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posted January 17, 2024 08:19 AM            

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Men with Gemini, Sag and Pisces are dead certain to catch my attention! I mean, weak in the knees attention. Depending on my DOB, Pisces is my DSC so that's self explanatory. Ruler of Pisces being Neptune in Sag? Perhaps. Gemini? Cannot be found in my Natal even if you searched with a magnifying glass! Maybe it's my Virgo Mars that finds Gemini hot? The tension? However, in Vedic I'm a Gemini Sun stellium 11H and in Draconic I have a Gem Moon 5H.

Anyway, it struck me odd yesterday that a person like Gerard Butler, with a chart that's VERY sweet together with mine, disgusts me. I think he's just.....he just rubs me the wrong way. And this happens alot with me! People I have the hardest time with have Cancer, Cap and Scorpio. They SHOULD work, but it always feels wrong. Chills up the spine wrong.

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posted January 17, 2024 12:29 PM            

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I always seem to attract gemini placements (I am gem sun and rising) and any capricorn placements (opposite my cancer sun) and aquas (maybe due to my air moon/rising), on the other hand I cannot stand pisces (supposedly my perfect match, or other cancers)

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posted January 17, 2024 03:06 PM            

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Have you checked the chart rulers and their aspects to each other or to significant planets in your respective charts? Or aspects from and to Pluto and the personal planets?

There is someone I find super hot. We have rather incompatible aspects at first glance, but then looking further we have lots of Pluto aspects (Sun-Pluto double whammy, moon-pluto double whammy, venus square Pluto and a venus square mars both ways) that indicates a strong sexual attraction. I was never much into Aquas but he is an Aqua sun and Aries moon which is so not up my alley. But the attraction is due to the aspects between our sexual planets. Oh and a exact sun-eros conjunction .

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posted January 17, 2024 09:56 PM            

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I'm a mostly Yang chart so other Yang people really attract me!

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posted January 18, 2024 08:38 AM            

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I think it may vary from person to person or how they are with their transits, how life is effecting them at any given time.

For me, I've been attracted to people according to their ruling planet, if my sensitivity at the time was triggered in my chart to that planet. Most commonly for me mars, mercury or pluto. I'd see them in an attractive light.

When seeking another for something "special within", they themselves might be short of or even without. Like person one has no earth, person two might be around them often with strong earth and person one realizes how stabilizing person two is. It would lead to attraction, as opposed to instant attraction.
Person two may well see how this void in this "other" is different, maybe more airy. Less grounded, then there may be a recognition how they may be needed. Attraction comes in many ways.
Subtle things in a chart that might be appealing to the people involved.

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posted January 18, 2024 10:36 AM            

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Originally posted by MoonMystic:
I think it may vary from person to person or how they are with their transits, how life is effecting them at any given time.

For me, I've been attracted to people according to their ruling planet, if my sensitivity at the time was triggered in my chart to that planet. Most commonly for me mars, mercury or pluto. I'd see them in an attractive light.

When seeking another for something "special within", they themselves might be short of or even without. Like person one has no earth, person two might be around them often with strong earth and person one realizes how stabilizing person two is. It would lead to attraction, as opposed to instant attraction.
Person two may well see how this void in this "other" is different, maybe more airy. Less grounded, then there may be a recognition how they may be needed. Attraction comes in many ways.
Subtle things in a chart that might be appealing to the people involved.

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I get this, absolutely! I'm wondering if perhaps since I have a difficult chart, I tend to avoid anything that even resembles myself and instead, I project attraction to what's the complete opposite. So instead of working on myself and maybe, as an example, have a nice time with a Cap sun, I run away from them and gravitate towards an easygoing Gemini.

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