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itisokay
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posted December 05, 2023 12:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for itisokay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey, I am going through a very difficult period for me. It's like everyone is somehow uneasy about my presence. Is there a possibility they find me intimidating? It is so hard for me to date or befriend someone nowadays.

Moon trine pluto
Pluto in 12th house
Moon in 8th house

Even my old female friends sometimes feel uncomfortable with my presence. When they see me, I see that they are deeply saddened.

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JosieC4
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posted December 05, 2023 12:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JosieC4     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im only learning but Id love to try and offer some insight! Can I see your whole chart?

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itisokay
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posted December 05, 2023 12:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for itisokay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by JosieC4:
Im only learning but Id love to try and offer some insight! Can I see your whole chart?

Sure thanks for help…

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itisokay
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posted December 05, 2023 01:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for itisokay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

I can post from another site if this site’s chart is confusing,, thank you for your time..

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sashavittoria
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posted December 05, 2023 04:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sashavittoria     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
IME, if people are intimidated by you, it's because, frankly, they're not on your level. You need to surround yourself with people who are. That takes time, and trial and error. Let people fall away from your life - it's part of your growth and evolution. We need different people at different points of our lives in order to grow. And sometimes we need solitude. The strongest people can let others in, but they are okay alone too.

I have a Moon/Venus conjunction in my 10th - it took me forever to realize that people, especially other women, were jealous of me and were trying to undermine my confidence and attack me due to their own insecurities. DO NOT take other people's behavior personally. Like I said, you just need different friends - friends who are more secure in themselves.

A Leo moon like yours has an unshakable confidence that most of us simply don't have and instinctively envy and feel threatened by. Actually, my best friend is a Virgo sun/Leo moon like you, and she gets A LOT of the same kind of treatment. So does my Cap sun/Leo moon friend. It's a strong combination, but do NOT dim your light - those fools can wear sunglasses. Find people who are on your level.

Like you, I also have Mercury close by the MC, and the Sun in the northern hemisphere too. Having so much light and intellect where the public can see does intimidate others, especially intellectually.

Right now, transit Neptune is squaring your AC/DC. It's also close enough to square your natal Saturn in the 7th, close to your DC.

Chiron is transiting on your IC - wounds around women, home, family, children, heritage.

Today, transit sun is square your natal sun. Transit Jupiter is squaring your natal Jupiter. Transit Uranus is squaring your moon.

Transit Mercury is conjunct your natal Chiron in the 1st. I have Chiron in my 1st too and it hurts.

These transits suck, but almost everyone goes through them at some point and they are TEMPORARY. Use them to grow - make yourself stronger, wiser, a better person - and you will have used them to your advantage.

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JosieC4
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posted December 05, 2023 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JosieC4     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I thought your chart looked familiar! It looks super similar to my best friends chart! I manually input your planets to compare the two.
http://tinyurl.com/2s8nbjjs

She has always struggled with being found intimidating. Hell, even I've been guilty of feeling some type of way around her. It has been a real source of pain for her. Recently things have been amplified. Turned up to 11. Sasha is way more knowledgeable and can probably pinpoint the culprit but I would bet dollars to donuts it's a transit messing with an aspect you and my friend share.

It's cold comfort when you're feeling lonely but hang in there. Your tribe is out there.

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rockwell
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posted December 05, 2023 08:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for rockwell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What a lovely chart! As an Aries moon I love your Leo moon and envy you for your Libra venus and mercury. I had the best adventures and friendships with Virgo suns. Probably because Virgo falls into my 11th house. Honestly, I'd be glad if there were more people like you.

What I see is that your moon falls into your 8th house. You can probably easily feel other people's emotions and might experience yourself intense emotions because 8th house is the natural house of Scorpio. As a Virgo I ask you to not be too self-critically. My grandpa is Virgo and I know that Virgo's can be their own harshest critics.

Pluto in the 12th house. Deep Soul Navigation has excellent videos on YouTube about Pluto placements and ask you to watch her explanation about Pluto in the 12th house. It is really helpful and insightful.

I would also take current transits into account to see what's really going on. Saturn is in Pisces which is the opposite sign of your sun and Mars. There is also late Neptune still in Pisces which made past efforts (Mars) tough and added confusion when it comes to your identity (sun) and thoughts (3rd house).

Saturn in Pisces will go through your 3rd house and could create a heavy and melancholic mind during this period of time. I had this transit and kindly ask you to try everything to stay positive!! Pluto in Aquarius will go into opposition to your Leo moon sign. Not easy but you can handle these transits!!

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itisokay
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posted December 06, 2023 07:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for itisokay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by sashavittoria:

Right now, transit Neptune is squaring your AC/DC. It's also close enough to square your natal Saturn in the 7th, close to your DC.

Chiron is transiting on your IC - wounds around women, home, family, children, heritage.

Today, transit sun is square your natal sun. Transit Jupiter is squaring your natal Jupiter. Transit Uranus is squaring your moon.

Transit Mercury is conjunct your natal Chiron in the 1st. I have Chiron in my 1st too and it hurts.


Having lots of problems with women. Probably someone started rumors about me. I've never had problems like this before. I didn't even realize how much attention I was getting before.
Never thought my placements were such a spotlight.
Leo moon really gives so much self esteem but it also gives so much pain when people ignore or dislike you.

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itisokay
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posted December 06, 2023 08:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for itisokay     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by rockwell:
What a lovely chart! As an Aries moon I love your Leo moon and envy you for your Libra venus and mercury. I had the best adventures and friendships with Virgo suns. Probably because Virgo falls into my 11th house. Honestly, I'd be glad if there were more people like you.

What I see is that your moon falls into your 8th house. You can probably easily feel other people's emotions and might experience yourself intense emotions because 8th house is the natural house of Scorpio. As a Virgo I ask you to not be too self-critically. My grandpa is Virgo and I know that Virgo's can be their own harshest critics.

Pluto in the 12th house. Deep Soul Navigation has excellent videos on YouTube about Pluto placements and ask you to watch her explanation about Pluto in the 12th house. It is really helpful and insightful.

I would also take current transits into account to see what's really going on. Saturn is in Pisces which is the opposite sign of your sun and Mars. There is also late Neptune still in Pisces which made past efforts (Mars) tough and added confusion when it comes to your identity (sun) and thoughts (3rd house).

Saturn in Pisces will go through your 3rd house and could create a heavy and melancholic mind during this period of time. I had this transit and kindly ask you to try everything to stay positive!! Pluto in Aquarius will go into opposition to your Leo moon sign. Not easy but you can handle these transits!!


Hey thank youu

I guess I decide my worth based on how much people adore, like me. It is such a dangerous thing.

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