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Topic: Is Virgo a patient sign?
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Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 4122 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted February 26, 2024 08:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by Preppyarcher7989Wiff: I mean this in the most polite way possible. Virgo is ruled by Mercury, which is anything but slow and patient. Mercury is related to anxiety. I'm not saying it's impossible, but most anxious people aren't patient.
yeah that's a fair point. you wouldn't have offended me even if you didn't mean it politely lol no worries. 😁 i'm very patient with other people, i've been told as much. stuff like standing in a line or waiting to do something myself or me taking a long time to figure something out is where i fail. i only have my sun there in tropical in mutual reception with my leo mercury etc and so on. i can be anxious and such but it's generally a private thing and im more likely to be made anxious if i hate the lighting in a room than by another person taking a while to do something or whatever. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 4122 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted February 26, 2024 08:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by SleepyDiary: Sorry but i don`t find complainers to be "patient" people whether they kept their mouths shut or not and this Sign is hands down one of the biggest complainers i have ever dealt with. It`s always something wrong with everything when it comes to these guys in my experience. They criticize their friends to their family or to a friend about another friend of theirs or a colleague it`s always something "wrong" with everything and everyone around them.
tbf no one's perfect so naturally something would be wrong with everyone. you probably think the same if youre honest, doubt you've met or are surrounded by perfect people. IP: Logged |
Preppyarcher7989Wiff Knowflake Posts: 182 From: United States Registered: Jan 2024
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posted February 26, 2024 11:55 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: tbf no one's perfect so naturally something would be wrong with everyone. you probably think the same if youre honest, doubt you've met or are surrounded by perfect people.
I wasn't offended by what SleepyDiary said but then again I'm not a Sun in Virgo/Virgo!
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Preppyarcher7989Wiff Knowflake Posts: 182 From: United States Registered: Jan 2024
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posted February 26, 2024 11:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by arcturus90: Some Virgo are more patient or faithful than others. My Virgo pen friend is one of the most faithful person I know
I think that some Virgos have other things in their charts too that make them, or at least help push them forward, being a bit more impatient than other Virgos! Or even other people! ------------------ Happiness is easy to find. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 26786 From: Here Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 27, 2024 12:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by Preppyarcher7989Wiff: I wasn't offended by what SleepyDiary said but then again I'm not a Sun in Virgo/Virgo!
I don't think she was offended. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 4122 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted February 27, 2024 02:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by Preppyarcher7989Wiff: I wasn't offended by what SleepyDiary said but then again I'm not a Sun in Virgo/Virgo!
why would i think you were offended? my assumption was you don't have virgo though even if you did that's not a reason for offense. i wasn't offended either i just found it funny because it's clearly disingenuous, it's a criticism about other people for saying a universal truth. no one is perfect, and no one experiences anyone else as perfect, we're all flawed and that's accepted as a fact. if everyone is flawed then something is wrong with everyone, to critique someone for noticing/saying something you yourself likely see as a truth (if you're being honest) and deny that it's a truth is disingenuous/hypocritical. just find it funny, not offensive, was pointing out the hypocrisy so she realizes she also thinks that of people. i don't know her to care what she thinks in an offended way, she can't speak about me as a person so it's not personal that she's making a generalization of a sign. i know im not like that 🤷♀️ IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 4122 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted February 27, 2024 02:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by teasel: I don't think she was offended.
