posted January 11, 2023 05:33 PM            

I'm sharing mine, these first ones are romantic/semi romantic connections.

Earth
- "J" (Virgo 10) This Virgo moon had to be in the phone or in some way in my world. This was a truly obsessed person. We might have stayed friends but he fiercely angled to be my everything.

- "H" (Virgo 3) similar to the previous Virgo moon, this one had to destroy me while being obsessed over me. Like he was hell bent on my destruction.

"D" (Taurus 8)
"O" (Taurus 11) very attached both ways but this moon pairing and the next one too, unrequited. Both were extremely attached and allowed the air moon to walk away.
"W" (Taurus 4)
This one like the O, except it spanned over time and further distance. His was deeply regretted though 4h his mother did play a role in the air sign decision to move from this decision.

Asterisks are for inappropriate attraction from these two.
* "M1"(Taurus 12) obsessed energy
* "M2" (Taurus 6) obsessed but cloaked in "for well being".
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"J2" (Capricorn 5) note: a volatile rs, he was about my being pinned in but he wanted to explore.
"S" (Capricorn 9) similar to the last one mentioned above, J..
"L" (Capricorn 3)
A fun guy who enjoyed options but he chose an air moon over a fire moon when offered a choice between two options. He may have grown to be more like J and S.

Air
"C1" (Gemini 6)
Very gregarious energy we shared. Talking was paramount, as well as lovers energy. His sun was Sagittarius he wanted to g aze in new greenery due to his sun+moon blending.
"A" (libra2) Very judgemental. Not attached yet couldn't let go. Weirdest connection maybe.
"G"(aquarius 5)
Very communicative, attraction of the minds. Only "C", *A* were relationships. Both were argumentative yet led to physical chemistry. "G" highly attuned yet dissuaded due to paradigm - the aquarius moons together think a lot alike. Like finishing each other's sentences.

Fire
Family, in-law "B" (Aries4) he saw me as a home structure and recognized similar effects between he/himself and myself/his mom. His crush may have been much more than it seems.

And "C" (Aries 5)
Like the Capricorn h5, territorial however from what I'm aware of roving eye was as far as that venture outside the paradigm if the rs went.

Water
"Omd" (scorpio6)
Intense connection. Very fixated on each other but it was love and hate, it was a bitter ending.
"F" (Pisces 3)
A very harmonious connection. This moon was comfortable to be around (absent now, yet we still have communication via telepathy).
My nn connection with him. High priestess energy. His sun was why we couldn't remain romantic, his moon kept him connected with though.

In reference to obsessed energy and sometimes both ways, the Earth moons (Virgo/ Taurus) are very attached to Air moon. -- note: Capricorn, Gemini were those houses. I find in tarot the Gemini/Devil connection might strengthen this effect. As a sage rising, gem is the desc. Devil is intricate too, as it is unavoidable in any chart. This is no shade to Capricorn ppl, I feel for me when either or both unaware, the devil can become involved in the connection.

posted January 11, 2023 07:08 PM            

I think for me i have been interested in men with feminine Moons and i think that comes from having two of my relationship houses in feminine signs and having Sun/Neptune, Mars/Neptune and Mars in my 4th house. I like the more subtle energy of these men.

posted January 12, 2023 02:53 AM            

capricorn moon: there’s always a problem, usually we drift apart but we might get back together. we’re this close 👌🏻 to understand each other but we never do.

posted January 12, 2023 05:48 AM            

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Originally posted by problematique:
i’m a cancer moon and the moons i attract the most are cancer and capricorn (for better or worse).

cancer: pretty easy going, too easy going, it’s like they just repeat or agree with everything i say.

capricorn moon: there’s always a problem, usually we drift apart but we might get back together. we’re this close 👌🏻 to understand each other but we never do.

actually you asked which moon sign i vibe the most, but there isn’t enough data for me to make that conclusion bc there are barely that many examples of moon signs in my life so i can’t make it a rule.
i know one virgo moon and she’s my bestie, but that’s just one example so i can’t really say i vibe with virgo moons bc if i knew 10 of those - who knows.

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This ☝🏿❤

I think with oppositions, its the same all round.There is a back/forth drift between them. They may come mighty close to understanding each other. But never do.

I actually think that to predict significant relationships on your life. Or to follow the pattern in your partnerships, note your Sun/Moon/ opposition. Those energies(or placements affiliated with them) will show up in friends/family/lovers or business colleagues etc.

As Sun in Sag, I often find this back/forth drift with Gem Sun/Moon or Asc. I feel like the "paternal" one in this partnership. I also set boundaries. But more as a teacher than as a stern headmaster.

Gemini has a lot of questions. And I feel I have a lot to say. So it works in that way.

