posted October 11, 2023 06:19 AM            

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Originally posted by frida:
I don't know anyone with this aspect, but I have the opposition. I think people with hard Moon Venus aspects will try to please others to get their emotional needs met, until they mature and become more emotionally independent. Perhaps that's where the charm comes from - the natives have a strong need to get love and attention from others, and what better way to get it than honing and using your charm skills? I don't know if that's really the case, just a thought...
(I think people see me as charming, but there are many other factors)

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posted October 25, 2023 01:46 PM            

http://www.healthline.com/health/mommy-issues
Mommy issues in men

People usually apply the term “mommy issues” to men who display some of the following traits and behaviors:

• an expectation that romantic partners will provide more than a fair share of household labor or emotional support

• trust issues or difficulty showing vulnerability

• a strong need for affection and approval or difficulty showing affection or rapid shifts between the two

• “cold feet” when it comes to relationship commitment

• a need for maternal guidance when making decisions

• difficulty spending time with or discussing their mother

• relationship anxiety

• discomfort with intimacy

• extreme sensitivity to real or perceived criticism

• underdeveloped relationship boundaries

posted October 29, 2023 11:14 AM            

Your habits may annoy others. You may have bad manners, bad breath or bad personal hygiene habits that irritate those around you. You can be lazy at times and you hate to get your hands dirty. You prefer other people doing the hard work while you sit around and reap the benefits or the glory. You know exactly how to tell people what they want to hear, regardless of whether it is really honest or not. You may have conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate your personal life. Perhaps you are trying to please someone you care about so much so that you end up being some other person instead of yourself, becoming very unhappy in the process. You may have trouble figuring out just what you want in a relationship, a mother or a lover. If your needs for emotional satisfaction and love are not met, then overeating (especially sweets) can be a problem for you. You have a tendency anyway toward rich, sweet food and emotional imbalances set you to overeating as compensation for what you feel you are lacking. You are insecure and do not have a very high opinion of yourself. Perhaps you find yourself ugly or unattractive in some way, regardless of what the people around you tell you. You need to learn how to emotionally stand alone on your own two feet and to stand up for yourself and what you believe. You want and need the love of others in order to feel secure and if that love seems to be taken away, then you crumble. You are very warm and loving, but you must learn that you cannot possess anyone. We have all loved countless souls in all our previous incarnations here on earth and there is never a final farewell for love. You always are reunited with those you love. Anything to the contrary is an illusion.

posted November 19, 2023 05:23 PM            

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Originally posted by arcturus90:
It means many varying relationships probably

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It depends on whether this square has aspects to any of the outers; my husband has this on his MC and DC but his Venus is conjunct Saturn. We have been married for 22 years, together for 23 years.

For him, it only means that his marriage partner (me) cannot sit on her arse.

posted December 17, 2023 12:16 PM            

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Originally posted by vansio:
“Moon discordant to Venus

Your habits may annoy others. You may have bad manners, bad breath or bad personal hygiene habits that irritate those around you. You can be lazy at times and you hate to get your hands dirty. You prefer other people doing the hard work while you sit around and reap the benefits or the glory. You know exactly how to tell people what they want to hear, regardless of whether it is really honest or not. You may have conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate your personal life. Perhaps you are trying to please someone you care about so much so that you end up being some other person instead of yourself, becoming very unhappy in the process. You may have trouble figuring out just what you want in a relationship, a mother or a lover. If your needs for emotional satisfaction and love are not met, then overeating (especially sweets) can be a problem for you. You have a tendency anyway toward rich, sweet food and emotional imbalances set you to overeating as compensation for what you feel you are lacking. You are insecure and do not have a very high opinion of yourself. Perhaps you find yourself ugly or unattractive in some way, regardless of what the people around you tell you. You need to learn how to emotionally stand alone on your own two feet and to stand up for yourself and what you believe. You want and need the love of others in order to feel secure and if that love seems to be taken away, then you crumble. You are very warm and loving, but you must learn that you cannot possess anyone. We have all loved countless souls in all our previous incarnations here on earth and there is never a final farewell for love. You always are reunited with those you love. Anything to the contrary is an illusion.

Money goes out as fast as it comes in, sometimes faster. You have a tendency to be self-indulgent, over-extravagant and too desiring of luxury. You have the tendency to take the easy way out of things and to not stand up for your rights and needs. You are sensitive about your personal popularity. You may have an inferiority complex. The challenge is for you to develop the courage and learn how to voice your convictions. You have such a strong emotional need to be liked and accepted that you avoid making waves. By standing up for your personal convictions, you will build strength of character and will be free to be yourself. And this will make you a much happier person.“

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I don't have this aspect natally, but I have seen it play out countless times in real life and this is probably the best description I've seen so far.

People with this aspect definitely have a certain eye for beauty without them necessarily being "beautiful" themselves. Money is never really an issue either which further reinforces the "beauty". It's a lot easier to look clean, accomplished, and charming when you have the funds to do so. A good example of this aspect playing out would be the individual coming from a wealthy family, but always attracting/ wanting poor friends/associates or vice versa: poor family, rich friends. Either way, this would eventually cause some type of conflict between the two.

I also find these people phony or fake. This gets them a lot of admirers and job offers, but not too many points in the substance/ character department (which isn't all that important nowadays anyway). Very popular.. but in a shallow way. Lots of likes and reactions on social media.