posted July 29, 2023 01:32 PM            

My 7th starts in Aquarius, but it’s mostly in Pisces. I have Mars in Pisces in the 7th. One of my exes was Aries, Pisces rising. In general I like sensitive men (as long as they have fire too) but not necessarily Pisces energy. Never dated Pisces Sun. I have other planets in the 7th in Aquarius so I think that prevails.

posted July 29, 2023 03:50 PM            

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Originally posted by frida:
I think it’s more likely if you have planets in that second sign in the 7th house. That will definitely describe to a degree a person you’re attracted to. Another person’s Sun and other planets in that second sign in the 7th also help create attraction, but I think that the actual Desc sign still prevails.

My 7th starts in Aquarius, but it’s mostly in Pisces. I have Mars in Pisces in the 7th. One of my exes was Aries, Pisces rising. In general I like sensitive men (as long as they have fire too) but not necessarily Pisces energy. Never dated Pisces Sun. I have other planets in the 7th in Aquarius so I think that prevails.

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Yeah, I get that I wonder how it works though in synastry. Like my Sun is at 1 degree Taurus. But when someone has an Aries DSC it falls in their 7th house.

posted July 29, 2023 08:36 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Are you attracted to both of those signs?

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My DSC is in Aries - ruled by Cap Mars.
With Taurus sharing in my 7H.

I am indeed attracted to Fire Energy in Men. 🔥 I love the King Aura of Leo; Wise Elder vibes of Sag; And the Brave Spirit of Aries. 💪

I do prefer Fire Suns and/or Risings. Not so much Fire Moon, Venus, etc. I can do almost any placement of Leo though, so they are the exception. I'm also a big fan of 1st, 5th & 9th House Synastry! 💛 So there's that.

As for Earth, I'm attracted to that energy in Men as well. 💋 Capricorn & Taurean Suns are often very drawn to me - likely due to BOTH my Venus & Mars being in Earth Signs. I haven't encountered too many Earth Risings, but I feel I would like them. The handful of Virgo Risings I know are women and it's one of the few Virgo placements that I can tolerate long-term. And maybe Virgo Mars.

I enjoy other Taurus Venuses. 🌷 And Taurus Moons.

Cap Mars Men are awesome! Such grounded and deeply erotic energy they possess. Effortlessly takes command.

Capricorn Moon Men are sexy AF. Epitome of the Strong Silent Type. They have just the right amount of emotional stoicism with (some) hidden sensitivity underneath that they reserve for a select group of people whom they trust. They give Big D**k Energy! 🤣 No lies. Dwayne Johnson, Brad Pitt, Jon Bon Jovi and George Clooney are ALL Cap Moons. 🌙

Ryan Gosling (Cap Moon) perfectly exhibits their more tender, devoted side in this scene. 🩷
http://youtu.be/rNzimdBJF1s

And Gerard Butler (Cap Moon) perfectly exhibits their stoic, ruthless side that doesn't f**k around. 👑
http://youtu.be/4aof9KxIJZo

posted July 29, 2023 10:15 PM            

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Originally posted by TrueScorpio:
It seems logical that the house would have the energy of both signs.I have Aries on the cusp of the 7th and notice that while I gravitate to the Taurus types big time, I like a little fire in a guy!

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posted July 29, 2023 11:07 PM            

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Originally posted by TrueScorpio:
It seems logical that the house would have the energy of both signs.I have Aries on the cusp of the 7th and notice that while I gravitate to the Taurus types big time, I like a little fire in a guy!

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posted July 30, 2023 08:18 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
My DSC is in Aries - ruled by Cap Mars.
With Taurus sharing in my 7H.

I am indeed attracted to Fire Energy in Men. 🔥 I love the King Aura of Leo; Wise Elder vibes of Sag; And the Brave Spirit of Aries. 💪

I do prefer Fire Suns and/or Risings. Not so much Fire Moon, Venus, etc. I can do almost any placement of Leo though, so they are the exception. I'm also a big fan of 1st, 5th & 9th House Synastry! 💛 So there's that.

As for Earth, I'm attracted to that energy in Men as well. 💋 Capricorn & Taurean Suns are often very drawn to me - likely due to BOTH my Venus & Mars being in Earth Signs. I haven't encountered too many Earth Risings, but I feel I would like them. The handful of Virgo Risings I know are women and it's one of the few Virgo placements that I can tolerate long-term. And maybe Virgo Mars.

I enjoy other Taurus Venuses. 🌷 And Taurus Moons.

Cap Mars Men are awesome! Such grounded and deeply erotic energy they possess. Effortlessly takes command.

Capricorn Moon Men are sexy AF. Epitome of the Strong Silent Type. They have just the right amount of emotional stoicism with (some) hidden sensitivity underneath that they reserve for a select group of people whom they trust. They give Big D**k Energy! 🤣 No lies. Dwayne Johnson, Brad Pitt, Jon Bon Jovi and George Clooney are ALL Cap Moons. 🌙

Ryan Gosling (Cap Moon) perfectly exhibits their more tender, devoted side in this scene. 🩷
http://youtu.be/rNzimdBJF1s

And Gerard Butler (Cap Moon) perfectly exhibits their stoic, ruthless side that doesn't f**k around. 👑
http://youtu.be/4aof9KxIJZo

So I'd say my DSC matches my attractions. 👍

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posted July 30, 2023 11:39 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Yeah, it's confusing because this guy has a fire DSC my Sun falls in his 7th house. But it's in one-degree Taurus. So I'm not sure that he's even attracted to me.

