posted September 29, 2024 07:17 PM            

I feel like I had a weak sense of self, as a child! But, finally, now at age 35, do I have a solid sense of self!

posted September 29, 2024 09:00 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I think I have a pretty solid sense of self, with occasional surprises, both for better and for worse. Very occasional.

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For me, I think it's my Mars in the 1st house 'square' Saturn in Capricorn. A limited (Saturn) and delayed (Saturn) sense of self (1st house, Mars in the 1st house) until I am older. Pretty much bordering on mental illness.

It make sense why my sense of self was delayed until after age 30, or so. How Saturnian of the universe to give me such a placement!

posted September 29, 2024 10:05 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
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Thank you for letting me read your response before you delete! It was very refreshing and knowledgeable!

posted September 29, 2024 10:07 PM            

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Originally posted by frida:
Perhaps Pisces, 12th house or Neptune influence too? Because it’s hard to set boundaries between self and others and at some point everything gets mixed.

I have a Moon in the 12th house. I read at some point that can mean that the person feels like they want to be everywhere at the same time and blend in with everything and everyone (12th house is also a house of masses). Something like that could indicate a lack of sense of identity perhaps. (Not in my case though, my Moon is in Leo etc… but wanting to be everywhere at the same time and blend with everything is true for me). Hm, that’s good for actors I think.

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Well, I never thought that my Pisces rising would play such a huge part in this! Yes, I have a Pisces rising! It explains why soft sense of self all the way until now, and the transit of Saturn in Pisces is solidifying (Saturn) my sense of self (1st house/Pisces rising)!