posted December 10, 2022 05:50 AM
Strong feelings tend to interfere and become impactful enough to compromise relationships.This whether platonic or romantic.There is a tendency for increased sensitivity when it comes to those things that you value/own or like.
So whilst Neptune may increase empathy and sympathy. It tends to detach from "owning"- seeing everything as beautiful and of value. But with no real desire to "possess" or "own" beyond the point of appreciation.
Pluto sensitizes one to what one values.
But then instead of appreciation, there is a need to "have" and fear of loss of what is already owned on one hand. That actions are taken to defend against loss.
Sometimes, on the other hand the loss can come on its own through things that one loves being destroyed or them losing their worth in some way. Making the individual seem detached and devoid of deep feelings
But this is also a defence for the individual to maintain distance and sanity by not becoming too attached. Because they are so accustomed and have expectations of loss.
So in friendships, it can manifest as strong feelings of jealousy or overprotectiveness over the friends one has.Or the friends increase in their possessiveness of you.
Another possibility is betrayal within friendship. Or issues of trust surfacing because of suspicion, rumours or backstabbing shenanigans compromising the bonds with existing members etc.
Some can experience death in friendships - where it clarifies to them what is important in friendships. Or some crisis which helps them determine who their true friends are. This whether metaphorical or physical.
Much of the above will also apply in relationships too. The partner being instrumental in some internal shift/ change on what you think is valuable/of great worth to you.