posted May 07, 2023 02:42 AM            

Got a new higher paying job in later 2022 but in Feb, get fired from said job due to the economy. Luckily I had a lot saved up and started to enjoy my life again but no, it's like so many obstacles came in the way. For one, neighbor's Pitbull a couple of months ago jumps on me out of nowhere and I freak out. Neighbor proceeds to have a meltdown by shouting at me and saying I am a racist for being scared because if it was a Golden Retriever, I would not be scared...WTF.

Then I decide no more being a shut in and decide to get out of my shell again back in late April. Go to a bar with an old friend but it is so freaking loud, I wore my ear plugs to the bar because of how loud it was. I had to project my voice and scream at my friend but at some point, feel a very funny feeling in my throat like I was catching a cold or something.

Now for 2 weeks, I have had a cough that will not go away and an on and off running nose.

I went to the club with an old friend a week ago and it was not a bad time overall. Then when we are waiting for our Uber, a random guy comes up to my friend and says "great shirt dude, your friend's (mines) is ugly though". Like WTF, I know the guy was drunk but like out of nowhere to target me? Freaking crazy.

I just feel like this year, life has thrown some weird sh-t test at me. I feel like it is trying to break me mentally and emotionally. I feel like it is trying to beat me in so many ways. It's like the world is against me and trying to break me down as much as it can.

I make an effort to make my life better and I get hit with more crap such as me going out to a bar with a friend and BOOM, persistent cough pops up.

When can I live my life again?

When will life become livable for me again?

posted May 07, 2023 03:32 AM            

From an astrological point of view, fixed signs are still having a challenging time in 2023. With Pluto moving into Aquarius, Uranus still in Taurus and the nodes as well, there are plenty of karmic issues to deal with. But think of it as the opportunity the squeeze out a giant pimple. Painful? Yes! But it will be for the better. You’ll be so much lighter afterwards.

Virgo Moons are prone to anxiety. Their nervous system is sensitive. Become your own sanctuary and get yourself a healthy routine. Your Saturn in 6th house needs this as well. Stay away from cafeïne, nicotine and alcohol. I always find camomile a very helpful herb when it comes to health. It’s anti-inflammatory. You can probably get camomile tea in every kind of health store. Fennel tea is something that is known to be calming and I really like the taste of it. So I would recommend that one as well.

posted May 07, 2023 06:48 AM            

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Originally posted by ithinkimightbewrong:
from what i can see in your chart
saturn is transisting your 7th house ..saturn will be there till about 2025

pluto is also transiting your 6th house of health (and u have natal saturn there) and pluto will be there 2043

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posted May 11, 2023 02:21 AM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
@plutonianmenace, it looks to me like your dealing with a lot of stress that triggers your nervous system and causes anxiety. I’m not a medical professional so I am not qualified, but I do think it’s a good idea you talk to someone who is or at least a very good friend that might help relief some of your stress. Maybe there are some helpful tips on the web as well: https://adaa.org/tips

From an astrological point of view, fixed signs are still having a challenging time in 2023. With Pluto moving into Aquarius, Uranus still in Taurus and the nodes as well, there are plenty of karmic issues to deal with. But think of it as the opportunity the squeeze out a giant pimple. Painful? Yes! But it will be for the better. You’ll be so much lighter afterwards.

Virgo Moons are prone to anxiety. Their nervous system is sensitive. Become your own sanctuary and get yourself a healthy routine. Your Saturn in 6th house needs this as well. Stay away from cafeïne, nicotine and alcohol. I always find camomile a very helpful herb when it comes to health. It’s anti-inflammatory. You can probably get camomile tea in every kind of health store. Fennel tea is something that is known to be calming and I really like the taste of it. So I would recommend that one as well.

https://www.eatthis.com/best-tea-anxiety/

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posted May 11, 2023 03:21 AM            

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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
WTF so Saturn leaves Aqua for one and now Pluto enters it, are our lives screwed for decades to come at this rate?

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There are always going to be harsh planets transiting somewhere in our chart. I think it helps that the nodes are moving away from the Taurus-Scorpio axis. But having a fixed sign stellium and heavy Pluto influence in our birth chart… yeah, I don’t think Pluto in Aquarius is going to be a walk in the park. It moves really slowly though, so you’ll probably start experiencing the tight orbs to personal planets starting from 2028. I think the most challenging will be around May/June 2032 when Pluto is almost exactly conjunct your Saturn and then goes retrograde on 16 May. But this could also be a time of tremendous growth and transformation.

posted May 11, 2023 02:40 PM            

And the transit of Saturn squaring your natal Mars has been added to it recently. Trust me, I'm going through that one as well, but it need not ruin your outlook. It is a chance to slow down the outward direction of your energies, calm down, make adjustments in expectations, and end efforts or methods that have you banging your head against a wall. It can be frustrating, but not if you get the what/why of it.