With Ari Asc, there is an understanding with Moon/Sun in Lib. We can never get to the point of being super close enough. But there is a rapport of understanding. Its more a relationship of "*** " for "tat".The emotional
closeness or synchronicity (atleast for me)is felt more with Aries Moon/Sun.

Likewise, with my Moon in Can ,my best friend for years has Asc in Cap. Dad and a couple of other friends have Moon in Cap.

As we are speaking about the Moon, I echo your sentiments. I get on with Cap Moon until we fight. Then there is distance for a long time before we make up again. Its always back/forth.

I have a feeling that my marriage partner(should I ever take the plunge) may have Cap Asc/Moon or Sun. It just seems plausible given the intensity of the attraction between these two polar opposite signs.

posted January 12, 2023 09:15 AM            

I truly adore most Taurus and Capricorn moons I know. If push came to shove I think Taurus moons are my favorite, but I love my caps. My favorite people have been Fire Suns with Earth Moons.

I am a very airy, spontaneous, fun loving person, and I don't have any earth in my chart. I love Taurus and Cap moons because they provide this security, this stability that I lack in myself. I'm not a fan of Earth suns because they are a bit too "stick in the mud" for my liking, but a good Earth moon LIKES to be a dependable person who takes care of their loved ones. It tends to be a really good balance, where I can bring them magic and dreaminess, but they ground me and tether me to this world.

Virgo moons are sweet, and I want to give them a hug. But I want to hug them because I can sense they are NEVER at ease, they are always anxious about something, like they are waiting for the other shoe to drop. Call it my empathetic 12H Pisces moon but I just can't gel with that energy, it overwhelms me and I want to tell them to just take it easy and stop worrying.

So, I much prefer Taurus or Cap moons, since they provide the stability, whereas I feel Virgo moons paradoxically create a feeling of instability.

I'm not a huge fan of water moons, but that's because I'm not hugely comfortable with emotions. My 12H Pisces moon definitely understands feelings, but I much prefer to just move on vs DWELLING on it. Most Cancer and Scorpio moons I know are just way too sensitive for my tastes. They get hurt, I just want to say "sorry get over yourself." That being said I like Pisces moons.

I am also a very big fan of Aquarius moons and Sagittarius moons.

posted January 12, 2023 11:54 AM            

Taurus Moons come up a lot. One best friend was an Aqua Moon. I don't know B's moon, but I know she's a Leo, and K. is a Scorpio.
The Taurus moons come up, but they can also really be a miss, too.

I find it easy to talk to Aries moons at times, because they are just plain easy to talk to. Usually. I'm an Aries Sun. They are as easygoing as I used to be, or they can be, and they will also let you know if there is an issue.

posted January 12, 2023 01:16 PM            

Leo moon here square Taurus mars (10th house), conjunct sun and it’s in the end of the 1st house (a couple degrees away from the second house).

I attract Gemini moons for friends (Gemini in the 11th house). My best friend growing up was a Gemini moon. I love their curiosity and mercurial nature. It gets along well with my Virgo mercury and Gemini psyche. The only thing I don’t favor with Geminis is that I find in my experience that they aren’t as loyal as my Leo side wishes they were.

I also attract a lot of Scorpio moons. My sister is one, and we are very close. I’ve dated one on and off for a long time. I’m also surrounded by them at work. Although there is sometimes a love, hate type of situation going on (probably with the square my Leo) but they are ride or dies! Not sure if my Scorpio 4th house, or mars square moom helps with finding common ground?

posted January 12, 2023 02:44 PM            

However, well into my 30s I saw that I liked the qualities of virtually all the people (women) that I knew with Moon in Libra and veered development of my personality in that direction. My heavily Venusian/Taurean nature appreciates the in-action Venusian qualities and emotional intelligence that Moon-in-Libra people display (women anyway).

My mother, a soul mate from another country, and numerous other people were born with Moon in Libra. So I got to see it up close in various people and various ways. I think it was a kind of Taurus-compatible antidote to the negative and self-suppressive tendencies of my native Moon in Capricorn.

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posted January 12, 2023 03:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:

As we are speaking about the Moon, I echo your sentiments. I get on with Cap Moon until we fight. Then there is distance for a long time before we make up again. Its always back/forth.

I have a feeling that my marriage partner(should I ever take the plunge) may have Cap Asc/Moon or Sun. It just seems plausible given the intensity of the attraction between these two polar opposite signs.

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well yes, opposition is the most intense aspect anyway. i bat heads with cap moons all the time but i could imagine myself with a cap moon rather than a cancer moon relationship wise. it’s just really difficult with an opposition but why do they always find me then, i wonder!

posted January 13, 2023 04:52 PM            

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Originally posted by problematique:
well yes, opposition is the most intense aspect anyway. i bat heads with cap moons all the time but i could imagine myself with a cap moon rather than a cancer moon relationship wise. it’s just really difficult with an opposition but why do they always find me then, i wonder!

