posted February 01, 2023 06:10 AM
Dude has Venus/Moon square and in mutual reception located in the signs of Cancer and Libra respectively.This individual funds it hard to combine the image he has of his wife vs. The image that he has of his sexual partner I.e he isn't able to explore things (perhaps sexual in nature?)with his wife without seeing her as "the Wife".And so he differentiates and compartmentalizes the two.
The latter means that whilst he firmly placed his ideal image of "wife" at home (Moon). He then goes out to find his romantic /sexual escapades partner(Ven) elsewhere. They are two separate people in his mind.
The Moon is the wife. Venus is the mistress. And never the two shall be one (square).
He could also be doing that because he wants to maintain a certain image of himself (Sun-Sat conj). He has strong sexual proclivities (Mars-Jupiter conj Gem). But he is not comfortable owning them (Mars/Jup-Nep opp). So he'd much rather entertain them separately or in secret (Ven contra parallel Neptune).
I find it interesting that Uranus Sco Chiron in Tau. His fear could be the toppling down of his established family (Tau) due to his extra curricular activities of desires (Sco). Or the two getting mixed up. So he does his best to curtail one (Ura Sco) for the other.
I find it deeply ironic though to note that that is exactly what is happening here. The transit of Pluto to his Moon by square exposed "what lies beneath". And in the process, the world now knows about his private life(Moon).
The woman he had an affair with has Uranus on his Moon. She represents the Uranus opposition to his Chiron in Taurus. The ex-wife actually has Moon conjunct his Chiron- Tau. The poetry 🤷🏿♂️
She has Sun/Moon midpoint on Neptune. She is a dreamer and won't like being tied down or boxed into anything. Very mysterious person on one hand. Quite unreliable on the other.
He has Jupiter (which is conj Mars natally) on his Sun/Moon midpoint. He is a little more aggressive than she is. But he doesn't believe in "possessing" anyone either.A very sexual individual.
His Venus/Nep contra parallel probably fell for her because of her Neptune essence. He likes mysterious/hard to decipher partners.
Interestingly his ex-wife has Sun/Moon midpoint in Leo. Uranus/Mars are widely square and conj that point respectively. This suggests that she was hard to pin down too. And was the type of person to function independent of him.