This transit brings out any underlying self-doubt, issues of self-worth, feelings of unworthiness, 'poor me', etc. It distorts emotional perspective by activating a degree of self-punishing feelings that may've been kept subconscious prior, but in the projective dynamic of the opposition are now blamed on circumstances via others.

Things are not as they appear (or feel) during the hard transits of Neptune — especially to natal Sun/Moon/Asc/MC.

I think you may benefit from wearing Blue Sapphire. It is a traditional Saturn gem and works to harmonize with the best side of Neptune as well. Sapphire is the wisdom stone that calms and focuses the mind and allows it to be more receptive to the spiritual truth at work in your life. It helps overcome confusion, depression, and frustration. It needs to be worn touching the skin. A bracelet or necklace works well.

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posted May 12, 2023 02:10 PM            

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Originally posted by ithinkimightbewrong:
transiting pluto is also hitting all your leo stuff

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No, not yet. 9.5° is not a functioning transit orb. However, Pluto has moved into trine to his natal Mars, which is a strengthening transit (so long as it is within 5.5° applying or a few degrees separating).

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posted May 12, 2023 02:39 PM            

Pluto (now 22.5° south declination) has been parallel your natal Uranus (23° S) for some time. That is a personal revolution transit that generally lasts for at least a few years. It involves opportunities to make major changes in your life, seemingly at inopportune times, but which require a bit of new perspective and opening up new freedoms, new reach for it to feel positive. Otherwise, it tends to act with a lot of momentum in furthering your attitudes about society and what it does for you. Best to clear out negative expectations or this transit will tend to amplify/magnify them.

Also in declination, Uranus (17N11) has moved into parallel with your natal Sun (17N44). This is a transit much more helpful in achieving the potentials mentioned in the Pluto-Uranus transit. With this one, there is still elements of discontent with unpredictable or 'inopportune' opportunities in which your decisions made need to be made based on strong resolution to improve your life — and how you are expressing yourself in it — towards greater freedom. This is a transit of liberation to some extent, but it may require honest assessment of what is holding you back (without assigning blame).

Significant outer planet transits like these from Neptune, Uranus, and Pluto can have long-lasting effects for good or bad, just depending on the beliefs and perspective you take on and enact during them. When people expect more of the same or go on like they are not the core cause and effect in their lives, the outer planets don't seem to be helpful or positive at all. They are there for more transcendent soul development, reaching further into your consciousness power.

Uranus: higher mind, connection to the collective, innovation.

Neptune: higher love, mystic connection, creativity.

Pluto: deeper resolve, transformation, and elimination of what is the 'waste' in your life; correlates to Shiva, the destroyer, at least in the initial phases of its transits before the new and better thing replaces the old.

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posted May 13, 2023 01:36 AM            

I also have 2 t-squares in my chart. I had a very tough couple of years when tr Pluto and Saturn hit them one after another, and tr Saturn is gonna hit my Mars-Moon-Venus t-square again this year. 😒 Went through major changes in my career, went through very tough relationship period, experienced back-stabbings from close friends, had very bad hormonal acne breakout, had a cough that lasted a year…. It was really bad for me in a nutshell. Felt very lost at one point and tbh I have still not totally shed the remnants.

posted May 23, 2023 04:47 AM            

So a little over a week of that cough passing, my life somewhat picks back up but not in the way I wanted. When I came to my current city, I joined a group for guys trying to get better with dating women and attracting them into their lives. I was hanging out with these guys before my health and life went to crap back in the latter half of 2022.

Back then, I knew a lot of these guys were broken and there was a reason they were struggling with women. Some would actually run after women across a street to talk to them and it was so creepy. However, I denied it because they were the only thing I had close to friends in my new city. Then when I get back into hanging out with them, I realize after a couple weeks of socializing how toxic and useless they were to my life and well-being.

Went out with one as a friend during the day to hang out at a park and he just complained and complained and complained about his life situation with women. It all kind of wore on me and I felt drained talking to the guy. He was also completely oblivious to public situations and actually bumped into a homeless drug addict that started cursing at us.

Then come to find that to burn off an exhausting weekend, I have some drinks and wings last night at home. I wake up today with a sore throat that quickly progressed into a cold after being sick a few weeks ago too.