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I always tell people that gender really DOES matter. For men, their attractions may be a bit different than what I shared above. But Libra Risings are generally always going to prefer mates with some BACKBONE regardless. The worst thing you can do is be doormat with us.

I typically do like the people who fall into my 7H. 🌷 But it's not guaranteed to be romantic, could be platonic as well. It all depends. Now when *my* Venus falls into their 7H? I usually do feel that on a stronger level. And I haven't dated any Capricorn Risings but I imagine that I would feel the same way with my Moon chilling in their 7H. 🌙

posted July 30, 2023 04:45 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
I always tell people that gender really DOES matter. For men, their attractions may be a bit different than what I shared above. But Libra Risings are generally always going to prefer mates with some BACKBONE regardless. The worst thing you can do is be doormat with us.

I typically do like the people who fall into my 7H. 🌷 But it's not guaranteed to be romantic, could be platonic as well. It all depends. Now when *my* Venus falls into their 7H? I usually do feel that on a stronger level. And I haven't dated any Capricorn Risings but I imagine that I would feel the same way with my Moon chilling in their 7H. 🌙

What are his Sun & Venus Signs? Where does your Moon & Venus fall in his chart? And vice versa?

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Cancer Sun Gemini Venus my Venus falls in his 6th house and my Moon is in his 4th. I’m just wondering if he’s physically attracted to me. Because we’ve been sleeping together for awhile now.

posted July 30, 2023 11:46 PM            

May I ask why you question his attraction to you if you guys have been being intimate for quite some time now? Is this just "Friends With Benefits" and you would like it to evolve into more? I'm trying to be mindful of the context.

You having your Pluto in his 1H and your Mars forming a conjunction with his 8H Venus is quite intense! 🔥 It could definitely be a strong indicator of attraction. Nothing is guaranteed, of course. Do you find yourself initiating most of the sex or is it him doing so?

I think 4H synastry is awesome. 🌙 I usually feel at ease rather quickly (and vice versa) with people who fall into my 4H. So with your Moon hitting his 4H, I would imagine you guys opening up to each other rather easily unless other factors are at play. And I see his Moon falls into your 2H - do you feel possessive of him?

posted July 31, 2023 11:37 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
@ChildofVenus

May I ask why you question his attraction to you if you guys have been being intimate for quite some time now? Is this just "Friends With Benefits" and you would like it to evolve into more? I'm trying to be mindful of the context.

You having your Pluto in his 1H and your Mars forming a conjunction with his 8H Venus is quite intense! 🔥 It could definitely be a strong indicator of attraction. Nothing is guaranteed, of course. Do you find yourself initiating most of the sex or is it him doing so?

I think 4H synastry is awesome. 🌙 I usually feel at ease rather quickly (and vice versa) with people who fall into my 4H. So with your Moon hitting his 4H, I would imagine you guys opening up to each other rather easily unless other factors are at play. And I see his Moon falls into your 2H - do you feel possessive of him?

With your Venus sitting in his 6H, he possibly views you as someone who is willing to be "of service" to him. Someone who beautifies and/or brings pleasure to his everyday life. 🌷

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It doesn't seem like he's really in the position to be in a relationship. I'm asking because people have said that men with his placements are attracted to skinny women. And I see the types of pages he follows on Facebook. The pages that he follows feature women who look nothing like me. I'm not skinny yeah I know we've been having sex for a while. But that doesn't automatically he finds me sexually attractive. Maybe it's just be being self-conscious which is something that I'm trying to work out.

posted July 31, 2023 05:29 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
It doesn't seem like he's really in the position to be in a relationship. I'm asking because people have said that men with his placements are attracted to skinny women. And I see the types of pages he follows on Facebook. The pages that he follows feature women who look nothing like me. I'm not skinny yeah I know we've been having sex for a while. But that doesn't automatically he finds me sexually attractive. Maybe it's just be being self-conscious which is something that I'm trying to work out.

There have been times when he has initiated sex. But it doesn't seem like he's the type who initiates things. For example, when he got married it was his ex-wife who proposed to him.

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Okay so from what you were saying - he's not interested in a relationship. You're likely not his physical type. And he's on the more passive, emasculated side.

So why exactly are you interested in this guy again? And giving him your goodies?

posted July 31, 2023 07:05 PM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Okay so from what you were saying - he's not interested in a relationship. You're likely not his physical type. And he's on the more passive, emasculated side.

So why exactly are you interested in this guy again? And giving him your goodies?

You deserve better. But you have to want it for Yourself. 🤷🏾‍♀️ Men will do what you allow them to. Regardless of Zodiac Sign.

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I don't know if it's a good idea for me to base this on Facebook. I don't think he'd be having sex with me if he didn't find me physically attractive.

posted August 02, 2023 09:35 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
Sounds like he's not ready for anything serious. So just enjoy it for what it is.

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Yeah, I realize that and honestly I don't think I'm ready to be in a relationship. I really want to get my career together. Before getting into a relationship. I've been thinking about that a lot. Probably because transit Saturn is square my Mars in he 10th house.