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Topic: Why do I get along w Aquarius so well?
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Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3775 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted May 04, 2023 09:38 AM
I wonder which is the reason why I get along with Sun Aquarius people so well.. and our friendships have lasted for decades, like really really good friendships. The people I can think of included my childhood bestie, an ex-colleague of mine (there's a Capricorn, a Gemini, a Taurus etc in the group but I click best w the Aqua gal who's 12yrs my senior), this guy who used to like me but I didn't wanna pursue a relationship w him due to long distance so we ended up becoming really good friends who've kept in touch all these years.. I've nothing in Aquarius except sun/moon midpoint at 28deg. Jupiter and Chiron in 11H trine my 7H Moon. My Uranus is in 5H opposite Sun. https://imgur.com/a/HyKI425 IP: Logged |
MonteCristo Knowflake Posts: 503 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 04, 2023 09:43 AM
At first glance, most Aquarius placements would make trines to your Venus and Pluto, and sextile to your moon. That could be why.IP: Logged |
ithinkimightbewrong Knowflake Posts: 433 From: Registered: Nov 2018
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posted May 04, 2023 10:42 AM
what do you like about these aquariuses..is it that they're weird and different or something else? they might have a common feature that isn't aquarius...for example they might all have a capricorn or pisces placemnt (common for aquas) IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3775 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted May 04, 2023 02:01 PM
quote: Originally posted by MonteCristo: At first glance, most Aquarius placements would make trines to your Venus and Pluto, and sextile to your moon. That could be why.
It’s true… but why not Sag, Gemini, Libra? Why with Aquarius the relating is always so comfy? IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3775 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted May 04, 2023 02:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by ithinkimightbewrong: what do you like about these aquariuses..is it that they're weird and different or something else? they might have a common feature that isn't aquarius...for example they might all have a capricorn or pisces placemnt (common for aquas)
I can easily relate to them… they’re open minded but with strong principles which I really admire. They leave me alone when I need to be alone without getting offended. They don’t care about petty things. They don’t hold grudges and we have lotsa laughs together. They’re honest without being rude…like I don’t get mad when they criticise me. Ya, they all have some Pisces/Capricorn placements but I don’t necessarily get along with people with these 2 sun signs though. IP: Logged |
ithinkimightbewrong Knowflake Posts: 433 From: Registered: Nov 2018
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posted May 04, 2023 06:43 PM
i don't knowbut i wonder if chiron in 11th house has anything to do with it? IP: Logged |
ithinkimightbewrong Knowflake Posts: 433 From: Registered: Nov 2018
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posted May 04, 2023 07:33 PM
ooor...if we look at your 7th house it's ruled by saggitarius so the saggitarius house is 9th house (aquarius)? although i have this and i don't really have hte best experience with them so... IP: Logged |
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 1314 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted May 04, 2023 10:19 PM
Maybe your Sagittarius Moon?My husband is a Sagittarius Moon, and I am an Aquarius sun. He also has nothing Aquarius in his chart. Like everyone else, his Sagittarius Moon is needed to be fulfilled emotionally. It doesn't matter that he has cancer or taurus in his chart, his Sagittarius Moon is quite prominent energy in our relationship as he needs time alone even at home he needs to be on his own with minimal questioning of his behavior. He likes FUN and EASY environment/relationship (a minimal focusing on small detail of what to do in life -like living with strict rules and limitations-, and a minimal focusing into relationship only -like only the two of you or the family only, not caring about the outside world-). Before, I doubted him that he could handle my Aquarius side (the dose of detachment and independence) since he has cancer and taurus, but after marriage, he needs MORE MORE time alone than me, he doesn't even suitable for a family man label (it's even me who is more focus on family), but it's never been a problem in our marriage. I think I know why he kept me and what he meant finding his comfort. It doesn't mean our relationship easy since first (a lot of misunderstanding and hard times), but later within times, I think my husband realize who can blend well with his Sagittarius Moon and can tolerate more with his Moon's needs. I think that's what most people needs to be happy emotionally and finds great comfort within a relationship/relations with other human being: a fulfilled moon. Sextile and trine help this energy. IP: Logged |
PlutoWasHere Knowflake Posts: 863 From: The Nether World Registered: Mar 2021
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posted May 05, 2023 02:00 AM
I’m a Libra Rising and I have a great connection with people that have Air in their chart, especially Air Moons. Aquarius is in my 5th house and Gemini in my 9th house. I have my Virgo Moon in 11th House and my Venus opposite Uranus as well. You’re a Gemini Rising with Gemini Venus and Sagittarius Moon. That definitely supports connecting with other Air signs. But why mostly Aquarius and not Libra? Maybe your drawn to their Saturnian qualities? Your Jupiter (7th house ruler) opposite Pluto is squared by Saturn. This planet is the apex of a Cardinal t-square and Jupiter is in the 11th house of friendship and Pluto in the 5th house of fun. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3775 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted May 05, 2023 02:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by ithinkimightbewrong: i don't knowbut i wonder if chiron in 11th house has anything to do with it?
