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Topic: How doi stick with things -gemini dominated
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Hmmm
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posted February 26, 2024 05:32 PM
  
I attached my chart for clarity
But almost certain gemini is the culprit
I always say I'm gonna do this supper ridged routine and I'm never gonna mess up...and it varies but it usually doesn't last very long.How can I follow through with things and see them to their completion I set measurable goals (ie. A week month etc) but can never make it ...usually come close but never quite all the way And if I do I up the intensity instead of acknowledging I made it and should feel proud... This is a serious problem for me so please be considerate when responding.
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my chart
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Preppyarcher7989Wiff
Knowflake Posts: 187
From: United States
Registered: Jan 2024
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posted February 26, 2024 06:01 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Hmmm:
I attached my chart for clarity
But almost certain gemini is the culprit
I always say I'm gonna do this supper ridged routine and I'm never gonna mess up...and it varies but it usually doesn't last very long.How can I follow through with things and see them to their completion I set measurable goals (ie. A week month etc) but can never make it ...usually come close but never quite all the way And if I do I up the intensity instead of acknowledging I made it and should feel proud... This is a serious problem for me so please be considerate when responding.
Thx
Oh dear. I think it's Gemini and Pisces that can be far too mutable for their taste. For me some people need a certain amount of color, or spice, every once in awhile, to keep sane! Even the most flat, and mundane, person, needs 'fun,' 'excitement,' and 'fire,' every once in awhile! My point is that no one is rigid all the time. But yeah repetition will help you if you need daily activities! ------------------
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Dons2angelss
Knowflake Posts: 1221
From: Virginia, US
Registered: Jan 2019
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posted February 26, 2024 09:14 PM
I can't see the image you posted just fyi
I only have a gemini ascendant and north node but I relate to this a lot. I used to be that way. When I set a goal for myself it's like the more I pushed for it, the more it would crumble before my eyes. After years of this I just stopped setting like that altogether. It was like life was teaching me to slow down, take my time, and to just enjoy the moment. I ONLY set tiny goals that will eventually lead me to a bigger picture (literally like I'm tricking myself into thinking it's only a little thing) and it seems to be working. I kind of dissect the end goal into a bunch of little steps. If the goal was to have a more toned body or whatever, I'd start with "ok, I'm just going to do 5 squats a day". Literally just 5 squats, then work up to "ok, I'm going to add on a 5 minute jog" until I had a good routine down but each step was added gradually. I have to do that with almost everything I do. Otherwise, I'd rebel against myself and just blow the whole thing up.I can't see where Uranus is in your chart but I suspect it may be prominent or aspecting something personal. Aquarius is my MC and Uranus is in my 7th conjunct descendant and south node so yeah, all the internal rebellion. IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted February 26, 2024 09:26 PM
i can't do routines at all unless i have to for someone else personally, but honestly i think it's not realistic at all to set some goal like that. you'll never be able to do that every day because life happens, better to just try to do stuff most of the time instead of always. consistency doesnt mean perfection IP: Logged |
Dumuzi
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posted February 26, 2024 09:28 PM
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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
i can't do routines at all unless i have to for someone else personally, but honestly i think it's not realistic at all to set some goal like that. you'll never be able to do that every day because life happens, better to just try to do stuff most of the time instead of always. consistency doesnt mean perfection
+ i don't have any gemini btw i'm just garbage at routines and have learned that being mostly consistent to some degree still works out without unnecessary stress and strain IP: Logged |
teasel
Knowflake Posts: 26798
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 26, 2024 09:37 PM
I'm terrible with routines, too. I just can't do it. IP: Logged |
Stawr
Moderator Posts: 9034
From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 03, 2024 10:02 AM
for me its my obsessive Scorpio moon conjunct pluto in the 6th house
and my Capricorn energy that does not let my Gemini rising and Aries sun eff around too much. Get you a planner with a to-do list. You will obsess and go crazy until you can cross it off your list it can be anything. Big, important, sometimes I put "do nothing" on my to do list. I also want to put on my list things I want to do that I really don't have time for...I will get down time at some point and that way I don't waste it. IP: Logged |
Preppyarcher7989Wiff
Knowflake Posts: 187
From: United States
Registered: Jan 2024
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posted March 04, 2024 01:02 PM
I don't know if I'm terrible at routines, or just depressed? Capricorn stellium? LMAO! ------------------
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DualGemV2
Knowflake Posts: 1180
From: Toronto, Ontario
Registered: Aug 2016
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posted March 04, 2024 03:07 PM
I use to be that way, now my issue is i'm getting involved with too many different things happening at the same time.As a start I'd get an organizer, you know yourself best and how much time it takes you to do things, use that as an estimate on how to schedule your time. Next you need a way to motivate yourself to keep yourself going. I don't recommend you have the same motivation as me, as a Cancer Mars Square Aries mooner there's lots of people that drive me nuts!!!. If I quietly stay focused on my goal(s) and if by achieving that goal it puts me in a better position while the people that annoy me are getting weaker....then that's a strong motivation to stick to the goal. Harness the energies in your chart to find a way to keep yourself focused. My Planets
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