posted December 27, 2022 05:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
it’s a very simplifying concept. Often it’s not that simple. Especially if planets are very afflicted, a person could be doing better with soft aspects in synastry or somebody who could complete the pattern. I often see the opposite sign attraction.
Also, there’re different preferences for outer planets.

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I know this but i am focusing spesifically on these aspects because this is what is often written about them and in my opinion i feel the Moon is more closer to being ‘’ideal’’ for Venus and Mars then the Sun because this is your core and who you are deep down.

posted December 28, 2022 01:27 AM            

I don't even think its looks per se. I just think its pure 'sex appeal '. In that the person's energy tends to exude a sort of presence that inspires me to (for lack of a better word) penetrate them. Or be all up in their face.

Maybe this aspect can also inspire antagonism or enmity? Probably because of Mars being involved? But most times, it will not quantity to indifference.

Mars has a tendency of clarifying the path ahead. It is the erect🍆 for a male. And its hard- pun intended 😛 - to think of anything else or have split energy when at that point. This because of the directness of the Mars effect inspires focus or narrow minded thinking.

So someone who has their Mars to your Sun, will pursue you. They will get all up in your space because Mars has made the target you. So they will aim their attention in your direction. This no matter how hard they may try to deflect it on their end (consciously). Their body language and mannerisms around you, will make it clear that they want you or looking at you.

Venus on the other hand is "like" ime. It doesn't tend to have the same urgency or psychological violence as Mars. We tend to appreciate those with Sun on our Venus. This whether we get to have them or not.

posted December 28, 2022 08:58 AM            

I have an exact Venus Moon conjunction with a coworker. And as it's my Moon, and my Sun opposes my Moon, we also have his Venus opposite my Sun. We have only been working together two months. I like him, and he hired me so he approves of me. What I see is compatible working styles.

posted December 28, 2022 09:03 PM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
I don’t get that. What if your Moon is so different from your Sun you are bound to express your Moon at some point and in my opinion this is the most powerful influence in a chart. You really think that Pisces girl with an Aries Moon is a Pisces Venus guy’s ‘’type’’ just because they have a Sun conjunct Venus aspect? At core i don’t think she really is i actually think she would have been much more ideal for a Venus in Aries guy. The same with Mars if you are attracted to males you would want your Mars in a nice aspect to their Moon he will express the qualities you would want in a man so naturally and to a true form. I find the Sun more superficial like with Sun-Mars they might be physically your ‘’type’’ the same with Sun-Venus you find these people beautiful and like their sense of style and are charmed by that and might even think they are your ideal mate until you get to know their Moon and that might be in a sign that is very different from their Sun and start realising this person wasn’t so ideal afterall.

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Sun and Venus are yang and yin, respectively masculine and feminine, therefore imo there is a dynamic, a polarity, a complementarity that Venus and Moon together, being yin and yin, being both feminine, do not have.

Polarity makes for powerful attraction and compatibility.

When you pair masculine and feminine, sparks fly. Masculine femine pairings such as Sun with Venus, Sun with Moon, Mars with Venus, Venus with Pluto, even Saturn with Venus, make for romantic, sexual and emotional attraction and possibilities.

posted December 29, 2022 06:04 AM            

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Originally posted by SleepyDiary:
@Aries23Degrees Why don’t you have your own Astrology site where you write about it all, both synastry and natal?seriously you should have your own site I would have loved your opinion about what it means having a Water Moon in a Water house or a Air moon in an Earth house and your opinion about the house overlays in synastry. I have been thinking about it for a while now and we need more knowledge and insight into astrology and you are so insightful and can spot things other Astrologers haven’t seen and written about. Please consider it

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Thank you❤. It's something that I have been thinking about for some time tbh.But i get distracted by work.

posted December 29, 2022 07:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Thank you❤. It's something that I have been thinking about for some time tbh.But i get distracted by work.

I do have some people that can assist. Its just a matter of gathering resources together and being more focused on it.🙏🏿

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Your site (if you ever do make it) will be so great i have no doubt about it. If you ever do make it please leave a comment section open for us to leave replies and share our experiences too. You can take one thing at a time and build your site up we will wait for you like some of us already have. I doubt i’m the only one that has secretly been wanting you to make your own site haha.

posted December 29, 2022 01:07 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Wouldn't this also apply if you hit the person's 7th house?

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posted January 01, 2023 02:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

So someone who has their Mars to your Sun, will pursue you. They will get all up in your space because Mars has made the target you. So they will aim their attention in your direction. This no matter how hard they may try to deflect it on their end (consciously). Their body language and mannerisms around you, will make it clear that they want you or looking at you.

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That part about "No matter how hard they may try to deflect it on their end" is so true lol. Me and my ex have a loooot of Mars synastry stuff going on, and both of us have strong Mars natally too. Here are some of the synastry aspects:

- My Mars quincunx her Sun (it's part of a boomerang Yod where my Mercury forms the other base, my Venus is the release point opposite her Sun, and her Sun is the apex)
- My Mars trine her Venus
- My Mars trine her Mars
- My Mars sextile her Jupiter
- My Mars square her Neptune (I have this one natally in an exact aspect so I don't think of it as super significant in synastry)
- My Mars square her Juno
- My Mars trine her Ascendant
- My Mars opposite her Midheaven/conjunct I.C.

