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True20231
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posted July 01, 2023 03:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for True20231     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi everyone,

I wonder if anyone could offer me any insight, I’ve had 3 miscarriages and I’m so upset and feel hopeless - I’ve been on the ivf rollercoaster for 3 years and I always get to 6 weeks and then I lose them but this time I lost it after a heartbeat was detected.

I’ve had all the tests under the sun and nothing seems to be wrong accept pcos I don’t have an issue making embryos of a great quality, I’m turning to astrology because I’m all out of ideas and hope.

If anyone could help me I would be so grateful, thank you

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True20231
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posted July 01, 2023 03:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for True20231     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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teasel
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posted July 01, 2023 03:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, I'm sorry.

I tried to load the chart, but the link didn't show a chart. Could you try astro.com? Although that won't last long, the chart will appear for a day or two. You can download them to your computer, or screenshot with your phone and then upload them to a picture sharing site, but I've had problems with imgur, over the last two days.

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posted July 02, 2023 01:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just tried again, and clicked "edit data" and it shows your birth info. I put the info into astro.com, with no birth time, and got this for you. I hope this isn't over-stepping.


It will delete in 31 days, so you can right-click and download it, if you want to.

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True20231
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posted July 02, 2023 05:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for True20231     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi thank you so much,

But it’s not quite right sorry my birth is 04/06/88 birth time is 00:35. UK

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posted July 02, 2023 09:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for JD Fan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is that 6th April or 4th of June? your birth

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True20231
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posted July 02, 2023 09:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for True20231     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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True20231
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posted July 02, 2023 10:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for True20231     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
4th June 1988. X

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teasel
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posted July 02, 2023 05:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by True20231:
Hi thank you so much,

But it’s not quite right sorry my birth is 04/06/88 birth time is 00:35 Cheltenham UK, place of birth I just don’t know how to upload here xx


Okay. I have to drink some tea, and eat something, and then I'll do it again, unless someone else gets there first.

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posted July 02, 2023 06:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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True20231
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posted July 03, 2023 03:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for True20231     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for doing that,

Anyone have any thoughts? X

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posted July 03, 2023 07:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
First of all, let me offer you my condoleances and sympathies.I wish this was not happening to you.

Looking at your chart (thank you, teasel, for posting it!):

You have a loaded 5th house, with Mercury and Venus conjunct Chiron, which makes having children very important to you. Unfortunately these planets are opposed natally by unpredictable Uranus, stern Saturn, and confusing Neptune.

Current transit of Neptune in Pisces is squaring this opposition, forming a T square and this aggravates the matter further. This is a very difficult chart to have children right now.

Transit wise, if you were to carry to term, it might most likely happen after Neptune moves into Aries and finishes squaring your planets. That will take years...


With natal Saturn opposing your 5th house planet, what is that you need to WORK on to improve the situation? Can you work on your diet to improve the PCOS issue?

Uranus opposing would indicate you will have children in an unusua/unorthodox way. IVF is one such way. Adoption is another; don't rule it out even if the thought does not currently appeal to you. You may also inherit children by marrying someone who already has children. All these fall under an Uranus influenced 5th house.

The ruler of the 5th is in the 5th, therefore strengthened, in spite of all the hard aspects. You might eventually get your wish.

Transit Uranus will eventually leave Taurus and enter Gemini, and when it hits your natal Gemini, it might trigger a child coming to you unexpectedly.

With Chiron in the 5th, there is the possibility that you might have a special needs child.

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True20231
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posted July 04, 2023 01:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for True20231     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much for this,

I knew I had a horrible natal chart I just didn’t know much about it, it’s helpless really but I never had Neptune square anything when I started the ivf train in 2020 Infact the transits didn’t look bad at all - so I don’t get it.

Pcos has never been that bad but I could deffo clean my diet up anyway because I’m very into fitness but since I was pregnant and miscarriage I’ve not ate so clean and I’ve missed the gym so I do need to get back to it.

Adoption is really difficult and you never get a baby and you have to compete with families and I’m also a single female so it would never be easy.

Being a stepmum is really not something I want because it’s never worked out for me In the past.

Special needs child as in what autism?

Ivf clearly isn’t working so I don’t really know what I can do I suppose the only other thing is surrogacy but again it’s costly my sister said she’d do it but I’m still unsure.

Jupiter is going into my 4th/5th house soon isn’t it I thought that was always good for pregnancy, but then if Neptune is doing it’s thing nothing is going to work.

Don’t really know what else to add just seems all like to much is against me at every turn.

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CardinalT-Square
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posted July 04, 2023 06:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CardinalT-Square     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
True20231 have you had your Chart Rectified? Your Chart could be as much as 4hrs. earlier than your Birth Certificate states if it hasn't. You can't rely on Doctors for anything😜😆 Also you should use "Topocentric Positions" on Astro.com as the default settings uses the Equator as a basis to calculate the Planetary Positions, instead of your actual Hometown. It's far more accurate and should give you a Capricorn Moon instead of an Aquarius Moon.

