posted December 28, 2023 11:50 PM
As someone with his 4th house in Scorpio and way too many Pluto aspects, I thought I'd make this post. I have seen enough demand for it and I thought that with Pluto going into Aquarius soon, we'd shed some more light into the behavior of toxic Scorpios.Because let's face it, we have all been there before and are sick and tired of the nonsense modern "Astrologers" put up.
Whether it is a particular "Christian" mod on this site or some Astrologer with her own site playing favorites, we have tried to research the sign of Scorpio. However, all we come across is "ZOMG BRO, THEY IS LIEK THE STRONGEST SIGN AND THEY GO THRU TRANSFORMATIONS AND SHIET, THEY IS GOOD SIGNS AND UR SIGN SUCKS!". I think Astrology itself needs a transformation, how ironic since we are talking Pluto, and I think that it is about time I helped kicked off this much needed transformation. As the Ten Millionth person sick and tired of Modern "Astrologers" playing favorites, here is my guide on dealing with toxic Scorpios.
But why?
I had an abusive Scorpio dad who passed and I don't have much feelings of him. The guy had a Scorpio Sun, Moon, Mercury, and Mars. I also had a Scorpio boss who had a Stellium in the sign but a Libra moon. I have dealt with troublesome Scorpio coworkers. All of them were dealt with by karma in a severe way but I wanted to make this guid for anyone dealing with toxic Scorpios.
The good news.
The thing about toxic Scorpios is that if you do not need them for anything, they are quite easy to avoid. The more you avoid them, the less power they have. The closer you are to a Scorpio that is toxic, the more they can hurt you. In reality, toxic Scorpios cannot really do anything to a person that doesn't need them. However, let's say you have a toxic Scorpio as a boss, coworker, in-law, or someone you have to deal with. How do you do it?
Well, the moronic "Astrologers" (who are mentally ill women with a bias) will never tell you this, so let me tell you instead.
But more good news.
When Pluto enters Aquarius, more and more toxic Scorpios are going to suffer so I say, this is more rubbing salt into the wound.
How to deal with toxic Scorpios when you need to.
For those with a toxic Scorpio in their life, here is the guide.
Step 0 and the most important step, give no value to them or anyone of that sign.
Let me put it this way, as much as as modern Astrologers will disagree with me here. If someone with a March birthday got Stage 4 Pancreatic Cancer, they would likely die. If someone with an early November birthday got Stage 4 Pancreatic Cancer, they would also die. Contrary to what Modern Astrologers claim, being a Scorpio does not make you invincible to crap that would kill and hurt most people.
I know, if you have been fed the poison you have by the lonely or mentally deranged women that pose as Astrologers and happen to have a website around it that comes up around the top of the search on Google, you are prone to believing BS. Here is the reality, it is BS. Modern Astrology and most modern Astrologers are liars that have deceived you.
In reality, Scorpios with toxic traits are the embodiment of all bark no bite. Once the threats hold no weight, they
Step 1, understand the Scorpio better for what it is.
Good Scorpios are powerful people who are capable of great things. Toxic Scorpios are usually cowards that got away with a lot growing up due to dumb luck. Maybe they had rich parents and could get away with things that way. Maybe they picked their targets carefully so they singled out the people who could be reliant on them that they could take advantage of.
Here is the one common trait of all toxic Scorpios, they believe in Astrology. While fire signs and air signs are too busy living life, toxic Scorpios are spamming the internet with nonsense about their sign.
Here is the secret about toxic Scorpios, most people have not confronted them about their BS. The ones who could, well, they never needed them for anything so they were too busy living life to confront them. The idea of a toxic Scorpio being criticized is so foreign because they hide behind their circle of Yes Men, remember that.
Usually, a dead giveaway of a toxic Scorpio is that they come on to you positively if you do not know them. They will try to be overly flattering and have that classic fake smile, something about the smile that you know is not very genuine. At the same time, they will do all of this in private when a lot of others are not around. Their classic hallmark trait is giving unsolicited advice when others are not around.
See the common theme? When others are not around, pay attention to that, because I am giving you an achilles heel to exploit there.
Step 2, almost never greet them with any sort of kindness or niceness.
