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Topic: Is it just me or are Sag moon/sun/AC people the most annoying?
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girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 2840 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted May 08, 2023 09:25 AM
I love Sags at the same time I find them annoying. But heck, the world would definitely be incomplete without their vast minds and their sarcasm lol. It is often too much for me to handle a person with Sag moon, sun or AC. I would rank Sag mars, merc and jupiter as the next annoying ones lol. I have one as a family member (my sister a sag sun), so I am bound to love them, but I will for sure be careful to steer clear of getting in a relationship with one of them. Like always, I think any sign presents its energy in this order of strength: moon>AC>sun IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 2171 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted May 08, 2023 10:55 AM
What do you mean by annoying? I know somebody who cannot stand loud people and who don’t behave appropriately (like eating loud, don’t care about people around ). It sounded like Saggy type was implied there. I find them funny and entertaining before I see they accept only their own weird behavior, but not that accepting to the others.
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hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 1314 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted May 08, 2023 02:40 PM
It depends on how they were raised, early childhood environment, especially how their parents/families communicate with each other and what kind of life values they get growing up.I have Sagittarius ASC and Mars. My husband has Sagittarius Moon. After I got to know him, looked into his natal chart and found his moon is in the same sign as my ASC and Mars, I thought (since I really like the positive side of Sagittarius) his Sagittarius energy would be in the same channel as my Sagittarius energy. Well, WRONG. I was surprised knowing how he has this inappropriate joke that makes me think that I would never do it but he thinks it's funny and there are also some people who laugh with him, gambling behavior, LOUD laughing (LOUD talking too when he gets angry), having no direction/plan in life (is it called as a Happy-Go-Lucky attitude?), messy/disorganized life, not really interested in academic study/education, overly optimistic where he isn't/less prepared for the worst, too blunt where he is quite careless to whom he is talking to. Are those annoying for me? YES, for sure. I am channeling my Sagittarius with studying/education, exploring/travelling, religion/spirituality, being realistic with life (know how to have fun time, know how to get a work done), I'm not interested to do any gamble, I will not say I am blunt (because I'm always aware to whom I am talking to) but totally honest all of my life (it's a different communication style), and I'm not a type who laugh with mouth wide open or a loud laugh, overall, I am the opposite of his Sagittarius side. I wonder, why our Sagittarius side can be so different? Then I have a chance to see where he came from (big family) from a close, his family dynamic and interaction: what kind of life values they have, their communication style (how they talk to each other and what kind of jokes that they throw to each other), how the parents teach the do and don't/good and bad attitude, what kind of environment they let in to influence the family, etc, and it's totally the opposite of how and what kind of environment I was raised. Sagittarius, just like Gemini, Virgo and Pisces, The Mutable group, easily change to what kind of environment or people they are surround themselves with. And you may look up into the square or opposition anywhere between your chart and the other person as this is often create the feel of "most annoyed" (or inevitable attraction). IP: Logged |
ithinkimightbewrong Knowflake Posts: 445 From: Registered: Nov 2018
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posted May 08, 2023 02:46 PM
my sister is one and she always need to b doing something...as a taurus i can't keep up...and then she gets mad at me and says i don't careIP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 2840 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted May 08, 2023 03:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by Librapurr: What do you mean by annoying? I know somebody who cannot stand loud people and who don’t behave appropriately (like eating loud, don’t care about people around ). It sounded like Saggy type was implied there. I find them funny and entertaining before I see they accept only their own weird behavior, but not that accepting to the others.
I don't mind their funniness, and now that I think back the funniest people I know usually aren't sags, but mostly gems, virgos and caps.And yes, they can be loud sometimes, and I don't mind that either as long as I don't have to deal with that on a constant basis. I think what I meant when I threw in the word "annoying" was: too much, too fidgety, too complaining sometimes. And I think they are secretly attention seekers too and sometimes very jealous, and with these two qualities they can come off as drama-seeking. I know many people are offended by sags' brutal honesty, but I for one like it. I even appreciate their "giving advice/opinion when nobody asked" quality. Because as a pisces and water heavy person I need their broad perspective and honestly to bring me back to the real world sometimes. But damn they're too much for me haha The weird part is I don't know any older sag around me, so I have no idea how they are when in their 2nd half of human life.