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I think a relationship with a Cancer Moon would be epic! Just epic! I don't know,i think it would be quite a tremendous experience. That's why i don't bump into any. I am convinced we'd be too much for each other. 🌋

I think Cap Moon do care. But the care feels very restrictive. Like a disapproving parent watching over you. That's where we start fighting. Don't "Father" me.

The worst is when i have to time and again coax affection from them. They can be so awkward with that. A little funny to see actually. But i understand where it comes from. So i forgive that too.

If you can stand their sometimes very dark moods. You'll be fine. Cancer moon can be moody. But i think Cap Moon's Saturnian swings can certainly darken even the most luminous light from the Moon. Coz they last longer and have a heavier/denser energetic effect.

posted January 15, 2023 11:33 PM            

I do get along with Pisces Moons on a platonic level. I vibe well with Scorpio Moons - just don't have a ton of experience with them overall to give much feedback.

Believe it or not, I also vibe well with Aquarius Moons. Their kooky a$$es are so entertaining! 😂 And they typically open up to me on deep levels & vice versa. Likely because many of them fall into my 4H.

I would imagine that I'd get on well with Leo & Taurus Moons. But I don't know many of them! So the jury is still out on that one for me.

posted January 16, 2023 12:49 AM            

in order:

Cap/Sag moon:
This person made me find myself. They were my first love. I would spend nights crying for them and writing poetry when I was 16. It was a friendship that turned into mutual romance, but they shut me down. I don't know their TOB, could be either sag or cap moon.

Aries moon:
Love/hate at first sight. Loved him deeply. I ended up hurting him and pushing him away. I regret it now. He was very considerate, smart and almost fatherly.

Capricorn moon:
There was so much comfort when I was in his presence. He was very emotionally strong, passionate and I always wanted to reach out and caress his soul. It was a friendship turned into love. I ended up breaking up with him because he was pushing marriage and we were both young.

Leo moon:
By far my longest relationship. A lot of deep emotional and physical connection. Feeling occasionally neglected by them was a challenge. He was sometimes too much in his own world. It was love at first sight for me but not for them. Eventually I was able to get him to date me

Aquarius moon:
Another friendship turned into love. This time he made it turn into romance, while I was happy with it remaining a friendship. He had a very interesting kind of passion. Very unique style. He was not hot and cold despite Aqua getting a bad rap, I found him quite consistent in his behavior. My second longest relationship after the leo moon.

Capricorn moon
Very brief contact (5 months or so). This person was a lot younger than me so I mostly ignored them for some time before learning I am attracted to them. They did not approach me but their eyes eventually drew me in. I left them hanging because I knew that nothing would come out of that relationship. Despite his age he was very mature and in some ways even maturer than me.

Sag moon:
recent crush. we have had a lot of fun so far as friends and I think they know I like them.

posted January 18, 2023 06:00 AM            

Cap moons are my babies
Aqua moons are my equals
Leo moons want to be me so bad
Pisces/aries moons are potential love interests

posted January 18, 2023 07:55 AM            

I am a Cap moon in the 2nd, with aspects from Sun, Mars, Jupiter, Lilith and Eros. Wide square from Pluto.

exhusband- Cancer moon, in my 8th. He was a friend, a companion, I felt comfort and safety with him. Ironically, he lied and cheated the entire(?) 15 years.

next deep love- Sag Moon, in my first. Powerful attraction. Other aspects, but he taught me about desire and true sexual depth. I pined for him for a long time after we ended.

long term relationship- Cap moon, conjunct mine. Total trust and comfort. It ended bcs we were too much alike and there was no fire. He brought out some negative habits in me- like stinginess! . Two cap moons = too practical!

Many of the important women in my life have Gemini moons- totally does not work for me, but it's my 7th house. They probably are trying to teach me to lighten up! lol

I love Scorpio moons, but I don't tend to have deep relationships with them. Been burned by a few, but I love their intensity and depth. It works for me.

I also see a lot of Libra moons in my life. They tend to irritate my need to just "do". I can be impulsive and a little rash and harsh, Libras are teaching me to harmonize and give a little more to others in the situation.

posted January 29, 2023 04:03 AM            

I usually get along great with Air Moons, especially Aquarius Moons. I’m a Libra Rising with Gemini Mercury, so the communication just flows and conversations are always interesting. No romantic interest though, only friendship.

posted January 29, 2023 07:52 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I sometimes wish I were less endowed with depth of feeling. It can be there, you just won’t get to see it.

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