posted May 19, 2023 01:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
I believe. I have a harder time paying attention to the moon stuff. But that November eclipse was about 6th months ago. I have been really feeling the good feeling now of being on the other side of divorce. I left him on the November eclipse.

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So November Eclipse triggered you to leave- looks like it happened right away. There were 2 others eclipses after it already. So 2 other eclipses also could influence you already.

When I remember Astro/ moon events did something for me, it was also around the time of events.

I noticed their influence could be good, or bad, or the middle (last might be the Libra thing lol)

posted May 19, 2023 07:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Librapurr:
So November Eclipse triggered you to leave- looks like it happened right away. There were 2 others eclipses after it already. So 2 other eclipses also could influence you already.

When I remember Astro/ moon events did something for me, it was also around the time of events.

I noticed their influence could be good, or bad, or the middle (last might be the Libra thing lol)

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It was getting harder to cope with my marriage the more time went on. I know over the summer I talked about it a lot here.

I knew I either needed to have an affair or just divorce him. I was sick of trying. I started joining his therapy sessions in summer, and it only made me feel worse.

posted May 20, 2023 08:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
It was getting harder to cope with my marriage the more time went on. I know over the summer I talked about it a lot here.

I knew I either needed to have an affair or just divorce him. I was sick of trying. I started joining his therapy sessions in summer, and it only made me feel worse.

My one friend told me I needed to get away for a bit. But it took me a few days to realize I do need to divorce him. I executed a plan. The weekend went by and then I started to pack up my bags on Monday night, left a note and drove back to my home state.

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posted September 29, 2023 03:30 AM            

the first solar eclipse April 20 was conjunct B.L.’s Ashwini Venus by 2°02’ We met 2 months later (June 26)

the upcoming Chitra SE doesnt conjunct anything in my chart

but the April 8 2024 Revati SE will conjunct my Venus by 6°15’.

posted October 02, 2023 09:45 PM            

He also had a bad accident, falling, and bashing his head. Blood shooting out of his head. He continued to work, after going to the hospital, worked the next day, and then slept all of Friday night, and took two long naps on the Saturday.

A week ago, he had another accident like that, only it was the left side of his head and face, and he only bled a little bit, but his face looks just as awful. It actually looks weird - it was like the swollen, black gucky eye, drained down his face, and into the left side of his chin. The full moon was Friday, but it was conjunct his Mars/Mercury in Aries. I'm stressed. My cat is also sicker, and needs to see the vet.

posted October 04, 2023 03:07 AM            

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Originally posted by vansio:
the April 8 2024 Revati SE will conjunct my Venus by 6°15’.

six months one week before this date is approximately Oct 1-8 2023

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Venus rules my 5/12 House. on the other hand, i’m flying overseas today

posted October 14, 2023 02:26 AM            

Solar Eclipse will sextile exact my antivertex and sextile my venus conjunct mars all in Leo.

Solar Eclipse will conjunct Scott's DC angle in Libra and conjunct widely his sun conjunct pluto in libra at 29 degrees.

The lunar eclipse will conjunct exact my Juno in Taurus in the 5th.

VENUS retrograde was hard on us and challenged a lot our relationship but we also ended up moving in together but this venus retrograde nearly made our relationship fall apart but something has shifted this week as we approach this solar eclipse...He relapsed during venus retrograde and now while this solar eclipse is happening on his DC he is getting clean and we are no longer fighting stuck in this weird loop I did not understand but I think it had to do with his addiction and him relapsing.

I set hard cord boundaries this week and made it clear he needs to get clean or I will break lease (I cant be an enabler and this is a serious addiction so I need to set strong boundaries, not okay with him using if we are living together at all) and October 11th the day I got my tattoo he started to detox.

He has pluto square pluto but this will go on for all of 2024 for him and for me it ends at the end of this year that transit. I feel the tattoo I got is very pluto square pluto, phoenix rising from the ashes flying towards the sun upwards, it came out great and is giving me strength to move forward, put myself first while I support him without enabling him and while setting important boundaries and limits of what I can work and not work with..If you are not able to set boundaries with something is an addiction. I don't have substance abuse issues thank god but my addiction is to rescuing others and getting sucked into the drama triangle so the key is me setting boundaries, if I can set boundaries and put myself first and just encourage and support while protecting myself and exercising good self care and self love then they don't have power over me and I have power over myself and am in control. I am modeling something positive and not getting sucked into their drama triangle and playing their game, having strong boundaries and not giving your power away is how you do the empowerment dynamic which is the antidote of the drama triangle and how you not fall into the drama triangle.

