posted April 14, 2024 05:50 AM            

When my progressed Venus made exact semisextile to natal ascendant, man took contact to me via dating app. After two weeks sending messages back and forth we met and spent night together. It was also my first time. So that was big thing for me.

At the same time my natal 7th house ruler was applying exact conjunction to my 7th house cusp and transiting Pluto was trining Jupiter, that is old ruler of Pisces. Also Chiron was leaving 7th house simultaneously.

Only problem is that I don’t really feel anything else than mildly positive feeling towards him. When we met I realised that his photo was 5 to 10 years old and as he looked significantly older. Also during our time together I started to wondering if he has some kind of eating disorder. He is very sex oriented and would like to do it outside (public) etc. things that I don’t agree. Also his messages are suggestive of sex when there is only a chance. I think that's also part of the relationship, but there are those conversations even in the middle of everyday things. It’s uncomfortable for me. I am also concerned about his attitude towards women. I think I will end this soon.

I’m just wondering if this is how the universe brings potential relationships to people. I was expecting to fall in love when Neptune entered to my 7th. We just spent this weekend together when it happened and nothing. Can some comment or share experiences? Did I miss something from my chart that could explain this?

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posted April 20, 2024 04:50 AM            

I think this might be Jupiter transiting through my 8th house also. When we met and had sex Jupiter was still in 8th. 12 years ago I has also awakening or growth related to sexuality. But it wasn't enough to let anyone touch me.Now, I have been in therapy for years and have gained basic security in my life, so this part of life was finally able to open up. Even though he was not what he was in the pictures, I still decided to go ahead with him.

I don't think there is any concern about rising kundalini. Our time together has not been so great.

I have lived my whole life under the influence of Neptune and had my share of romantic illusions The biggest problem is attachment relationship trauma, which I have had to deal with as an adult. However, it seems that every time Neptune is brought out when looking at my chart, the same things that would be normal for others is denied from me. I don't want any fantasy love, just an everyday life.

However, I want to love someone else. Now I'm surprised that such a person didn't come into my life: I don't feel anything towards this man. This is more of a rational choice. But at the same time something big happened here <3 as I was able to be intimate with another person. I'm happy about that.

posted April 20, 2024 01:28 PM            

Work became harder and heavier. I guess around September-October, I found out that my job was going to be terminated. It was a complete surprise. I resigned around mid-November. I just tried to get through the rest of the year. I started a grant period in early February 2023 because I'm an artist. Saturn was in exact conjunction with the moon on January 29th. The grant period was a blessing and relief for me. The time before that was terrible in a way, and it was a struggle with my former employer.

posted April 21, 2024 05:39 AM            

That year(2022),your prog Moon was in Can 20. So it was arcing to react with your natal Sat/Plu in Lib.That means that that year was going to be centred around intense (Plu) emotional(Moon) contraction(Sat) that were going to be intertwined with 5th house themes(Sat ruling 5th house)

Note also that Plu was trans Cap that year. It was moving between 26-28 Cap.So there is that double emphasis of strong emotions.

In April, prog Moon was at 23 Can.This moon was arcing to square natal Sat/Plu Lib. Plu was opp your prog Moon too.

This marks a contraction or "ending" of things in their current state OR the "levelling up" to a new state(Plu).But it also speaks of the need to stop living a life that is going nowhere (Sat) and become more "realistic".

Around Sep/Oct,prog Moon 29Can was in tight aspect to square his Sat Lib29 and Plu 27. Trans Pluto was retro at Cap26 too. That would have been intense.

So yes, there would have been conditions there that talk of "endings". The shock of your job folding would be consistent with that as both Plu and Sat is about "endings".

But with that ending, would also be feelings of insecurity about the future and making the necessary adjustments to ensure that you survive.

These adjustments would be emphasized very heavily by Jan/Feb 2023, then trans Saturn would have been conjunct your Moon and opp your Sun. Financially,that would have been a lean time indeed as Sun/Moon-Sat aspects are generally rarely ever comfortable.

Progressed Moon arced to Leo 6Degrees in March 2023 and was conjunct your natal Mars. Thiss was the month you said you last saw the man you were involved with. Sometimes Moon/Mars aspects suggests close ties (Moon) being severed (Mars).

I don't think he cared for you. When someone you love gains weight and you are no longer interested, that to me suggests that you didn't love them for who they were.But how well they fitted into your fantasies.

I saw an ex just a couple of months ago. He had gained weight from when last we dated. And to confirm that I think I still have feelings for him, I kept on thinking "I would still snatch that"🤣
So no,physical changes don't alter true deep feelings. Not at all.

That Neptune transit to opp your Merc 26 Vir and Nep 26 Sag square, will not make things steady for while. This especially on the career front (Merc rules Mc and trans Nep will be square it).

When it's transiting the 7th house,it will also not make you see things clearly. So watch out for deception and tricks from others(7th).

I am curious as to what will happen When prog Moon in Leo 19 arcs to opp Moon Aqua 25 and conj Sun 29Leo around Oct-Dec this year 2024?

That Neptune will start be in the 7th opposite your Asc . So there is still vigilance to be practiced in terms of relationships with others of ALL kinds.

But that Moon(ruling the intercepted 10th house) and placed in 5th house, could suggest that career (10th) and ones creativity (5th) is affected.

Since 5th is also about romance, could it be "romance (5th) at work (10th)" that perhaps one should be careful of because (at worst) it will drain/confuse them in some way(Nep in 7th)?Hmmmm....🤔

Add to That,transiting Plu will retro and be in Cap 29 to square your natal Saturn(5th house ruler) and natal Plu.

Could this be a career related situation that changes things irrevocably? Because since you are an artist by profession, 10th house intercepted Cancer(career) ruler(Moon) is in the 5th house of creativity.