posted December 04, 2023 09:43 AM            

Last November and December, I was caught between trying to decide if I have cancer or not as well as a potential legal situation.

This Holiday season my boss is ghosting me and I am having family problems left and right as well as problems with friends.

ALWAYS happens in November and December.

posted December 04, 2023 10:28 AM            

In a collective, it is becoming more common. Like the stratosphere is weakening and these "train wrecks" are effects of them.. jmo

I've heard an increased amount of people saying last year and 2023 were both harsh for them. These aren't people I know personally.

posted December 04, 2023 04:32 PM            

The holidays are still hard to get through, but way more respect and normalcy from family.

posted December 04, 2023 10:04 PM            

Plus as a guy that whould normally say no to having kids, my sisters kids sometimes will display 1 or 2 traits of mine...that sorta makes me smile sometimes...heck might even reconsider ..

My Gemini mercury forms a lot of conjunctions with each of her 3 kids.

Now In the past I'd spend Christmas eve with my moms side of the family. She was the 4th child out of six other siblings.

Plus each of her brothers and sisters had at least 2 kids each (cousens) and their partner, so in total that whould bring us to almost 30 in total.

The chart pattern for everyone that whould attend is Fire + Air, Earth + Air, Fire + Water.

I realized this after the Gemini in me observed and wanted to get an explanation of the social dynamics...and also why I don't get involved anymore.

Occasionally a cousen whould bring a new gf or bf and introduce them to the rest of the family.

Then after that cousen leaves to another room with their partner, everyone whould be gossiping on what they though of them.

Or they'd start asking me questions, the worst is my Capircorn Cousen that always likes to brag and compete with anyone.

One time my Leo cousen was talking about a new pool she was getting installed during Christmas dinner...

well guess what that Capicorn Cousen goes out and the puts in a even bigger pool, lol.

But according to my sister she still attends these things, they've toned down a bit because the only thing it accomplishes is...well they just bankrupt each other trying to out do each other, lol.

posted December 05, 2023 11:45 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:

Sorry for the size. I thought it was smaller than that.

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posted December 07, 2023 10:04 PM            

Anyway now he's wondering if I can watch his dog while he's on Christmas vacation??

He also gave me his house address...that threw me on a loop?????

posted December 07, 2023 10:17 PM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
Me and my big mouth, I told my boss I like all animals and I've been cat watching my sisters cats for the last 2 weeks, this part is true the other part is half true...I don't like rats, lol

Anyway now he's wondering if I can watch his dog while he's on Christmas vacation??

He also gave me his house address...that threw me on a loop?????

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posted December 08, 2023 03:34 PM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:

I used to have pet rats. They are sweethearts if they are pets. I am firmly against wild ones. No thank you there. But I'm a huge cat fan, It's an honor to be mommy to two feline sons.
Do you like his dog? This could make/break this boss/employee relationship, I can understand some stress in trying to decide.

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It's not so much the dog thing...just that is he asking more from a subordinate then he should be or is he treating me like a friend?

I'm just trying to be nice, I really believe in Karma.

I gave him a run around answer which was let me see how your dog is, let me play and feed her that way you can see and how I'd handle her.

He ended up inviting me to his home, I meet his family and the dog.

It's a very low maintenance, gently small dog. I told him I don't mind...and I'm not asking for anything (payment)

posted December 16, 2023 09:56 AM            

The way my dad has talked down to me in his passive aggressive Libra ways. Since coming home he'll be lucky if I even spend 15 bucks on him. I got him nothing for his birthday, and I got him nothing for fathers day this year...and I don't regret it.