Kindness to toxic Scorpios is like fresh meat to a hungry predator. When you notice Step 1 and have identified said Scorpio, you take on a certain vibe. Here is how the vibe works:
1 - Speak sternly and bluntly, make it short
2 - Have an angry ****** off "I don't want to speak to you expression" to you
3 - Give short stern angry answers with that hidden angry expression on your face
Usually, the given Scorpio will get the point IF they are smart. If they are not, they will surely face some consequences as we get to later.
This is also important because Scorpios WILL attack you out of the blue. It is important because then, you can just bring it right up in front of others and say "I barely acknowledged you, ignored you when you tried to flatter me, and now this? What are you trying to do here?". They will say "it was just a joke bro", you can then say "oh like that one time you commented on Rayna's weight to me at Happy Hour".
Rayna's Weight can be substituted for anything negative about said mutual friend that you know is lukewarm about said Scorpio at best. The point is, you want to them to know nothing they tell you is safe from public eye. They will usually back off at this point if they are smart.
Step 3, do your research on them at every turn, other people will be on to their sh*t. Dig up those skeletons in their closet!
With a toxic Scorpio, they have likely made enemies before. Probe at that and do some detective work yourself. Look up former employers, exes, and others who have had interactions with them before. Ask them about the given Scorpio at hand. Do a "behind the door" reference check and do not take their yes men and friends for granted.
Certain Scorpios will also have their Yes Men do the duty of looking out for them. Simply call out the behavior in front of the Yes Man and say "the more you try to stop me from learning about Rob from another source, the more I think Rob has to hide and the deeper I will go, get lost". The more they try to prevent you from digging? The more you dig. Report to Law Enforcement and talk to them if needed and let said Scorpio know.
I have told said Scorpios "I am looking to get a Federal Agent to do this for me instead, its either me digging into your life or them, what's it gonna be?". Just the threat of that will send shivers down the spine of a toxic Scorpio.
However, that is extreme. You can just keep digging into details about them as much as possible. One tactic you can do is hire someone to do it for you.
I use this tactic. Find a mutual friend that Scorpio has, someone they are close to. Then find a close friend of said mutual friend. If that close friend does not follow said Scorpio or is close with them, make that close friend your prime reference. Just tell them something like "I think this person is trying to harm a lot of people and I need to do my research as I make my case to Law Enforcement". Said person will open up and tell you about them.
Just keep on doing this, it is going to come in handy.
Step 4, prey on their paranoia and record/document as much as possible.
Usually, with Scorpios, the main way to go is just claim "well past coworkers and women have told me you forced yourself on them" and leave it at that. The more they probe, the quieter you get. If they probe more, then simply say "we can have Law Enforcement look into this and they can give specifics". With toxic Scorpios, more shivers will go down their spine after this. A lot have gotten away with harassing women and as a result, know that this is a major skeleton in their closet. Most of the times, when you center your accusation around this, they get shaken and paranoid because they have tried to hide this.
You can also secretly record them because when they are in private with you, they will say dumb stuff because they are used to getting away with it. The reason is, growing up, very few gave a crap about them.
Later on, use it against them if needed which takes me to Step 5.
Step 5, The Gemini Checkmate.
I call this The Gemini Checkmate for a reason. Gemini rules the 8th house of Scorpio which is where Scorpios figuratively speaking, go to "die". Why is this?
Well, Gemini is the messenger sign of information. In other words, the Gemini brings out the skeletons in the closet of the Scorpio. The Gemini checkmates the Scorpio, despite the garbage any of the "Modern Astrologers" tell you. Geminis make it hard for Scorpios to sleep at night.
So what is exactly is The Gemini Checkmate?
It is when you bring up all accusations and recordings of the Scorpio and put it out for the world to see. You can do it at a group event or in front of a lot people for maximum hurt.
You bring it up out of the blue, ideally in front of anyone said Scorpio is trying to impress. They will break apart.
A Toxic Scorpio's Achille's heel is their sense of privacy being destroyed. Once they realize that someone is playing detective with their lives, they will start to break apart even more.
Some MIGHT resort to violence out of nowhere like catching you in a parking lot but let me put it this way, they cannot fight in most cases. You just have to run to safety as a worst case scenario but this is the "Scorpio Revenge", trying to catch you out of nowhere in a foolish impulsive way and then hope they can play victim front of a judge. Most of the times, this will be their end of the road and a lot of times, their damage will not be that significant.
You will have a minor scratch if that.
Lindaland
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posted December 28, 2023 11:50 PM
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