For her, she has:
- Her Mars quintile my Sun (0 degree orb- this is the one I find most powerful because quintiles are so magical and she is just so attracted to me as a person)
- Her Mars sextile my Mercury
- Her Mars square my Venus
- Her Mars trine my Mars (which I said already)
- Her Mars opposite my Jupiter
- Her Mars conjunct my Chiron (it falls in my 8th house)
- Her Mars opposite my Part of Fortune
- Her Mars quincunx my Juno
- Her Mars quincunx my Ascendant (which is part of a boomerang Yod lol; my Ascendant and Juno form the base and her Mars is the apex planet, with my Part of Fortune being the release point)

So we have two synastry boomerang Yods, one with my Mars involved and one with her Mars involved. Obviously we're broken up now, but it's because of life stage and circumstance and not because of deeper incompatibility, and we both have no doubt that we will be close again (which, given all of the highly charged sexual aspects of our relationship, is unlikely to mean "just friendship").

We also have a Mars boomerang Yod in our composite chart. Mars in Pisces forms one side of the base, Pallas in Capricorn forms the other side, and Juno in Leo is the apex. Neptune in Aquarius is the release point, opposite Juno. I know that's not seen as a "true Yod" because it involves asteroids, but I'll tell you right now, we can feel its effects.

posted January 01, 2023 03:20 PM            

Editing my most significant relationships in:

- My first huge love (no Mars/Venus/Sun action) my Sun did however trine his Jupiter (7h). he did used to refer to me loving him his "lucky" status as I was then a wish.

- A soulmate I had was "my type" I suppose. His Sun was trine my n. Uranus.

- my last Twin saga, he had a wide orb Mars trine my Sun, yet again - not his type.

- I did find one! His Mars was trine my Sun but this past bf I don't ever recall saying or hinting at me being his "type". I think his Sun being Sage, he was a man who liked "many types" as Sage is the adventurer who likes foreign versions. I was opposite him, he's Korean..

I'm like that random cookie found in a bunch that's not likely to be enjoyed and either given a try and liked it OR completely overlooked. Idk. If we use the Sun/Mars, Venus approach - I don't recognize ever being anyone's type.

posted January 14, 2023 06:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
Sun and Venus are yang and yin, respectively masculine and feminine, therefore imo there is a dynamic, a polarity, a complementarity that Venus and Moon together, being yin and yin, being both feminine, do not have.

Polarity makes for powerful attraction and compatibility.

When you pair masculine and feminine, sparks fly. Masculine femine pairings such as Sun with Venus, Sun with Moon, Mars with Venus, Venus with Pluto, even Saturn with Venus, make for romantic, sexual and emotional attraction and possibilities.

Of course, you can have masculine and masculine together, like Sun and Mars, Mars and Pluto, very attracted to one other, but it often not romantic, it is mostly sexual.

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BINGO! Very well said.

Masculine + Feminine is essential for DEEP attraction. The Yin & Yang intertwine limbs, tongues & souls in an all-consuming TANGO.

posted January 14, 2023 08:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

Mars has a tendency of clarifying the path ahead. It is the erect🍆 for a male. And its hard- pun intended 😛 - to think of anything else or have split energy when at that point. This because of the directness of the Mars effect inspires focus or narrow minded thinking.

So someone who has their Mars to your Sun, will pursue you. They will get all up in your space because Mars has made the target you. So they will aim their attention in your direction. This no matter how hard they may try to deflect it on their end (consciously). Their body language and mannerisms around you, will make it clear that they want you or looking at you.

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This sounds DELICIOUS. 🔥

posted January 14, 2023 01:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I don't know about "type". But i do know that in my case,things tend to get very sexual ,very fast with Mars/Sun contacts. If its the double whammy,it can feel like "lust at first sight ".

I don't even think its looks per se. I just think its pure 'sex appeal '. In that the person's energy tends to exude a sort of presence that inspires me to (for lack of a better word) penetrate them. Or be all up in their face.

Maybe this aspect can also inspire antagonism or enmity? Probably because of Mars being involved? But most times, it will not quantity to indifference.

Mars has a tendency of clarifying the path ahead. It is the erect🍆 for a male. And its hard- pun intended 😛 - to think of anything else or have split energy when at that point. This because of the directness of the Mars effect inspires focus or narrow minded thinking.

So someone who has their Mars to your Sun, will pursue you. They will get all up in your space because Mars has made the target you. So they will aim their attention in your direction. This no matter how hard they may try to deflect it on their end (consciously). Their body language and mannerisms around you, will make it clear that they want you or looking at you.

Venus on the other hand is "like" ime. It doesn't tend to have the same urgency or psychological violence as Mars. We tend to appreciate those with Sun on our Venus. This whether we get to have them or not.

But with Mars, we need to have them. And we take more offense if rebuffed or limited on that end. There is a "i got to have you or no one else will" nature with Mars. Its more intense.

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posted January 14, 2023 03:08 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Not if they have issues with their Mars in their own chart.

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I think that even with this, it can still react but can exacerbate existing isues.

A lady I know talked of how "disgusting" she found another colleague to be. What raised my eyebrows however, was how she couldn't stop going on and on about his "immoral" nature etc.

After many conversations,I learned of the guy's age and birthday.As I expected, he has his Sun exactly square her Sun/Mars combo.

There is attraction there, no doubt. But with the additional square of her Saturn to his Sun, she is criticising him to try to talk herself out of feeling for him