posted December 03, 2022 11:34 PM            

I don't have any Scorpio placements, but in my case, my Cancer placements are in the Decan of Scorpio, and I'm very private about my personal life. I don't trust family with it, except my Godmother, and occasionally my eldest sister.

Thank you for helping me learn!

posted December 04, 2022 01:08 AM            

I think if one also has Uranus/Sat in aspect to Moon , the Ic or ruler of the Ic, one tends to not be comfortable attaching themselves emotionally to anyone🤷🏿‍♂️.

posted December 04, 2022 04:50 AM            

November was a very harsh month for my mom and I.

I have been more interested in learning about astrology patterns in family charts.

posted December 04, 2022 08:16 AM            

I trust people, but I only trust certain people with certain things. I don't have anyone that I tell everything to. And there is a lot of stuff that I don't tell at all. Like a previous poster said, I also will occasionally tell someone about an issue after I have handled it.

posted December 04, 2022 01:34 PM            

I love Scorpio Venus women for this. My sister(we smoothed things over it's super rare for us to not talk for a period of time over heated words) I think that one lasted almost two weeks. (last time was like 8 years ago where we didn't talk for 2 months)

Early degree Scorpio in general makes good chemistry with all the early degree Cancer, Pisces and Capricorn in my chart.

But Venus Scorpio conjunct my Moon, Pluto, Lilith synastry with other women. I can really spill with out judgement, and I can return the favor. Such a powerful dark feminine energy beautiful bond.

Since getting out of the hospital my Venus Scorpio friend will most likely be the first one I see. We just wanna go to the movies.

posted December 04, 2022 01:47 PM            

My sister has Leo Moon but it's squares her Scorpio rising.

I have Leo SN/IC square Moon/Pluto

we both have it tight like one degree.

We both have that power hungry strong will privacy loving thing going on. But we also like to just be silly and playful after having our space that we are comfortable around.

I joke with people that me having Leo IC and Scorpio Moon is like being a cat "pay attention to me, don't pay attention to me"

posted December 04, 2022 11:11 PM            

That trust is earned is something I continually learn. Maybe that's true for all people?

I feel like I constantly get burned because I reach to people and trust. I am probably an over-sharer, or have been. I attribute that as being likely to do with my Uranus/Moon, and having a chaotic childhood with chaotic personal connections.

I don't think I am heavy Pluto. In fact, it's almost not aspected, just a wide sextile to Jupiter and Pluto sits 1* from my MC in the 9H. Maybe it's taken longer time for Pluto lessons, like "earning trust" as it's not a very prominent planet in my chart.

posted December 05, 2022 11:07 PM            

p.s. I love Pluto in my 9th house BTW. Especially since I only have Saturn in the 9th house natally.

I really thought I would stay with my husband and make it work with Pluto in my 9th house. Because we really did make travel happen together. But now if I do feel so compelled to leave the country or next state it's up to me. I do have some out of state friends I thought would be nice to visit in the south!

I can't believe the bawls on some of these ladies that travel a foreign country alone.

Might go back to a higher education focus too.

posted December 06, 2022 07:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
You guys talking about Pluto in the 11th house placements and transits, are at risk of making me like having Pluto in the 6th house.

p.s. I love Pluto in my 9th house BTW. Especially since I only have Saturn in the 9th house natally.

I really thought I would stay with my husband and make it work with Pluto in my 9th house. Because we really did make travel happen together. But now if I do feel so compelled to leave the country or next state it's up to me. I do have some out of state friends I thought would be nice to visit in the south!

I can't believe the bawls on some of these ladies that travel a foreign country alone.

Might go back to a higher education focus too.

Having a career shift is unavoidable with Pluto going into my 10th house somewhere in my middle ages.

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What’s it like to have Saturn in The 9th House natally? Is it true it delays everything after graduating high school? Do you have within 5 degrees of your 10th House?

posted December 06, 2022 10:21 AM            

If you answer truthfully then they'll open up to you more.

I'd be more concerned if a Scorpio is super nice for no reason, like my current boss.

I work for a tech consulting firm...I'm no hot-shot developer, currently i'm off assignment.

I don't know why he keeps me around..
Neither he wants something from me or senses something in me. I fear he's going to send me to some other project and expect me to "move mountains" in a month from now.

posted December 06, 2022 07:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
What’s it like to have Saturn in The 9th House natally? Is it true it delays everything after graduating high school? Do you have within 5 degrees of your 10th House?

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I barely graduated high school. I hated being at school since first grade. I was not interested in college. I don't think I started community college until I turned 20. I liked it a bit. I did not pick a major until I was 24. I got my associates degree at 26. I graduated with straight A's with a Bachelors at 30.