My pluto square pluto journey is not about recovering from substance abuse like it is for him. My pluto square pluto journey is about learning to own my power and not give it away, its about learning to always do what is best for me and put myself first bc that is also what is best for everyone, things go south when you don't do that. Your sense of direction should come from within, I will go to buddhist temple and you are welcome to join me and if not I will go by myself and enjoy myself and when the right times comes I will move back to FL if it feels right and you can come with me if it feels right to you and if it does not we can part ways for now. I am responsible for my life, its direction and keeping that sense of wonder alive. May we not hold each other back and be able to part ways if that is what is best for our growth and our souls at some point bc soulmates help you move forward, they don't hold you back. If your soul is telling you to move to Africa then you should do it and I support you and if we are meant to be we will find our way back to each other or just stay good friends and I will visit you. When you love yourself and you own your power you don't need someone to feel complete but you are grateful to share this journey with them if they feel inspired too by where you are heading and going. Weirdly this solar eclipse in libra is about self love and putting yourself first and how that is the birth place for collaboration and a healthy relationship; two free individuals who walk side by side and support each other without possessing each other.

I think this solar eclipse in libra on his DC and him having pluto square pluto until mid-December 2024 will mark a turning point with his addiction and it will be the beginning of sober living and the end of self destructive coping reactions and since the solar eclipse is falling on his DC I feel I will be a part of his support system in this process of recovery and transformation. I feel he needs to conquer this now in the coming year, its now or never and I will not be doing drama triangle dynamics with him bc I am letting go of my addiction to rescue and put others first; I will put myself first, but be supportive and encouraging and belief in him while I set strong boundaries and model self love and healthy coping.

Tomorrow I am going to a Buddhist temple and he will come with me and we will sit in solitude and journal. I will journal about my intentions for this coming year which is about putting myself first and doing what makes me happy, not over thinking things I want to and just taking action and doing them, practicing courage in a way that is life affirming and doing things that nourish my spirit.

I feel a very strong commitment to MYSELF, I feel this week has been a rebirth for me were I have developed a deeper connection and bond with myself. I like this libra solar eclipse, its strange as it seems to be helping my relationship but is helping my relationship bc I am putting myself first, loving myself first and because I feel a deeper and stronger commitment to myself and nourishing myself and giving myself what I need to be happy without depending on others to get my needs met or putting my desires/needs on hold for others bc I am putting them first. My relationship seems to be improving suddenly bc I have shifted the focus to myself and am making me a priority and I am not seeking for my needs to be met through him. I don't care if we end up together or not, I just want him to take care of himself and if he chooses to join me as I navigate my journey and we happen to be going in the same direction cool but if at some point we divert paths and he cannot join me and were I am heading then cool too, I enjoyed the time we shared and am glad I was able to help him in his recovery journey

posted October 14, 2023 03:43 AM            

I was puzzled by the focus on commitment to self that I feel by this solar eclipse since its in LIBRA but the solar eclipse in libra is conjuncting the southnode so its balancing out for me how I over-focus on relationships and others needs and it help me develop more intimacy with myself and appreciation for myself and increase a commitment to myself bc that is how that axis needed to be balanced out for me! Wild..!!!

Interesting how I got my first tattoo this week and that was symbolic of owning my space, my power, my body and of developing a deeper commitment to myself bc when you get a tattoo its about you and you choosing not to care about society and what others think and is something very intimate about yourself, an expression of you that is permanently placed in your body.

Super interesting..
I have to say I love transits that highlight ARIES energy, I always feel super empowered

"Eclipses are known, if nothing else, for bringing about big change, and often unexpected at that. "Now this new moon opens up a portal for two weeks until the lunar eclipse on the following full moon in Taurus at the end of October, so this two week portal is creating space for unexpected changes that are sparked by destiny," Quinn tells mindbodygreen.

And speaking of destiny, Quinn also adds that the North and South nodes are shifting into the Aries-Libra axis. "The north node is where we're headed and the south node is what we're leaving behind, so our North node will be in Aries, and our South node will be in Libra," she says.

Now thinking specifically about this new moon, which is in Libra, Quinn notes that it will likely impact our relationships (or even contracts and legal matters, which Libra also rules over). "Our relationship dynamics are going to be on a highlight reel and we're going to be letting go of something in order to allow for something else to come in—and the Aries North node is going to encourage us to go on a new journey of self discovery, even if we don't know or understand the full extent of it yet," she says.

