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Topic: Can someone help me pin point my mommy issues
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Hmmm
Knowflake Posts: 168
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Registered: Jun 2023
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posted August 03, 2023 06:50 PM
  
Hope it's OK to post here I'm not looking for an interpretation. Just pinpoint a few aspects or placmets that are responsible for the below. I'll just share my chart cuz I think it's my karma and not necessarily her although if u think it'd help I'll post it Today I realized my mom outshines me. And if I start outshining her or just becoming confident she gets aggressive petty obnoxious loud ...oh so loud. She even embarrasses me and I dont have the tools to stick up for myself...im the type that barely says two words in a crowd so when I have someone like my mom poking fun at Me or attracting all the attention to her. In very loud ways. I don't have anything to say. She also gets attention by talking NON STOP. I'd like to be talkative like her and I think I am but I think it only comes out when I separate from her amd that hasn't happened much And today I realized if she'd shut up for two seconds I might think of something to say or if she asked me about myself I might respond with something of substance. But never. Anyway. Moon and saturn conjunct. that's a mommy issue placement. It opposes my first house stuff. Including mars and chiron. Does that mean she restricts my self expression? Is that all there is to it.
Can u guys think of anything else My fourth house ruler is Virgo and she's a Virgo sun idk mercury is in 12th house of undoing? But I think that would be her characteristics (12th house mercury)...which it is not. Anyway ya. Just figured out need to break free from her in order to breath and express myself. ------------------
my chart
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Hmmm
Knowflake Posts: 168
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Registered: Jun 2023
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posted August 03, 2023 06:57 PM
Oh I'll add. I've gotten angry with her several times when she's crossed a line and ive moved out and it's always ended disastrously where I need her help. I'm moving out soon and I'm scared it'll be a nightmare. I can just feel everything going wrong IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa
Knowflake Posts: 1069
From: Romania
Registered: Jun 2020
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posted August 03, 2023 08:36 PM
Yes, is the saturn moon and ruler of 4th in the 1st with whole sign system. She's probably very invested in you. That's not only this thing that comes up from ruler of 4th in the 1st, but it shows that she's close to you. If it were in the 12th, she could have had some mental problems or you could have been separated from her, which I think it's not the case. She's just very social and likes to speak to people. It might be some aggresiveness because Mars is loosely conjunct Mercury, but I think it's a too wide conjunction to see something bad happen, from a verbal abusive point of view, but it might be something still since they reside in the same house. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 10394
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 04, 2023 07:31 AM
Immediately,I looked at Moon in Sag in house 7. Mom(Moon)is an open enemy or competition (7th).When you mentioned "outshine", I had to look at where Leo and/or Sun is. Anything involving the spotlight is(for me) Leo. You have Ic(Mom) in Leo. The ruler(Sun) is on the 12th house of loss. This could suggest a distant(12th)relationship with Mom(Ic) which may extend to feeling disconnected(12th)to your home and roots(Ic). You already know about Moon/Sat conj. This may be an inability for her to show.her maternal feeling a towards you OR when she does,you don't receive them well or just feel awkward etc. IP: Logged |
Belage
Knowflake Posts: 6946
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 04, 2023 01:17 PM
The aspects are Moon conjunct Saturn and opposite Chiron. Usually any moon hard aspect with Saturn or Pluto in a chart would point to Mommy issues. You have the additional hard aspect with Chiron, the wounded healer. IP: Logged |
Stawr
Moderator Posts: 8718
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted August 04, 2023 01:22 PM
I have Leo IC too. And my mom is a double Leo. We were getting long well until yesterday evening. Venus Leo is retrograde right now. IP: Logged |
Hmmm
Knowflake Posts: 168
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Registered: Jun 2023
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posted August 04, 2023 05:44 PM
Yes mine has leo mercury IP: Logged |
Hmmm
Knowflake Posts: 168
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posted August 14, 2023 03:50 PM
Those that have sag moon
Do u find your mom is always on some adventure and too busy for you?And if u have sag moon saturn conjunct that u wish she could teach u lessons but she doesn't. IP: Logged |
Stawr
Moderator Posts: 8718
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted August 16, 2023 02:12 PM
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Originally posted by Hmmm:
Yes mine has leo mercury
My Taurus Mercury h12 has to tell myself to calm down and not be a bi+ch when she wont stop talking especially when I am trying to head out the door. IP: Logged |
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