i wasn't, you know me well. 😁 IP: Logged |
Dumuzi Knowflake Posts: 4122 From: Registered: Oct 2018
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posted February 27, 2024 03:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: why would i think you were offended? my assumption was you don't have virgo though even if you did that's not a reason for offense. i wasn't offended either i just found it funny because it's clearly disingenuous, it's a criticism about other people for saying a universal truth. no one is perfect, and no one experiences anyone else as perfect, we're all flawed and that's accepted as a fact. if everyone is flawed then something is wrong with anyone, to critique someone for noticing/saying something you yourself likely see as a truth (if you're being honest) is disingenuous. just find it funny, not offensive, was pointing out the hypocrisy so she realizes she also thinks that of people. i don't know her to care what she thinks in an offended way, she can't speak about me as a person so it's not personal that she's making a generalization of a sign. i know im not like that 🤷♀️
+ to put it in western astrology terms so you might get a clearer idea of how my mind/emotions work my moon/mercury/uranus are all trine each other, and there's a good deal of detachment. i don't assume sleepy thinks literally every person with virgo in their chart is the same, but is talking in terms of "when i experience this behavior this is the common thing i find" which isn't really the same at all, and again it's impersonal (i have a very specific kind of headache/frustration i associate with talking to people who have virgo mercury for example, 9 out of 10 times i'm right when i feel it and guess that 🤷♀️ but some virgo mercuries arent that way) i just found it amusing because it's the sort of thing that if we're being honest is widely accepted as true and ok, everyone does in fact have something wrong with them, and it's perfectly fine that they do because that's just the natural state of existence. perfection doesn't exist, so it's alright to be flawed. everyone has stuff wrong with them, it's just typically not a big deal that they do unless you're an unreasonable person. you're a bit quick to assume there's a lot of feelings where there's not, and the rest was projection that didn't really make sense... and i just remembered there's edit buttons here so i didn't have to write another post but it's too late now. IP: Logged |
Preppyarcher7989Wiff Knowflake Posts: 182 From: United States Registered: Jan 2024
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posted March 01, 2024 06:07 PM
I guess Taurus and Capricorn are more patient, to people here!------------------ Happiness is easy to find. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 9034 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 02, 2024 09:59 AM
They are a who the **** asked you? sign. IP: Logged |
Librapurr Knowflake Posts: 2496 From: Registered: Jul 2019
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posted March 02, 2024 02:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dumuzi: nah if i have a problem i'll usually say it directly to the person, but most of the time i don't generally have an issue and it takes years for a behavior to annoy me. 🤷♀️im not patient about things like being on a line or something but with other people i have plenty of patience because im generally hard to bother.
It sounds more accurate for me. I could tolerate some things for years before It hits me that’s not ok. But I have some things I could be pretty impatient about. IP: Logged |
Preppyarcher7989Wiff Knowflake Posts: 182 From: United States Registered: Jan 2024
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posted March 02, 2024 03:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by Stawr: They are a who the **** asked you? sign.
LOL. ------------------ Happiness is easy to find. IP: Logged |
mee_chryssa Knowflake Posts: 1168 From: Romania Registered: Jun 2020
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posted March 03, 2024 12:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: A mild energy. And not at all on a bad way. So patient too. Yes👌🏿The ones I dated were very attentive to what my love language is. Not the type to freak out easily, plain in dressing style and very much antithetical to what I read about them I.e. fussy, critical, faultfinding to the point of being obsessive. So my Sag Sun was drawn to that. Sag likes chilled out folks. One had Libra moon with Ven/Mars conj in Virgo. Another had Sun/Moon in Virgo with Venus in house 1 Leo. Both very easy going guys.No frills or fuss. I think I was the problem in both relationships. I had a lot of career issues at the time that affected my presence in both relationships. I was not a good boyfriend. 😶 So I hit one up recently to apologize for my role in the breakup of our relationship. We got to talking. He got married. I can't get hold of the other one. But I will do the same with him once we meet. Both were very sweet. I can't fault either one. 🙏🏿
aries, so you are a guy. I never knew for sure. I had a doubt that you might be a guy or bi... never been sure of anything. When you mentioned about mercury in the 7th house when you make the Moon your ASC, as in the moon chart... mercury in the 7th could lead to bi-sexuallity or homosexuality. I had a doubt then too, but I wasn't sure of your gender... adding the mars in libra and 8th house Saturn.. IP: Logged |