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posted April 27, 2023 04:13 PM            

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i'm really attracted to older guys and looking at my chart that makes sense ..but for some reason i allways attract younger guys and end up in relationships with them...can u guy tell me why
the one older guy i dated was the biggest baby of them all ..the younger guys are always 'mature for their age'

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posted April 27, 2023 06:14 PM            

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. Edit. Read this wrong.

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posted April 28, 2023 01:47 AM            

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posted May 03, 2023 08:27 AM            

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posted May 06, 2023 12:18 PM            

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There could be a variety of reasons like for instance, your 7th house Saturn could be weak, challenged by other natal planets or by slow moving transit planets. I don't know that without looking at your chart, one can tell exactly why you find yourself with younger guys instead of older guys while having Saturn in 7th...

That does not mean if you post your chart, I will be looking at it to answer you. I am just saying that it is difficult to answer accuratly any question relating to a chart that disproves traditional astrology without looking at that chart.

ETA: Ok I see you just added your chart... Or maybe my computer didn't show it when I first checked your post.

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posted May 06, 2023 12:24 PM            

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I see your Saturn is entering your 7th, not exactly in your 7th yet, so its influence are felt in both your 6th and your 7th. And in addition to that, Saturn would be weakened in a Jupiterian sign house.

However more importantly, you also have firmly in your 7th, the planets URANUS and NEPTUNE. Uranus alone would make you in relationship with people who are different from what you would be expected to be and throws an unpredictable curve to your relationships. Here is your answer staring at you in the face.

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posted May 07, 2023 11:18 AM            

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It doesn't have to be an older guy. It could be someone your age but have Saturn proeminent in their chart like conjunct personal planets, excluding Mercury, which is a bit neutral, unless it is the ruler of the ASC, still it's not like being conjunct Sun,Moon,Venus,Mars.

Anyone who has Saturn in the 7th marries someone that has Saturn in the ASC or conjunct/opposite personal planets.

Sometimes this is mixed with being older, but this happens more with Cancer ASC than with other ASCs.

Saturn in the 7th makes someone to be turned off to iresponsibility or reckless behaviour. I got turned off so many times when I saw these character traits in people. So, proably the guy that was older was not saturnian at all, and the guys that you met that were younger have some more Saturn aspects in the chart. And it's usually the aspects, not Capricorn or Aquarius being present as signs. For example, he could be an Aries, but have Saturn conjunct Sun.

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