As a middle class suburb kid, travel was pretty uneventful for me compared to others. I am grateful for camper camping(I was conceived in a camper apparently) I am grateful for for visiting out of state relatives. That was really it.

Other families would be going to Disney World, and on cruises.

I was so lucky to get invited to Disney World when I was 12. And I was surprised that my mom and cousin planned a Niagara Falls trips.

As a teen it started to seem like I only traveled for auditions and summer camps. I realized travel does not mean vacation. And I am a person who needs vacation travel in their life.

In my 20's my family started renting cabins. They gave up camper camping in my teens. So I always had that to look forward to.

Mid 20's had me camping with friends, visiting a Marine I had a long fling with. and going to music festivals, started visiting boyfriends relatives out of state.
For as much as I realize I am done with my husband we really did make travel happen like no one I have ever experienced, just hearing that alone, how do I want to leave? I have planned us a date-cation in a touristy part of the state. He eventually returned the favor for me. Right after the trip I planned for him he got his travel job. I got to visit so many new states because of it. We had our Cancun Honeymoon in March!

I think having the Saturn return and Pluto conjunct my Saturn still to this day has really packed a punch. I feel like I appreciate it that much more.

posted December 06, 2022 07:34 PM            

My NN is 13/14 degrees depending on the site I use conjunct MC.

I really like having this in my chart. Even though it took me much longer to graduate and get a degree. I really see the beautiful conjunction of NN destiny being in my 9th house of higher education in conjunction to my MC career status.

While it didn't happen in a timely fashion, I am one of those people who can say they put their degrees to use!

There are so many people in my age group who did as they were told right away, dropped out of college lost motivation with out their families put the fear of God in them to get good grades. Finished or almost finished and realized that they did not want to do what they where working on anymore. Or just straight up could not find a job with their degree after. There is a lot of pressure with middle class families where I grew up for their kids to go to college. Like it's a moral failing if you can 't brag about your kid going to college. Even if it puts them in mass debt. My parents were odd since they did not put pressure on my that way....but me and my sister were both motivated within ourselves and put our degrees to use. (she has debt though because she took advice from teacher that it would be easy to pay back) Like many people in her age group she is still paying it off and having a parent help pay it off too.

I think my mom has Saturn in the 9th house too. She is a Gemini rising like my self. And she was 30 when she had me so we both have Saturn in Capricorn.

posted December 09, 2022 07:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
MC 16 Degrees Aquarius
How embarrassing I always forget I have Aquarius NN house 9.

My NN is 13/14 degrees depending on the site I use conjunct MC.

I really like having this in my chart. Even though it took me much longer to graduate and get a degree. I really see the beautiful conjunction of NN destiny being in my 9th house of higher education in conjunction to my MC career status.

While it didn't happen in a timely fashion, I am one of those people who can say they put their degrees to use!

There are so many people in my age group who did as they were told right away, dropped out of college lost motivation with out their families put the fear of God in them to get good grades. Finished or almost finished and realized that they did not want to do what they where working on anymore. Or just straight up could not find a job with their degree after. There is a lot of pressure with middle class families where I grew up for their kids to go to college. Like it's a moral failing if you can 't brag about your kid going to college. Even if it puts them in mass debt. My parents were odd since they did not put pressure on my that way....but me and my sister were both motivated within ourselves and put our degrees to use. (she has debt though because she took advice from teacher that it would be easy to pay back) Like many people in her age group she is still paying it off and having a parent help pay it off too.

I think my mom has Saturn in the 9th house too. She is a Gemini rising like my self. And she was 30 when she had me so we both have Saturn in Capricorn.

She was always very educated and academic. Straight A's, won the spelling B one time. She comes from educated old money. Even though her family had money, she had 5 other siblings. Everyone on that side is very independent and doesn't ask parents for hand outs. My mom took time to just be a mom. She did not get her bachelors degree until she was 39. She paid off all her debt in her early 50's. She graduated in 1999.

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posted December 10, 2022 02:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
What's her Mercury Sign, House Placement & Aspect(s)? Does she have any planets in The 3rd House?

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Thank you I do need to add my mom's chart to the data base. I have been fascinated by mom's journey as well heal family generational trauma.

She has Mercury in Leo. (I have mine in Taurus where Mercury can be "kind of slow" I'm sure me having it the 12th house really helped my academic self esteem matters too. lol)

Woah way to call it Leo-Cancer98. I'm impressed! Her Mercury Leo is in the 3rd house! She has always excelled. Her father and older brother encouraged her to be smart too.

posted December 10, 2022 06:40 AM            

I don’t know. This is something I wouldn’t mind talking about, but I’m tired, and people can be weird about it, when it has nothing to do with them. I’ve had people decide I’m talking about them when I wasn’t - I am really direct - or just make assumptions that are more about them than me. I would love to be more trusting again, but it isn’t happening right now.