posted August 27, 2023 10:49 AM            

I’ve known this guy for 3 months, though we’ve only met 4 times. When we make time to talk on the phone/facetime, we talk for hours and are super engaged in the conversation. The problem is that we can’t commit to consistently seeing one another because we just aren’t ready for something serious (both had bad breakups within the last year). We had an argument on our first date, though we both actually agreed later on that because of that argument, there was a really authentic passion and fearlessness in showing one another who we “really are” right from the beginning.

When we’re together, there’s this intensity where we can just say anything and have the deepest talks (both Scorpio sun+mercury). He always says how attractive it is that I can hold intense eye contact with him. Since my venus+mars are conjunct his ASC in Sagittarius, there's some fun banter that balances out all these conversations.

I’ve definitely learned a lot about healing my own father wounds and anxious attachment with this man, so I do feel that this is a karmic connection on my end. And after I gave him a pretty thorough natal chart reading, he literally broke down in tears because he said he’d never felt so understood and was blown away by what I could see. He's started exploring spirituality on his own (my mercury conjunct his north node), so my presence in his life feels karmic on his end too.

posted August 27, 2023 01:33 PM            

Saturn forming good aspects in composite and synastry makes the relationship stable, or more easy to reach stability.......

there is the mars and moon with jupiter aspects but I would try not to get so caught up in bad aspects within composite or synastry, just try to focus on the realtionship and not predict anything, or be in control of the relationship where you know things ahead of time.... you can get so caught up In the bad stuff that you will notice when yall are doing those behaviors then you could unconsciously (but consciously) manifest them more and more and it takes over the relationship and fails..... ive done this.......though I have done it with people who my relationships did not worked out and now that time passed on, I didnt even want them anyway, and glad it didnt work out

posted August 27, 2023 03:34 PM            

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Originally posted by dryspelltears:
I dont think that composite is that bad.......saturn is forming stability,

Saturn forming good aspects in composite and synastry makes the relationship stable, or more easy to reach stability.......

there is the mars and moon with jupiter aspects but I would try not to get so caught up in bad aspects within composite or synastry, just try to focus on the realtionship and not predict anything, or be in control of the relationship where you know things ahead of time.... you can get so caught up In the bad stuff that you will notice when yall are doing those behaviors then you could unconsciously (but consciously) manifest them more and more and it takes over the relationship and fails..... ive done this.......though I have done it with people who my relationships did not worked out and now that time passed on, I didnt even want them anyway, and glad it didnt work out

but the composite doesnt look that bad, and all composites will have hard aspects, as well as good..... and yall have strong good aspects (Saturn)

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Thanks! Yeah, our synastry looks pretty strong. I was mostly curious about that Uranus in the composite exactly conjunct the IC (Neptune's pretty close as well).