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girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 2840 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted May 08, 2023 03:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by ithinkimightbewrong: ..and then she gets mad at me and says i don't care
This in my observation is typical saggy behavior. They're very good natured so they usually want the best for everyone. I think this is the segue into their freedom-seeking attitude. They wanna be free of caring about others, because when they care, they care too much. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 2840 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted May 08, 2023 03:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by hearttreasure: It depends on how they were raised, early childhood environment, especially how their parents/families communicate with each other and what kind of life values they get growing up.I have Sagittarius ASC and Mars. My husband has Sagittarius Moon. After I got to know him, looked into his natal chart and found his moon is in the same sign as my ASC and Mars, I thought (since I really like the positive side of Sagittarius) his Sagittarius energy would be in the same channel as my Sagittarius energy. Well, WRONG. I was surprised knowing how he has this inappropriate joke that makes me think that I would never do it but he thinks it's funny and there are also some people who laugh with him, gambling behavior, LOUD laughing (LOUD talking too when he gets angry), having no direction/plan in life (is it called as a Happy-Go-Lucky attitude?), messy/disorganized life, not really interested in academic study/education, overly optimistic where he isn't/less prepared for the worst, too blunt where he is quite careless to whom he is talking to. Are those annoying for me? YES, for sure. I am channeling my Sagittarius with studying/education, exploring/travelling, religion/spirituality, being realistic with life (know how to have fun time, know how to get a work done), I'm not interested to do any gamble, I will not say I am blunt (because I'm always aware to whom I am talking to) but totally honest all of my life (it's a different communication style), and I'm not a type who laugh with mouth wide open or a loud laugh, overall, I am the opposite of his Sagittarius side. I wonder, why our Sagittarius side can be so different? Then I have a chance to see where he came from (big family) from a close, his family dynamic and interaction: what kind of life values they have, their communication style (how they talk to each other and what kind of jokes that they throw to each other), how the parents teach the do and don't/good and bad attitude, what kind of environment they let in to influence the family, etc, and it's totally the opposite of how and what kind of environment I was raised. Sagittarius, just like Gemini, Virgo and Pisces, The Mutable group, easily change to what kind of environment or people they are surround themselves with. And you may look up into the square or opposition anywhere between your chart and the other person as this is often create the feel of "most annoyed" (or inevitable attraction).
This is a very precise take on the different sides of the Sagittarius energy and I agree with you on most parts. Although I think no matter what the upbringing, people can manifest and lean into different sides of their astrological energies. Because that is the potential we are born with. To answer your question, sags make squares to my moon, and my chart is empty in sag, virgo and gemini. But the thing is my chart is very scattered and most signs make an least one square or apposition to something in my chart. But I feel like sag energy is the only one I can't handle in the long run. Well, never say never, because my longest relationship was with a guy who had saturn in sag, but the rest of his chart was very nice for me, and it was saturn in sag and not the more in-your-face planets, so overall I liked him. IP: Logged |
93nov Knowflake Posts: 178 From: Registered: Oct 2019
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posted May 08, 2023 06:14 PM
Coming from someone with a sag mars, I can definitely understand why you would say that lol. A lot of people with sag energy are obnoxious and condescending or at least we come off that way. Sagittarius men seem to be the worst. Their ego is magnified with this energy. My Scorpio stellium in the 6H won’t let me get too out of control, though. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 2840 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted May 08, 2023 09:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by 93nov: Coming from someone with a sag mars, I can definitely understand why you would say that lol. A lot of people with sag energy are obnoxious and condescending or at least we come off that way. Sagittarius men seem to be the worst. Their ego is magnified with this energy. My Scorpio stellium in the 6H won’t let me get too out of control, though.