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True20231
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posted July 04, 2023 07:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for True20231     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey @cardinal what do you mean by rectified?

Thank you for this I tried to do it as you said and it’s exactly the same chart as normal, maybe I’m doing something wrong.

Megan fox has almost identical birth chart to me she was born same time but 2 year earlier and has kids I just don’t understand!

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posted July 04, 2023 03:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CardinalT-Square     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You checked the box titled "Topocentric Positions" before you tap "Show the Chart"? Yor Moon should revert a couple minutes into the late degrees of Capricorn.

What I mean by Rectification, is that your chart should accurately reflect yourself in this current incarnation. Their isn't just the physical Time-of-Birth, their is also a spiritual component to the process also. You decided before you were even born at exactly what time, and exactly how long you want to exist in this current lifetime. You also made commitments to everyone you have met, and will meet in this lifetime also. So in short, it means that your more likely to be a Capricorn Ascendant, or slim possibility of being a Sagittarius Ascendant. You need to get ahold of someone like Kannon McAfee who is well versed in this subject, and also is a Moderator for this section of the Forum to know for sure which Ascendant you really are.

If I had to guess though, as a place to start, you have Saturn aspecting your 5th House Ruler, and perhaps your 4th House Ruler as well to cause such a delay in having children. What have your Relationships been like? Do you tend to jump from one relationship to another? Have you married anyone yet? If yes, how long did it last? What sort of men do you attract/are you attracted to?

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teasel
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posted July 04, 2023 04:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you talking about the first charts, or the ones that I made? Because I didn’t click that. I went to Astro.com, put in her information, and clocked show chart.

Oh, never mind, I missed a post.

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True20231
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posted July 04, 2023 04:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for True20231     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CardinalT-Square:
You checked the box titled "Topocentric Positions" before you tap "Show the Chart"? Yor Moon should revert a couple minutes into the late degrees of Capricorn.

What I mean by Rectification, is that your chart should accurately reflect yourself in this current incarnation. Their isn't just the physical Time-of-Birth, their is also a spiritual component to the process also. You decided before you were even born at exactly what time, and exactly how long you want to exist in this current lifetime. You also made commitments to everyone you have met, and will meet in this lifetime also. So in short, it means that your more likely to be a Capricorn Ascendant, or slim possibility of being a Sagittarius Ascendant. You need to get ahold of someone like Kannon McAfee who is well versed in this subject, and also is a Moderator for this section of the Forum to know for sure which Ascendant you really are.

If I had to guess though, as a place to start, you have Saturn aspecting your 5th House Ruler, and perhaps your 4th House Ruler as well to cause such a delay in having children. What have your Relationships been like? Do you tend to jump from one relationship to another? Have you married anyone yet? If yes, how long did it last? What sort of men do you attract/are you attracted to?


I did lovely but nothing changed in the chart, I checked it on astroseek aswell and it still says the same, I don’t think I’m like an Aquarius at all, but I’ve always shown more Gemini traits I’m very mercurial is that right? I think anyway

My relationships have been horrendous which is why I tried to have a child by myself as I wasn’t getting any younger, I am attracted to men who seem to cheat or go back to their ex’s, communication has been an issue and also the issues surrounding ttc it breaks up my relationships because children is always the forefront. I’ve never been married, my mother married later in life also.

I feel like Saturn has delayed my life since I was born it has not been easy.

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posted July 04, 2023 09:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CardinalT-Square     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I did lovely but nothing changed in the chart, I checked it on astroseek aswell and it still says the same, I don’t think I’m like an Aquarius at all, but I’ve always shown more Gemini traits I’m very mercurial is that right? I think anyway

My relationships have been horrendous which is why I tried to have a child by myself as I wasn’t getting any younger, I am attracted to men who seem to cheat or go back to their ex’s, communication has been an issue and also the issues surrounding ttc it breaks up my relationships because children is always the forefront. I’ve never been married, my mother married later in life also.

I feel like Saturn has delayed my life since I was born it has not been easy.


I know what you mean, I have troubles committing to women myself as I have Venus square Saturn in my Natal.

Just based on the little bit you've told me about yourself, it sounds like your Ascendant is in the early degree of Capricorn, like in the 0° range, so you might also inherit Sagittarius energy as well, and the fact you're trying to have a child on your own tells me your IC/4th House should be in the late degrees of Aries, with Jupiter in your 5th House to represent wishy-washy relationships with men who blindside you with deceptive intentions. As Jupiter is the co-ruler of Pisces you can miss and/or misinterpret signals from men who don't actually want to commit. The upside of Jupiter in the 5th House though is you can be very creative and adaptive to your endeavors, possibly a good Drawer, painter, and/or musician. Is that the case?