Two other notable planetary happenings during this new moon solar eclipse include: Mars recently moving into Scorpio on October 12, as well as Venus in Virgo squaring the new moon in Libra. Mars, Quinn explains, could help us ramp up the motivation to make some heavy shifts in our lives, particularly in matters of the home, while the Venus-moon square may force us to revisit any relationship baggage that came up during the recent Venus retrograde."

^^https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/astrology-behind-this-weekends-new-moon-solar-eclipse

I will say that the SE in libra conjunct southnode has made it clear to me that all the issues we were having during venus retrograde were largely due to him relapsing and I now have a lot of clarity around how much this addiction impacts our relationship and how he interprets dynamics or conflicts we have. He subconsciously over focuses on certain issues or amps them up in order to have an excuse to feel bad and use or the substance impacts how he interprets things etc. He needs to be sober for our relationship to be healthy, our ups and downs are related to his issues with addiction and relapsing cycles. This SE is highlighting the need to set boundaries with this relationship and with him even if I choose to stay and support him which I will do if he is fully committed to taking his recovery seriously but now I have certain emotional boundaries and my expectations have change. I am with him and my heart is open but there has been a shift but in a good way that benefits me, him and the relationship; like I said this deeper commitment to myself is benefiting him and the relationship. This balance between collaboration and providing support in a way that is mutually beneficial and loving myself first which allows me to love him more in the way he needs anyways.

This SE in libra is conjuncting widely my natal pluto in libra at 28 degrees which is squaring transit pluto till the end of the year. SE in libra is also sextile my venus conjunct mars and I had a venus return this month.

posted October 14, 2023 04:22 AM            

I’m afraid of something happening to my dad.

I almost contacted someone, wanting to talk. Really talk. Actually, two people. But with one, I don’t have the trust anymore. I was just reading about the eclipse and having those uncomfortable conversations. Potentially hurtful. But you need trust for that. It won’t fix anything, without trust.

posted October 14, 2023 04:57 AM            

http://www.facebook.com/LuaAstrology/posts/pfbid02PHC4HE5csWPNG9d8gkEk1AB2gxVRH65UR7tZTt9mxFPG9ys4KVXqTMFLx21q7emil

posted October 14, 2023 05:22 AM            

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http://www.facebook.com/rubyslipperastrology/posts/ pfbid02huwAWpwL26s9q5LdwrbSGqadX8wLNVXqTbaWM8G9nxf8hm8yitEtstEj1o7zRmhdl

http://www.facebook.com/LuaAstrology/posts/pfbid02PHC4HE5cs WPNG9d8gkEk1AB2gxVRH65UR7tZTt9mxFPG9ys4KVXqTMFLx21q7emil

http://www.facebook.com/LibraSeekingBalance/posts/pf bid02g94MuuydVYkFUCgXRgQXW8zj1NG57YKVR6MuhiQpzPfFA6zJmcnJ4zYt5rYSqSQPl

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ohh lord yes the SE is inconjunct/quincunx URANUS!!!!!!!!! OH GOD and it completes a YOD with my natal moon in pisces at 21 degrees (finger of god).

Honestly I have been put through the ringer this summer like I don't know what else can happen at this point, it better be good, I need to rest for a while and relax.

"Chiron is in Mars-ruled Aries, as is the North Node (path forward). They are not conjunct but the Mars message is clear - forward means taking action and being courageous."

^^I did a journal entry this week about pain and how is the birthplace to courage and came to realization that I need to stop talking myself out of doing things and just do them so I follow through with the tattoo and will follow through with mexico trip and wrote down all this other things I just want to do and take action and not over think on. It was a very empowering journal entry and stems from grief/pain and using that pain to move forward bc what do you have lose, when you are in pain you don't feel you have much to lose and you can use that to give yourself courage to live life to the fullest and move forward, get out of your head and just be and take action, just do it bc what do you have to lose the alternative is stagnation or self destruction. Pain leads to stagnation, self destruction or creation; you push forward and create and creating takes courage so pain is the birthplace of courage and action.

great article..like her focus on action/courage and finding balance by doing what is fair for you and them, can relate to both.

posted October 14, 2023 04:23 PM            

OMG my Saturn 24 in Capricorn h9 cannot get a break.