You really hit the nail on its head on how I feel about Sags and how they come off IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 10292 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 09, 2023 03:46 AM
As a Sag stellium (including Sun) , I can understand your reservations 🤣. But I think its just an energu fit really. Not so much strictly the Zodiac placement. As planetary aspect do mitigate things A LOT.I find my fellow Sag friend magnifies or amplifies how i feel. So in essence, its not even about how he is. But how I feel. When "off", his rambunctious energy rubs me up the wrong way.I get very irritated with him. But when feeling marvelous, i find his energy supportive and fun. We have a blast. But I (admittedly) have Mars-Moon-Merc T-square. I can be very irritable (regardless). So sometimes excitable energy could exacerbate that mix with unpredictable results. I need time by myself to stabilize my emotions. I do workouts in the morning to deal with the tense energy Mars produces in my body(Mars is part of the T-square alignment and rules my Asc). You mentioned that you have Taurus energy? I wonder if you and your Sag relatives/ acquaintances have similar natal aspects? My sister has Mars on her Sun/Moon midpoint. We tend to agitate each other at times. This because I have Mars active too in my chart. She also has Moon/Mercury midpoint conj Mars. Venus/Mars midpoint is conjunct Sun. Seldom is she ever neutral about anything. There is always passion. With me, Moon/Merc midpoint is conj Mars. Venus/Mars, Mars/Sat midpoint is conj Pluto. I am also quite passionate about things (admittedly). But that Plu on my Ven/Mars,Mars/Sat midpoint is teaching me more restraint. I have had things I felt "strongly" about, disproved. And this happens a lot with Pluto on a planet. What you thought you knew gets destroyed. And that can humble you. A LOT. My other sister(Sco Sun) is a lot less passionate. Her Moon/Sun midpoint is conj Uranus. She also has Neptune conj the midpoint (although wider). More prone to just disengage from emotional extremes. Aspects and midpoints count. That's my experience. 👌🏿
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StoneMoon Knowflake Posts: 1192 From: Registered: Apr 2018
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posted May 09, 2023 12:20 PM
I tend to love them, especially Sag Moons, despite them driving me crazy. Sag is in my first house, so they fit fine... but they do square either my Venus or Mars in Virgo. My BFF at work is a Sag stellium man and he indeed has a ridiculous ego and is super obnoxious! . But he also is playful and fun and in the end wants the best for everyone. Huge martyr complex though. He has Sag Sun, Moon, Mercury, Saturn and Uranus altogether there. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 24502 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 09, 2023 03:18 PM
I usually love them, but this made me laugh. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 2840 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted May 09, 2023 05:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by StoneMoon:
He has Sag Sun, Moon, Mercury, Saturn and Uranus altogether there.
My God he must be a fireball! Although Saturn tones things down a notch. I think when Sags are relaxed, quiet and goofy, they're pretty attractive, it is when they give in to triggers that they turn into these obnoxious monsters who have the ability to embarrass everyone associated with them  IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 2840 From: Registered: Jul 2016
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posted May 09, 2023 05:47 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: As a Sag stellium (including Sun) , I can understand your reservations 🤣. But I think its just an energu fit really. Not so much strictly the Zodiac placement. As planetary aspect do mitigate things A LOT.I find my fellow Sag friend magnifies or amplifies how i feel. So in essence, its not even about how he is. But how I feel. When "off", his rambunctious energy rubs me up the wrong way.I get very irritated with him. But when feeling marvelous, i find his energy supportive and fun. We have a blast. But I (admittedly) have Mars-Moon-Merc T-square. I can be very irritable (regardless). So sometimes excitable energy could exacerbate that mix with unpredictable results. I need time by myself to stabilize my emotions. I do workouts in the morning to deal with the tense energy Mars produces in my body(Mars is part of the T-square alignment and rules my Asc). You mentioned that you have Taurus energy? I wonder if you and your Sag relatives/ acquaintances have similar natal aspects? My sister has Mars on her Sun/Moon midpoint. We tend to agitate each other at times. This because I have Mars active too in my chart. She also has Moon/Mercury midpoint conj Mars. Venus/Mars midpoint is conjunct Sun. Seldom is she ever neutral about anything. There is always passion. With me, Moon/Merc midpoint is conj Mars. Venus/Mars, Mars/Sat midpoint is conj Pluto. I am also quite passionate about things (admittedly). But that Plu on my Ven/Mars,Mars/Sat midpoint is teaching me more restraint. I have had things I felt "strongly" about, disproved. And this happens a lot with Pluto on a planet. What you thought you knew gets destroyed. And that can humble you. A LOT. My other sister(Sco Sun) is a lot less passionate. Her Moon/Sun midpoint is conj Uranus. She also has Neptune conj the midpoint (although wider). More prone to just disengage from emotional extremes. Aspects and midpoints count. That's my experience. 👌🏿
Lately I'm too lazy to even check my basic synastry with my crushes which used to be a favorite past-time for my taurus side, forget about calculating all the midpoints  Joking aside, I get your point. Thank you for sharing your perspective  IP: Logged |
hearttreasure Knowflake Posts: 1314 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted May 09, 2023 11:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul: ...Although I think no matter what the upbringing, people can manifest and lean into different sides of their astrological energies. Because that is the potential we are born with. ...
