posted January 17, 2023 05:00 PM            

My longest relationship was with a Pisces Sun / Cancer Moon. Seven years together. I haven't been in a committed relationship since we broke up in 2017.

She is naturally gifted with incredible psychic ability of her own.

Having such unspeakable intuition between us, it was a psychic overload to have both her Pisces sun in my 8th and Cancer moon in my 12th.

Her understanding of me was beautiful, our connection was profound. I think if I ever had a sense of what love is, it was with her.

Sometimes the shared wavelengths were quite unsettling for both of us. She so easily got past my defense of individuality; cutting right to the core of my Scorpio sense of self-preservation. She simply knew me and how to get into my mind.

She was often psychically exhausted at constantly absorbing all of the silent signals that I unintentionally emanated.

posted January 18, 2023 09:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Scorpionic_Web:
I'm a fire rising sign, so my water houses are occupied by water signs.

My longest relationship was with a Pisces Sun / Cancer Moon. Seven years together. I haven't been in a committed relationship since we broke up in 2017.

She is naturally gifted with incredible psychic ability of her own.

Having such unspeakable intuition between us, it was a psychic overload to have both her Pisces sun in my 8th and Cancer moon in my 12th.

Her understanding of me was beautiful, our connection was profound. I think if I ever had a sense of what love is, it was with her.

Sometimes the shared wavelengths were quite unsettling for both of us. She so easily got past my defense of individuality; cutting right to the core of my Scorpio sense of self-preservation. She simply knew me and how to get into my mind.

She was often psychically exhausted at constantly absorbing all of the silent signals that I unintentionally emanated.

I haven't been in a relationship with any other Cancer moon women. Maybe it wouldn't be draining with someone who isn't a Pisces sun.

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posted January 18, 2023 01:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Scorpionic_Web:
I'm a fire rising sign, so my water houses are occupied by water signs.

My longest relationship was with a Pisces Sun / Cancer Moon. Seven years together. I haven't been in a committed relationship since we broke up in 2017.

She is naturally gifted with incredible psychic ability of her own.

Having such unspeakable intuition between us, it was a psychic overload to have both her Pisces sun in my 8th and Cancer moon in my 12th.

Her understanding of me was beautiful, our connection was profound. I think if I ever had a sense of what love is, it was with her.

Sometimes the shared wavelengths were quite unsettling for both of us. She so easily got past my defense of individuality; cutting right to the core of my Scorpio sense of self-preservation. She simply knew me and how to get into my mind.

She was often psychically exhausted at constantly absorbing all of the silent signals that I unintentionally emanated.

I haven't been in a relationship with any other Cancer moon women. Maybe it wouldn't be draining with someone who isn't a Pisces sun.

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Wow. Sounds so deep. What is your Moon sign?

I also have fire Asc with all my water planets in water houses and what SleepyDiary says is true in my case.

I don't think I would cope with another water Sun/Moon in a relationship. I know I said I would like another Cancer Moon. But there is also that fear of being "swept away" by so much emotional energy.

posted January 18, 2023 07:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Wow. Sounds so deep. What is your Moon sign?

I also have fire Asc with all my water planets in water houses and what SleepyDiary says is true in my case.

I don't think I would cope with another water Sun/Moon in a relationship. I know I said I would like another Cancer Moon. But there is also that fear of being "swept away" by so much emotional energy.

Moon in Cancer 4th
Venus in Sco 8th
Pluto in Sco 8th
Saturn in Sco 8th

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I'm a Libra Moon.

Yourself being a Cancer Moon and speaking of the difficulties of dating another Cancer Moon, I can say that while I've found a definite comfort and familiarity in other Libra Moons, I've also had a severe lack of objectivity in relating. Too much flux in the undercurrents that can't be dredged up and addressed. The downswings lead to derailment.

Or maybe it is simply that my Libra Moon (Libra the Scales; the only inanimate sign of the zodiac) is conjunct my Saturn and Pluto, thus explaining the frequency with which my emotionality feels out of reach.

posted January 21, 2023 08:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Scorpionic_Web:

I'm a Libra Moon.

I would welcome the opportunity to again date a Cancer Moon, the most emotionally freeflowing placement for the Moon, but I'm worried that this Libra stellium of mine would present some awful challenges for her.

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Hello.

Which House does your Moon reside in? I'm curious of the challenges you feel your Libra Moon would pose for her?

I'm a Cancer Moon. 🌕

posted January 21, 2023 02:27 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Hello.

Which House does your Moon reside in? I'm curious of the challenges you feel your Libra Moon would pose for her?

I'm a Cancer Moon. 🌕

I dated a man whose Libra Moon was conjunct my ASC from the 12H. He was very open with me in certain ways! But he seemed to be emotionally immature in other ways.

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My Libra stellium is in the 3rd house. My Saturn & Pluto & IC are in exact conjunction if you use the Placidus house system (which I do).

I don't want to waste your time with getting too wholistic in my specific chart, but I think I need to include some additional details as to why my Libra Moon in particular may present challenges for Cancer Moon women.