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posted July 05, 2023 03:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for True20231     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by CardinalT-Square:
I know what you mean, I have troubles committing to women myself as I have Venus square Saturn in my Natal.

Just based on the little bit you've told me about yourself, it sounds like your Ascendant is in the early degree of Capricorn, like in the 0° range, so you might also inherit Sagittarius energy as well, and the fact you're trying to have a child on your own tells me your IC/4th House should be in the late degrees of Aries, with Jupiter in your 5th House to represent wishy-washy relationships with men who blindside you with deceptive intentions. As Jupiter is the co-ruler of Pisces you can miss and/or misinterpret signals from men who don't actually want to commit. The upside of Jupiter in the 5th House though is you can be very creative and adaptive to your endeavors, possibly a good Drawer, painter, and/or musician. Is that the case?


I’ve always had the hardest time committing and trusting men, I’ve got daddy issues as they say because my dad never bothered with me or wanted me and the man I called dad (step) had an affair and left the family so I’ve not had the best examples of relationships!

My mother swears blind I was born at that time of 00:35 but I don’t think I represent that chart at all.

I’m not as much creative but I do love music and I can somewhat sing.

Capricorn deffo makes more sense to me.


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posted July 06, 2023 05:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CardinalT-Square     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It definitely seems like Capricorn Ascendant is the one for you. A shame you don't have a Libra Moon like I do though, you would then compliment me very well with my Cancer Ascendant, and the attraction would've been through the roof😘

Anyways, when you get time, can you list me a few (and I do mean ATLEAST a few) of the closest family/friends Birthdays, Time of Births, and Hometowns? Just the one's that you have confirmation that that data is accurate for. I will cross-reference their charts for commonalities with your's and give you a close approximation of your Natal. Like I said though, it won't be 99.9% accurate, so you'll still need to get ahold of an expert to get your chart rectified down to the second... if you so choose to know exactly what it is that is causing your Miscarriages. I might beable to hit 99% though, but it will take time for me to go through any charts you can list for me as I'm busy with things in my life too.

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posted July 06, 2023 06:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for True20231     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much, sure take your time there is no rush

Do you have an email address that you don’t use so much I can send them to? Just because I don’t want their information so public

I only know a couple that are accurate. X

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posted July 06, 2023 06:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for True20231     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much, sure take your time there is no rush

Do you have an email address that you don’t use so much I can send them to? Just because I don’t want their information so public

I only know a couple that are accurate. X

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posted July 06, 2023 06:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CardinalT-Square     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted July 13, 2023 11:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CardinalT-Square     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@True20231

I've had time to go through all the charts you gave me, and it's as I suspected, your Jupiter is in your 5th House, with your 4th House in late Aries. However, it turns out you are a Sagittarius Ascendant. You were actually born on June 3rd, not the 4th. I put your Time of Birth at 21:56 (9:56pm). I noticed a few of the charts you gave me had Sun/Saturn aspects as well as Sun/Jupiter. The time I gave you is just enough for your Sun to Sesiquesquare your MC, acting just like a Sun in aspect to Saturn since it's a Cardinal Angle like the Asc., Des., and IC.

Looking at your Rectified Chart, your Capricorn Saturn is Trine your IC/4th House, Sextile Mars (Ruler of your 4th House), Sextile your MC/10th House, Opposite Venus (Ruler of your 5th House) and Jupiter, Opposite Mercury (Ruler of your (Sun, Itself, and Venus), and Conjunct your Ascendant/Opposite Descendant. It's imposing a lot of limitations and/or restrictions on your Chart, plus you have Similar aspects with Uranus, and only one Quintile Aspect from Jupiter to Mars, exasperating the restrictions, limitations, and delays of Saturn and Uranus, being as it's in your 5th House of Love, Romance, and Fun, causing the majority of your Miscarriages. Sorry😭😭😭

The good news is because you're Ascendant is ruled by Jupiter/Neptune conjunct your Saturn/Uranus, it might be possible to have a kid a little later, after changing things in your Diet and Lifestyle. You look like you exercise a little too much, try to cut back to reduce your Cortisol levels and the stress on your body. Cortisol lowers Testosterone in both Men and Women, and you need all the Testosterone your body can produce naturally you can get to produce really good eggs that can last the 9 month term. Try to add Extra Virgin Olive Oil to many of the foods you eat, drink Whole Milk more often vs. Soy, Almond, and 2%. Try to eat more foods with Cholesterol also, such as Steaks. Cholesterol is the building-block of Testosterone and Estrogen, and you can't get that if your a Vegitarian/Vegan. And finally, try to think about other things that you enjoy doing, don't think about the Miscarriages, as that adds more stress on top of everything else you got going on in your life.

Good Luck!🙌🔥🤘❤

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