweet to me. I felt extremely save and comfortable with him.

posted November 04, 2022 12:53 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
What’s missing is this sense of purpose. He’s always missing his family back home (completely different culture and traditions than mine) and he’s always complaining about Sweden and Swedish people and how much it hates them/it. There’s no real sense of togetherness against the system if that makes sense. It feels as if he’s always looking for something better to come along.

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posted November 04, 2022 01:58 PM            

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Originally posted by rockwell:
I love Sweden and I often find you very attractive. Rebecca Ferguson and Ingrid Bergman are some of my favorite actresses and I grew up with Astrid Lindgrens novels. It makes sense what you say ("There’s no real sense of togetherness against the system"). I think when you are in an intercultural relationship you have to like at least parts of your partner's culture, be curious and have a genuine interest in it.

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Right! In his defense he hasn't had the greatest time here though. Some of it is self made (drugs, bad people, bad decisions etc. He's done with that now) and the fact he had a child with his ex wife and MAN, that is one **** -show :-/
Him being a Pisces Venus conj Asc I fear he has a hard time seeing people and situations and it's easy for him to get hurt, although his Aries Sun ego would NEVER admit it.

posted November 04, 2022 09:01 PM            

I knew because of the spiritually generated synchronicity. I co-created with Spirit that I have a partner who loves and accepts me as I am. And she was right there, someone who at first I had no specific attraction to before our friendship developed in person. I let go of preconceptions and trusted — and responded. She was the one who took the initiative. That was in 2009. We married and are still together.

But part of how I knew and still know is our sense of humor together. Also a similar (religious) background and similarity in how we left it.

posted November 05, 2022 03:00 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I have accepted he’s the one right now but I’m starting to get this familiar feeling that “someone” is out there. I’ve had that feeling many times before and I had it right before I moved back to Sweden and subsequently met my husband shortly thereafter. What’s missing is this sense of purpose. He’s always missing his family back home (completely different culture and traditions than mine) and he’s always complaining about Sweden and Swedish people and how much it hates them/it. There’s no real sense of togetherness against the system if that makes sense. It feels as if he’s always looking for something better to come along.

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Wow. So it feels as if you are both keeping each other company until better comes along?🤔. Most people do that for a very long time.

Ime,I get this feeling almost immediately after being with someone for a few minutes. I just know that romantically (should it start like that) it won't be anything mind-blowing. Just a time passer.

posted November 07, 2022 11:39 PM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
He bought me chocolate! I was recovering from a skiing injury and he visited me with a huge chocolate Easter bunny. He was very caring and sweet to me. I felt extremely save and comfortable with him.

I have Taurus Venus and my 7th house ruler is Cancer Mars. So with his nurturing behavior and chocolate gift he definitely was my “type”. Also my Taurus Venus square his Leo Ascendant and his Aries Venus opposite my Libra Ascendant, His Taurus Mars/Saturn(R7) conjunct my Taurus Venus and my Cancer Mars(R7)/Saturn conjunct his Cancer Moon. There’s more but these are the most significant aspects. The relationship got serious pretty quickly. There was never any doubt about our intentions. The relationship lasted 14 years, married for 10 years, before it ended. It was painful to let go but we’re still on good terms. He’s a great guy, we’re just not that great together anymore.

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posted November 07, 2022 11:41 PM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
First, I gave astrology no consideration whatsoever.

I knew because I of the spiritually generated synchronicity. I co-created with Spirit that I have a partner who loves and accepts me as I am. And she was right there, someone who at first I had no specific attraction to before our friendship developed in person. I let go of preconceptions and trusted — and responded. She was the one who took the initiative. That was in 2009. We married and are still together.

But part of how I knew and still know is our sense of humor together. Also a similar (religious) background and similarity in how we left it.

I won't say that things have gone as I expected or according to images or biases I had in my mind. My process has been to let go of those and co-create with my wife our life together, to grow together.

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posted November 08, 2022 03:28 AM            

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Originally posted by LilyIris07:
Still, 14 years is a long time! It is lovely that you could spend that time together at all.

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It was and will always be one of the most significant relationships in my life. We have two children together. And our break up seems to be very important for me as well, because now I’m trying to heal some of my deep rooted insecurities. It would have been very easy for me to just ignore these issues if I would still be content in a relationship.

Looking at my own chart and reflecting on my life, it feels like this relationship was a very karmic one and was meant to happen. My feelings towards romantic partnerships have always been somewhat strained. I have trust issues and tend to keep my distance. My 7th house ruler Mars is conjunct Saturn and both square Chiron in the 7th house. I think it’s very insightful to study your own chart, especially the 7th house and its ruler when it comes to relationships.

If I understand correctly, progressions and transits are important indicators of significant relationships.
https://www.astro.com/astrology/iam_article190812_e.htm
https://starscopestoday.com/2012/09/24/when-will-i-find-love-part-2-the-progressed-chart/
https://www.tarot.com/astrology/birth-chart-progressions