And I should preface this by saying that I may be quite limited in my scope of experience because as I noted above, the best evidence that I have for my concern over Cancer Moons comes from a singular 7-year relationship with a Pisces Sun/Merc/Venus woman, whose stellium fell in my 8th house. It was intense, we had something amazing, and in spite of all of my Scorpio it was ultimately an emotional burnout for this Air Moon.

So...

My 4th house Scorpio Sun/Merc/Venus/Jupiter is hugely beneficial in relating to Cancer Moon women. No question that there would be great connectedness and familiarity and comfort. For as much as people persist in complicating astrology, the Sun/Moon interactions between two individuals is so reliably fundamental as the ultimate indicator of compatibility. Toss in their aspects to the Ascendant and the basis of the relationship becomes pretty clear.

The Moon in many individuals is so deep and subconscious that it can be difficult to comprehend.

However, I believe a typical Cancer Moon woman (barring major afflictions) in a moment of heightened emotionality brings this up to the surface effortlessly and it can be a beautifully tangible experience to witness and be a part of.

Where I see the struggle with my Libra stellium in square to a Cancer Moon is when real interpersonal conflict arises.

As the Cancer Moon woman is so in touch with the expression of her feelings, my Libra Moon in conjunction with Saturn & Pluto tends to double-down on maintaining stability and control and I end up with a firmer grip on rationalizing my impulses rather than letting it all pour out, which damages the emotional meeting-of-the-hearts that a Cancer Moon wants in the most critical moment.

Numerous women have told me that they can't get past my walls and feel that I'm emotionally out of reach.

But there is always a counterpoint in astrology, and with Saturn (ruler of Capricorn, opposite Cancer) and Pluto (modern ruler of my Scorpio stellium), the great offsetting quality of my otherwise difficult Moon/Saturn/Pluto conjunction is that I've found that the women I've dated who are deeply in touch with their emotions have admitted to finding a safe harbor in my sense of calm during times of emotional or life crises.

I want to love and I want it to be reciprocated. I often think I'm not made for it; my troubled Libra stellium is disposited by Venus, which I have in its detriment in Scorpio.

The deep (Moon) partnership (Libra) that I crave may be unattainable. I've become cynical in my self-analysis of how my Moon has been shaped to be too rational (Libra), too detached (Saturn) and buried (Pluto).

A Cancer Moon woman creates a confounding blend for me; a trine to my Scorpio Sun stellium and square to my Libra Moon stellium.

In theory she sounds incredibly attractive, but maybe impossibly so. Of course it applies to all synastry, but whatever other personal placements she has in her chart must be able to relate to the potent challenges of my chart.

posted January 22, 2023 03:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Scorpionic_Web:

My 4th house Scorpio Sun/Merc/Venus/Jupiter is hugely beneficial in relating to Cancer Moon women. No question that there would be great connectedness and familiarity and comfort.

Where I see the struggle with my Libra stellium in square to a Cancer Moon is when real interpersonal conflict arises.

As the Cancer Moon woman is so in touch with the expression of her feelings, my Libra Moon in conjunction with Saturn & Pluto tends to double-down on maintaining stability and control and I end up with a firmer grip on rationalizing my impulses rather than letting it all pour out, which damages the emotional meeting-of-the-hearts that a Cancer Moon wants in the most critical moment.

The great offsetting quality of my otherwise difficult Moon/Saturn/Pluto conjunction is that I've found that the women I've dated who are deeply in touch with their emotions have admitted to finding a safe harbor in my sense of calm during times of emotional or life crises.

I want to love and I want it to be reciprocated. I often think I'm not made for it; my troubled Libra stellium is disposited by Venus, which I have in its detriment in Scorpio.

A Cancer Moon woman creates a confounding blend for me; a trine to my Scorpio Sun stellium and square to my Libra Moon stellium.

In theory she sounds incredibly attractive, but maybe impossibly so. Of course it applies to all synastry, but whatever other personal placements she has in her chart must be able to relate to the potent challenges of my chart.

It gets worse... I'm a Capricorn Mars...

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Thank you for your thoughtful response! 🙂

What you shared about being a "safe harbor" for us sounds about right. I find that very comforting & attractive when a man can be there for me in this way. ❤ I don't expect (nor desire) for him to be just as emotional as I am - we are different. It only becomes a problem when you can't emote AT ALL, you run from deeper intimacy or invalidate my feelings. Is that what your ex felt you were doing?

Pluto being on your Moon is complex. 💯 I do feel that it can indeed make for someone very controlled & cautious. However, Pluto also simultaneously has the craving to "lose itself" in deep connection with a worthy partner. Saturn is possibly holding you back quite a bit though.

As a Libra Moon, it makes perfect sense that you would want reciprocation in love. And that's fair. 👍🏾 Reciprocation is very different than PERFECTION though. Which are you *actually* seeking? BTW - what degree are your Moon & Venus in?

The Libra Moon Man that I dated was a Scorpio ASC and we both had Capricorn Mars. As a Cap Mars - are you not a fan of this placement? Let me know. 👍🏾 And this guy's Moon was also in an Air House just like yours! Good Lord. Lol. No harsh aspects to it though.