I’m not sure either…. Maybe Aquarius is more accepting of my personality because I can be quite different depending on the circumstances and moods. I’m not always consistent in how I present myself. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3775 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted May 05, 2023 02:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by hearttreasure: Maybe your Sagittarius Moon?
Actually I find Aquarius to be very grounded once they’re married and I think this is the fixed sign in them. And they always have a future plan… plan A, B, C… never lost of direction. Among all air signs, I find Aquarius the most structured too, and that’s again I think the fixed in them. Sagittarius Moons are never family men/women in the traditional sense.😅 We’re just forced into the role. But that’s not to say we don’t value our families, just that we really do well with a partner who give us freedom and a lot of room to be ourselves. I think this is where Aquarius do well… you guys are independent and don’t give emotional blackmail. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3775 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted May 05, 2023 02:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoWasHere: I’m a Libra Rising and I have a great connection with people that have Air in their chart, especially Air Moons. Aquarius is in my 5th house and Gemini in my 9th house. I have my Virgo Moon in 11th House and my Venus opposite Uranus as well. You’re a Gemini Rising with Gemini Venus and Sagittarius Moon. That definitely supports connecting with other Air signs. But why mostly Aquarius and not Libra? Maybe your drawn to their Saturnian qualities? Your Jupiter (7th house ruler) opposite Pluto is squared by Saturn. This planet is the apex of a Cardinal t-square and Jupiter is in the 11th house of friendship and Pluto in the 5th house of fun.
Thanks for the perspective! I didn’t think of that t-square... can you explain a little bit more of it? I’m ok with Libras too. I’ve a couple of close friends with Libra Sun/Moon… the only thing I dislike about them is they’re too much of a people pleaser, like it’s painful to watch at times, haha. IP: Logged |
PlutoWasHere Knowflake Posts: 863 From: The Nether World Registered: Mar 2021
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posted May 05, 2023 03:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by Hikaru29: Thanks for the perspective! I didn’t think of that t-square... can you explain a little bit more of it? I’m ok with Libras too. I’ve a couple of close friends with Libra Sun/Moon… the only thing I dislike about them is they’re too much of a people pleaser, like it’s painful to watch at times, haha.
Saturn is in the second house of values, so that could indicate that you value Saturnian qualities like strong principles, work ethic and loyalty. Your Saturn offers alleviation to the stress between Jupiter in H11 (friendship or an idealistic connection as a strong need within relationships) and Pluto in H5 (controlled self expression or intense transformational romantic connections?). Looks like friction between friendship and intensity. A need to keep things friendly, intellectual and pleasantly philosophical, versus the need to get to the bottom of things and dig up buried skeletons. I can see how Saturn, the karmic teacher, would keep it together. Aquarius, a Saturn ruled Air sign, doesn’t shy away from a bit of confrontation as long as it serves a higher ideal. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3775 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted May 06, 2023 06:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by PlutoWasHere: Saturn is in the second house of values, so that could indicate that you value Saturnian qualities like strong principles, work ethic and loyalty. Your Saturn offers alleviation to the stress between Jupiter in H11 (friendship or an idealistic connection as a strong need within relationships) and Pluto in H5 (controlled self expression or intense transformational romantic connections?). Looks like friction between friendship and intensity. A need to keep things friendly, intellectual and pleasantly philosophical, versus the need to get to the bottom of things and dig up buried skeletons. I can see how Saturn, the karmic teacher, would keep it together. Aquarius, a Saturn ruled Air sign, doesn’t shy away from a bit of confrontation as long as it serves a higher ideal.
Probably explains why my current and ex both have Venus conjunct Saturn in Natal. Thanks for your explanation… I definitely see myself in this. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 2839 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted May 06, 2023 04:50 PM
Probably because you know how to be detached yet understanding. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 171939 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 14, 2023 08:58 PM
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