People can manifest and lean into different sides of their astrological energies, that's true. But what you learn from early childhood and what is your family values, shape some part of you that may put your astrological energies into where it gets shaped. A simple example: I didn't know how loud I was as a kid until I was the only one among my siblings who got a "can you not be too loud?" (my siblings have Libra/Taurus/Capricorn mix in their chart, so they are mostly calm) especially when I got so excited. Sagittarius energy LOVES anything FUN. But my Mother was quite a strict that my childhood felt like a lot of rules, very religious, structured, and we couldn't get too much fun as everything felt like responsibility. My Mother also was a very socially aware person, so we were taught how to appropriately behave socially and she disliked any inappropriate/messy/unholy attitude, like she believed we should not fight but always be kind to everyone and gave respect (yeah, no wonder why some of us got in to a depression for awhile when realizing that some people are really that bad and we should "roar" sometimes to put them in their place). Growing up, it shapes some part of me and those values are still in the back of my mind so it is very hard for me to go in the bad directions (bad energy of my astrological) and how my parents consistently act like what they have taught us until now, make us as a kid living by an example, is true. That's why I believe our family/early childhood has some contribution to our astrological energies. My husband early childhood? The opposite of mine and I have learned this after going in search on how different our Sagittarius energy is and why he keeps coming back to bad habits of his astrological energies, especially his Sagittarius energy (I know this energy good and bad because I have one). This may be sounded too complex as I combine it with psychology knowledge as I really like Sagittarius energy though and it's actually one of the most positive energy who keeps looking the world (bigger picture) in a positive way and it's a good quality to make people feel good or relaxed in the middle of stress/depression or uncertainty with life sometimes. Easy to live with as long as you are not too strict, too conservative, too perfectionist, or too emotional, and I like living with people who are easy to live with. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29 Knowflake Posts: 3776 From: Asia Registered: Nov 2018
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posted May 10, 2023 05:07 AM
We're loud?? 🤔 My bf and I are both quiet people. He has a Sag ASC; I've a Sag Moon. We hardly laugh loudly unless it's something really funny. We don't talk loudly either. In fact we're always the quieter ones in the group, perhaps because of our Taurus/Virgo Suns. Sag Suns can be more blunt, not so Sag Moons and Rising, based on the people around me and I know quite a lot of Sag. I kinda feel that with Sun, the Sag ego is inflated, haha. IP: Logged |
StoneMoon Knowflake Posts: 1192 From: Registered: Apr 2018
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posted May 10, 2023 07:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul: My God he must be a fireball! Although Saturn tones things down a notch. I think when Sags are relaxed, quiet and goofy, they're pretty attractive, it is when they give in to triggers that they turn into these obnoxious monsters who have the ability to embarrass everyone associated with them 
Oh he definitely can be a fireball! Thank god he trines my Mercury because that makes him one of my favorites, but when he is in a mood he's either obnoxious or unbearable as hell. IP: Logged |
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